Sooo I know Sanka doesn't really like his mom exactly, is that why he leans towards more girls? Or does he just have really bad luck with women?
Sanka dislikes women because he sees all women as untrustworthy and conniving.
Now, if a girl manages to change his mind, he has no problem pursuing that or being friends, but it’s tough to get on his good side.
He also got bullied alot by girls when he was younger. And it’s the whole “boys inflict physical wounds that heal. Girls damage you psychologically” thing.
This sounds dumb but I’ve decided I’m allowed to like languages without learning them. I’m allowed to learn languages just for the sake of it. I don’t need to reach C2 and have the linguistic prowess of Shakespeare in everything I do.
I mean sure there are some languages I want to reach ‘fluency’ in, and it’s something I’m working toward. But this is a hobby. This is fun. I don’t even take myself seriously in my native language, so why am I so uptight about perfection in my target languages?
Time to take a chill pill and just enjoy the journey.