Hey so I know this isnt a voltron ask but what is a cis? I cant understand what google says but based on my understanding is it a straight female or male? Im not trying to be offensive im just confused??
I am literally the worst person to ask for a definition. I am not a native speaker and I don’t know the right words to describe it. All I can say, is, that it’s not about being straight or gay or whatever, because I am definitly not straight at all. Maybe you should ask a blogger whose first language is english about this topic or search for it here on tumblr. It’s about gender and I don’t want to say more, because I’m afraid I might describe it the wrong way and everybody will be mad at me :D
Request: can you do an aaron carpenter imagine where you guys meet on a plane and you dont really know who he is but he starts to like you and meets you after the flight, you like each other, etc.
Holding my bag in my hand I’m walking towards the plane with my boarding
pass in my other hand. It’s my first time ever flying alone and I’m a bit
nervous something might go wrong. I walk up the stairs slowly and then the nice
flight attendant checks my ticket and then gestures towards the seats.
“Okay, 23B,” I say to myself reading the numbers as I walk further in
I finally find it and then take my seat that’s next to the window
luckily. I love watching the clouds and it makes me calmer during the flight.
It feels like I’m flying myself.
I quickly type a message to my dad that I’m on the plane and then put it
into airplane mode. More and more people are flowing into the plane with their
bags and suitcases while I just sit there, blinking around like a lost little
bunny. Maybe because I might be one.
I start humming an unknown song as I stare out of the window looking at
the busy airport in front of my eyes. People in bright yellow vests are going
everywhere, making sure everything is perfectly fine with the planes. I bite
into my bottom lip sighing and then I check the time. We still have 10 minutes
before taking off.
I start fumbling with my belt when someone takes the seat next to me.
23A has arrived.
I turn to my left and see a young guy with a beanie on his head and a backpack
in his hands. He seems tired, but when he notices that I’m watching him he
“Hey,” he greets me.
“Hi,” I say shyly and then just turn back to the window. I feel my
cheeks heating up, because he is quite a good-looking guy, and the fact that I’m
being seated next to him for the next about five hours is just one of the best
things that can happen to me.
I feel his eyes on me as he makes himself comfy putting his bag down to
his feet, but I just glance at him a few times, not wanting to seem like a
“So, I’m Aaron, by the way.” He holds his right hand out for me and I
nervously shake it flashing a smile at him.
“Y/N. Nice to meet you.”
“First time flying?” he asks pulling his phone out of his pocket putting
it to airplane mode just like I did not so long ago.
“Um, no. Just first time alone,” I admit tugging my hair behind my ears
and I finally look at him for more than just a second. God, he is handsome!
“Why are you going to LA?” he asks putting the phone away and turning
completely to me.
“I’m visiting my dad. I’m staying two weeks.”
“Really? I’m going back to New York in two weeks too. Maybe we’ll be on
the same flight.” He chuckles softly, and then one of the flight attendants
starts greeting us, so we stop talking while she tells the most important
A few minutes later the plane starts moving and I suck on my breath
closing my eyes for a minute.
“Relax,” I hear Aaron’s voice. I open my eyes and look at his smiley
face. He must have flown million times, he is so calm. “Taking off is the
scariest part, but if you don’t concentrate on the fact that you are leaving
the ground it’s totally fun.”
“How is it fun?” I ask furrowing my eyebrows as the plane stops at a
“Do you like roller-coasters?” he asks with a small smile on his
perfectly shaped lips. I nod my head. “Well, I like to imagine I’m riding on
one, because the feeling is similar. Okay, come on. Just imagine we are in
Disney Land and this is like the coolest ride in the whole park.”
The plane starts speeding up on the runway and closing my eyes I do as
Aaron told me. It really feels like on a roller-coaster, and when the plane
leaves the ground it’s like the grand finale of the ride.
“See? We are already up in the air,” he says smiling at me nicely.
“Thanks,” I giggle. “Do you travel a lot?”
“You can say that.” He chuckles softly and when he licks his lips I feel
my face getting red immediately.
God, why am I so awkward?
“How come? I mean, we are about the same age and I travel like twice a
“Well, it’s kind of part of my job. I’m… I don’t like to use this word,
but I’m kind of famous, I have a lot of followers on Vine and now I’m having
events all around the country.”
“Oh shit,” I mumble widening my eyes. “That sounds… amazing! I’m not
really into Vine, so I’m sorry I didn’t recognize you.” I start laughing
awkwardly, even though it’s totally stupid.
“Don’t worry, I’m glad you didn’t know me. It would have been more
awkward if you knew me.”
We start talking about everything. Aaron tells me about his career and
then he asks me about what I like to do and then the conversation just brings
itself on. It’s easy to talk to him and time flies by quickly in this great
company. I was afraid I would be so bored on this flight, but Aaron just made
it ten times better than I was expecting it to be. These five hours pass by as
if it was only one, and before I can realize it we are already on the ground
“Here.” He helps me get out of my seat and we head into the building
together. “So your dad is picking you up?”
“Yeah, he should be here by now,” I say turning my phone back and I see
a text from him saying he is waiting for me at the terminal. “What about you?”
“A car should be here for me, don’t worry,” he says smiling at me.
We walk through the gate together and then I see my dad waiting in the
corner for me. But before I head to him I turn to Aaron.
“It was nice to spend these 5 hours with you.” I smile at him, but I’m
also a bit sad that the flight is over.
“It was a pleasure. Have a great time in LA.”
“Thanks.” I wave at him and then start walking towards my dad, but then
I remember I didn’t even ask for his full name. “Wait, wha- Oh.” By the time I
turn around he is nowhere to be seen. I’m disappointed that this is the last
time I met him, and that I only know his first name.
I make my way through the crowd, three men offers me to take me home
with taxi, but I just walk straight to my dad.
“Hey Sweetie. Is everything okay?” he smiles down at me pressing a kiss
to my head.
“Yeah. Everything is fine.”
He takes my bag and then we go out to his car, leaving the airport
behind, the place where I thought I would see Aaron last time in my life.
my best friend is making some really bad decisions. she is dating this guy that keeps lying to her. she found out that he beat his ex and he keeps lying and saying he didn't. i told her that she's not allowed to date him bc of that but she won't listen. i don't want her to get into an abusive relationship bc i truly care about her but she won't listen. what do i do?
It’s possible that you telling her that she’s “not allowed to” could make her want to more. I would maybe tell her you don’t approve, but not order her. A lot of people don’t respond to being told what to do. Voice your concerns in a controlled, positive way, instead of a controlling and negative manner. It’s amazing that you’re looking out for her, I just think you might be expressing it the wrong way. Also, keep an eye on the situation. If he abuses her in any way, report it. Please report it. Even if you think she’ll be mad at you, it’s better to protect her. Good luck, love.
There's a way to fix the transparency issue but it can get a bit tedious. Basically you separate each plane into its own layer, and change the order. You work from the outside in, with the hairs on the outside the furthest layer down. S4S has a post.
Well, I don’t think that will work unless you have the original file you used to create it, I might be wrong though! But separating each layer is something almost impossible unless you do it from the beginning. I know how to fix some parts that have transparency issues, but IMVU hairs are literally ALL of the hair, so it’s not possible :(
Me:okay so my sexuality's a complicated deal so let's just call me queer as hell
Friend:nono I wanna know can't you explain it
Me:well ok mainly I am asexual which means I don't want to do the do nor do I long for it, so it has nothing to do with lack of confidence or anything like that, I simply don't find anyone sexually attractive
Me:but I'm also bi romantic. The sexual and romantic attraction are different, and I still fall in love and want to have physical contact with my partner, I just don't need the hanky panky
Friend:right cause you have a girlfriend that's pansexual right
Me:exactly and as long as we're both happy with not doing the rumba naked, that's a valid relationship
Friend:I get it, I get it... I didn't know the entire sexual and romantic orientations were different
Me:yeah I know it was an eyeopener for me when I found ou-
Lady behind us in line:excuse me so sorry but I couldn't help but overhear but I didn't know half of what you just said and I was just wondering what that thing your girlfriend was is, pansexual?
Me:*awkward glance at friend* oh uh I'm not an expert or anything and uh ok so basically it's similar to being bisexual, but there's less value in what gender the one you're attracted to is, at least as I understood it. So a bisexual would be attracted to a person despite their gender, a pansexual wouldn't really care at all in a way uh I'm sorry I'm bad at explaining
Lady behind us in line:that's alright I can look it up myself later you gave me a general idea! So where did you find out these things, you're pretty young?
Me:well, Internet. Once you're a bit confused about what you might be you usually go looking for explanations...
Lady behind us in line:so uh in theory... It's fine if you don't know, I just want to check with you... Is there a thing called aROMANTIC? like you're asexual, is there a equivalent to the romantic orientation you mentioned?
Me:oh yeah, absolutely! You can be both asexual and aromantic, or aromantic and heterosexual, literally all combinations are possible!
Lady behind us in line:*smiles LIKE REALLY GODDAMNED GENUINELY* thank you so much, I did not know that. *fishes up phone from pocket* now if you excuse me, I'm going to call my mother and tell her I'm not crazy for never having been married or stayed with one guy for long despite being 50+ but still has three children! *steps out of line and walks off while dialing*
Friend:wow that was... Amazing
Me:see how happy she got? That's the power of right information.
And that's why I've been smiling since this happened.