Im trying out the water for being an SB on tinder, 24 but i look 17. Im happy for dinner and services after, but i dont know how much i should be charging- the whole night or per hour? What if he doesn't want to give me his full name to do a background check on. Xx
This question…it’s a problem. It really is. Let me explain…
That’s not being an SB and these men KNOW that. These men EXPLOIT that.
What you’re doing when you’re operating in such a way as an SB is devaluing yourself.
I’ve seen the men’s lounge on ECCIE. There’s a thread specifically about sugar babies, where they talk about how they get them to do the same things for escorts for less money. These men are the men you will likely encounter. These men are not SD’s. They will not treat you like a real SD will treat you. They will likely never spoil you or take you on trips or buy you designer goods or pay your bills. They these things Golden Pussy Syndrome.
Do. Not. Play. Their. Game.
The best advice I can give you is to become an escort. Under the title of being an SB, you can spend hours with a guy, go to dinner and then fuck him and walk away with $200. You can do the same thing as an escort and walk away with $1000. Be a smart hoe. Don’t play their game.
These per-date “sugar” relationships are bullshit and they need to stop.
The whole concept is literally just a way that men have played us to get their way. If you think I’m bullshitting you, what do you like about this arrangement? You spend a few hours and walk away with some cash? If you want that money to keep coming steadily, you’re going to have to fuck for it. And you’ll be making less money.
The point here is; think about how you want to organize and run your business before you start because regardless of what you call yourself, you are still running a business.
Do you want to invest the same amount of time with a guy and make less money? Or would you rather advertise as an escort, do the exact same things, and get paid more for it?