It seems like aphobes see oppression dynamics as strict and methematic but humans are not strict and mathematic beings. Basic computer-like logic systems don’t really work with humans. Like there’s a severe lack of nuance in their discourse and I get where they’re coming from in cases because sometimes my resentment towards what the straight social class has inflicted does spill over to other marginalized classes which aren’t “gay enough”, but it really does feel like they only think about the situation up to a certain point and then plant their feet in before they think too far.