It teaches me that swollen eyes and hospital visits per your partner exist, but I do not have to exist beside them.  That it comes from the mouths and the nonverbal cues of any age, race, religion, any gender. It teaches you how sometimes you carry trauma through quiet.  Through plummeting self-esteem and not calling your friends back and shrinking at the intonation of someone’s voice.  Through crying too many days and nights, until you stop pretending and realize you’re not actually fine.  From an ulcer like a bound butterfly, to chest pains at work that fold your knees in like a prayer to something you never even believed in, just to make it stop, just to get back to a person that you thought lived underneath this all, the person ‘before.’  It teaches me the necessity to set boundaries, that healthy compromise is never the same thing as gaslighting someone/(being gaslit) into your own/(their) opinion.  Most importantly, it teaches me about myself.  How I am not to blame for through it I remained soft and honest, how I am not to blame simply because I reflected my own empathy onto them, how I am not to blame for being deliberately broken down and manipulated, all the while only trying to love them.  After eleven months, it teaches me that I leave or I die.  That I am the most resilient person I know.  That I still choose to be kind.  Every day, no matter how futile it seems, not matter how difficult.  Lastly, it taught me how to let go.  It taught me never again to hold onto someone who nine times out of ten wouldn’t even reach for me. That I will find a different person, someone better and therefore more beautiful, who looks at and touches me so gently, who will melt into a kiss and mean it, who will hold my shaking body some nights as I continue to grow into myself after everything I’ve been through, someone that I will believe truly and fully loves me, because for the very first time I will be able to differentiate it.
—  What Emotional Abuse Teaches You About Love,
valentina thompson  (ig: x, yt: x)

anonymous asked:

Okay, but tell us what would have cedric's character done had he lived. Do you have any alternative universe in mind?

ok this is probs definitely gonna a bit hedric-y but what else would u expect from me…

cedric lives - idk how let’s ignore that minor detail for now, pettigrew doesn’t cast a killing curse it’s something else, something  powerful and horrible but not necessarily fatal and idk who cares basically he lives 

harry still brings his body back but only it’s his unconscious body not his dead one and he gets taken to the hospital wing. and when he comes to he sees cho and his parents and they tell him what happened, that he got injured in the maze. they tell him “potter’s gone mad, the poor boy - keeps saying you-know-who is back” and cedric thinks. ok he doesn’t wanna believe it, it can’t be true…but ??? it makes sense. that portkey wasn’t part of the task and that thing in pettigrew’s arms…voldemort….he can’t be back right??but then his family leave and dumbledore comes to see him and they don’t say anything for a bit until cedric asks if it’s true and when dumbledore tells him about the order he signs up immediately because of course he does he’s cedric-too-good-for-this-world-diggory 

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anonymous asked:

Cualidades de un tauro ♉

Sus cualidades, solo pocas personas las pueden ver:

-Fuertes de voluntad
-Dotados de gran fuerza física y psíquica

Entre muchas cosas más…. 😘



Matty’s tattoos are honestly one of my favorite things about him. They’re so beautiful and yet have such deep meanings. I’ve never found tattoos to be so appealing, but Matty has certainly changed that. These, of course, are just a few of the ones he has.  He has an anchor on his arm along with a cross and a flower on his legs.


Love today feels closer to the lotto than the corner liquor store parking lot at 4am high off the touch of your skin. To think I would’ve even voluntarily been awake before the sun feels closer to that anomaly too. And then I meet you. I grow closer to you. And I fall and I fall—trying so hard not to, trying so hard not to pave a path for any more hurt—and then I pick myself up for you, every time. With a braver heart I never knew I had, with a ‘try again,’ begging from my back pocket. See, because you smile and I forget everything but your lips. You smile, and it breaks into mine and all of a sudden I am laughing and holding you and I am not afraid of anything. For the first time. Love today feels closer to the sleep-warmed angel beneath my hands while we rest than any game I’ve ever tried playing in the past. Here with you, love today feels like the biggest win of my life.

anonymous asked:

Porque las taurinas te mueben el tapete haces que le prestes atencion y luego ellas ignoran?...

Hay muchos porque…..que son difíciles de entender….

A si son…hermosas pero frias…
Tiernas pero sin corazón…
Lindas pero son unas mald*#%s

Ni yo que soy Tauro puedo entender a este signo.


anonymous asked:

Long story short: jeg har lange skamlæber. De få fyre jeg har været sammen med, har fortalt mig, at det var et turn off, hvilket har gjordt mig VIRKELIG usikker. Nu ses jeg med en overdrevet sød fyr, så jeg fortæller om det "problem" jeg nu har med mig selv, inden vi skal til at have sex. Vi snakker sådan lidt om det, hvor han til sidst siger: "altså min ex's var værre". Det tog jeg virkelig ikke som en kompliment, men burde jeg det? VÆRRE. Jeg har sådan brug for et råd, og du virker pænt fjong

jeg forstår 100% din usikkerhed, men det eneste du kan gøre er nok at arbejde med den og stræbe efter at acceptere din puni som den er <3 mht din søde fyr, så ja, det var nok ikke så godt formuleret af ham, men hvis det for ham ikke er et problem og du kan glemme eller tilgive at han sagde det, så synes jeg da bare i skal hygge jer hihi!! håber du lærer at elske dine skamlæber, hav en dejlig dag 

merga  asked:

¿Que pasaría si juntas a un tauro, un virgo y un capricornio? ¿Cómo se llevarían?

Un super squad!

Los tres signos pertenecen al mismo grupo, es un grupo en el cual hay mas que ideas ingeniosa, los tres estarán de acuerdo en varias ideas, su diversión va más haya de lo que las personas piensan. Un grupo que si se apoyan podrán crear mas de lo que los tres signos se imaginan, en varios sentidos.

En lo personal, es un grupo increíble. ☆

anonymous asked:

¿Quién podría llegar a ser más celoso y posesivo, Tauro o Escorpio?

Eso no se puede responder, ambos llegan a tener sus celos muy fuertes, llegan a ser mas que posesivos con los que ellos quieren.

Definitivamente no puedo responder tu pregunta con gran exactitud, talvez el más celoso sea Escorpio, pero en lo posesivo, Tauro.




// Matthew’s most beloved and cherished guitar - 1965 Olympic White Fender Mustang. //

[ I do not own these photos. Creds to various people/internet/if they’re yours, please let me know. xxx ]


These faces, I can’t even. He’s adorable even when he has the sassy face on.
// Credit: None of these GIFs are mine, and when I started this blog, I suppose I didn’t even know what I was doing. Credit to @adoringmatty, and whoever else these GIFs belong to. I honestly was on google images and found them, so if you see something that is yours, please let me know so I can give credit where it’s due. Xxx //


Allen is just a huge ball of cute! Don’t you just love him?
(Also, I know the tattoo isn’t Matty, but you know… It’s still Allen!)
// Photo Credits: None of these GIFs are mine. To whoever these may belong to, please let me know so I can give credit where it is due! xxx //


Honestly, the way he waves, I just find myself doing it that way now too. It’s his own little special thing, and the way he introduces himself is more like “hello, I’m Mahee from The Nine-een-sevenee-five” and it is the CUTEST thing.

// Credit: None of these are my GIFs, if yours shows, please let me know! In the mean time… Google images. //