men who dont need to ask

Peter looks up from his breakfast and smiles at Gamora. She just nods at him and starts reading the newspaper. Well, he won’t tell her that she holds it upside down. Groot is still eating and Rocket is half alseep next to him. Even Drax is here, but Tony is missing.

“I am Groot.”

“I don’t care that you are still hungry. That is my bacon!” Rocket growls and holds onto his plate.

Peter smiles and looks around. Where could Tony be? Normally he is the first in the kitchen because he needs his coffee. Its been over two months now that Peter and the Guardians are with Tony in his Tower, after they crashed their ship. His beautiful ship.

Still. Why is Tony not here?

“I am Groot.”

“No i’m not sleeping! I will eat it!” Rocket mumurs even tho his eyes are still closed. Peter shakes his head at them and looks to Gamora.

“Where’s Tony?”, he asks and Gamora doesn’t even look up.

“Already missing your Boyfriend?”, is what she asks back and Peter sputters.

“He is not my boyfriend?!” Peter nearly squeaks. But everyone at the table laughes. Even Drax and Peter is sure that he doesn’t know why.

“Good morning.”

Tony smiles at them when he enters the kitchen and he looks…gorgeous. He just wears an old jeans and a white shirt but the way he yawns and rubs his left eye. He is just too cute.

After Gamora told him that they wouldn’t be together, Peter was really sad. But then they’ve met Tony. And Peter was just…gone. Just like that. And his friends knew this.

“Morning, Tony.” Peter says and he can’t help his smile. Tony smiles back at him and then makes a beeline for the coffeemaker.

“So what are the plans for today?”, asks Tony once he is at his second cup of coffee. He sits down next to Drax, who grunts.

“Working on the ship. Care to join us?”, says Rocket who looks a lot more awake now. Tony smiles at him and shakes his head.

“Sadly no. But i wouldn’t be a help anyway.” Answers Tony and shrugs. Peter wants to say something about that. Because this isn’t true. Tony is always a help and he is a genius! He worked a lot on the ship already and Rocket wouldn’t ask him if Tony wasn’t good.

“Sir? Captain Rogers on the phone.” Friday says before Peter can say anything about Tonys sad look. He always gets the look when he says something about himself like that. Like he truly believes it. Like someone he loves told him that before. Peter wants to scream.

“Oh. I will talk to him la-…”, Tony begins but then they all can hear Captain America in the kitchen.

“Tony? What is the matter with you?”, Captain America shouts already and Tony gets even paler then before.

“I..uhm…can i call you back?” Tony whispers and he looks really afraid.

“What? No! I want to clarify that now!” Captain America growls and Tony stands up. He looks a bit shaken, tho.

“B-but i uh…i have visitors…”, Tony tries again and Captain America laughs.

“As if. Now want to tell me why Bucky is awake? We froze him for a reason, Stark! You know that. Do you want to hurt him again is that what you want?”, Captain America sounds so angry that even Drax looks a bit afraid at the ceiling where they can hear his voice.

“No! I…i made an update and i…wanted to help!”, Tony says now and he looks so desperate, that Peter wants to hold him.

“We don’t need your fucking help. Nobody does!” This is another voice on the phone but it is enough. Without another word Tony runs out of the room. The Guardians are left speechless.

“Captain, here is Starlord. I think you made Tony upset.” Peter stands up now, even if Captain America can’t see that. But his voice is cold.

“Who are you?” Asks Captain America back.

“Peter Quill. A friend of Tony. Rocket, Gamora, Drax and Groot are with me and we are the Guardians of the Galaxy.” Peter says slowly. He doesn’t know Captain America and now he is glad about it. Seems like an asshole.

“The Guardians of the Galaxy? What is Tony going to do now?!” Captain America sounds like they are the bad guys. Peter growls.

“Nothing that i would tell you, but listen. If you ever talk to him again like that, we will find you.” Peter says and Drax gets his knife out of one of his pockets. Peter shuhes him.

“Is that a threat?”

“Yes, Asshole.” Is all Peter says before he leaves, too. He needs to find Tony. He can hear Rockets and Groots voices as he leaves.

“I dont know who you are, Captain. But Tony is the smartest men i know and it means a lot when i say it.”

“I am Groot.”

*
Peter needs nearly an hour to find Tony and when he does he wants to smack himself. Of course Tony is here.

Tony really worked with Gamora und Rocket a lot on their ship the last weeks. And when he wasn’t, he tried to build a smaller ship that fits only himself, so he could visit them.

Peter was so happy when Tony asked them if that was okay. And he was sure the hug from Drax was painful but Tony smiled so wide, that all Peter could do was to smile back.

And now he sits in his little ship. Crying.

Well you know. Tony is a lot of things. And he does a lot of things. He likes to cuddle Peter when they watch a movie late at night. He likes to show Rocket his suits and even made one for him. He likes to cook with Gamora and he even teaches her. He dances with Groot when he is happy.

But Peter has never seen him cry.

Its heartbreaking. And beautiful.

“Tony?” Peter say after a few seconds and Tony looks up at him. Then he wipes his tears away and smiles.

“Oh hey Peter. Do you need anything?” Tonys eyes are still wet and the smile doesn’t look real.

Peter doesn’t answer he just goes over to Tony and nearly sits on his lap, before he hugs him. Tony freezes.

“Peter?”

“Hm?”

“What are you doing?” Tony sounds so unsure and then he cries again. Peter just holds him through it and pets his soft hair. Tony is such a wonderful men and nobody cares.

Peter had known that the Avengers and he had a fight, but he didn’t know it was that bad.

“S-sorry.” Tony says when he stops crying.

“Nothing to be sorry for.” Answers Peter.

“Its just hard to… uhm hear the truth.” Tony says slowly and he doesn’t look at Peter anymore. Peter shakes his head.

“What? He didn’t said the truth. He was just being an asshole.”, says Peter and hugs Tony again. He just likes it, okay? Tony is so warm.

“Don’t let him hear that.” Giggles Tony and Peter smiles, too. It took Tony a while before he would giggle around them. But now he does it a lot and its the cutest sound Peter has ever heard.

“Oh but i told him.” Peter answers and Tony gasped.

“What? But he is…Captain America!” Tony says then and he seems to really mean that. Sounds like he really like him before their fight.

“And I’m StarLord. Which is way better than a Captain.” Says Peter easily and Tony giggles again.

“That is true.”

They sit like that for a while and Peter even plays with Tonys fingers. Tony seems tired now and his eyes are nearly closed. Then he sits back up.

“Oh! And i’m Iron Man. Which means i’m only a men.” Now Tony sounds upset again and Peter pulls him closer. So that Tony sits now on his lap. Perfect. Tony is smaller than him and Peter is a goner for that.

“Nah. Not only a men. Just the best i know.” Answers Peter now and he even kisses Tonys head. Tony shudders.

“Y-you only know aliens, but me. Your opinion doesn’t count.” Whispers Tony and Peter shakes his head.

“Nope. My opinion is the only one that counts. But if it calms you. Rocket and Groot also told Captaim America to fuck himself. And Drax had already his knife out.” Peter tells him and Tony relaxes.

“Really?” Tony asks and he looks so surprised at that. Peter holds him closer.

“Course. We are your friends.” He whispers in Tonys ear and Tony shudders beautifully again.

“It’s just… i miss them you know? I miss Steve so much and i thought he was my friend. And Clint he was so angry at me. And…i just i…really wanted to help! I made an update for Bucky, so he could live withouth being afraid to be controlled again. I thought…that then they all would come back and i wouldn’t be alone anymore.” Tony tells him slowly.

“Come with us.”

“What?” Tony sits up again and he doesn’t seem to be angry that he still sits in Peters lap.

“Come with us. Be a Guardian of the Galaxy. Please.” Peter really means it. When the ship is ready, they need to leave. And he can’t leave without Tony.

“You don’t need me!” Tonys says and Peter kisses his hair again.

I need you.”

Before Tony can protest again, Peter turns him a bit around and kisses him. He can still feel the salt from Tonys tears on his lips, but he doesn’t care. It feels so good. Tonys grip around his shoulder gets firmer. And then Tony kisses him back.

Peter is in heaven.

“Really?” Tony asks shyly when they part and Peter leans his forehead against Tonys.

“Really.” Peter smiles because Tonys face is a bright red now. Tony looks up at him and smiles back.

“Okay. I will come with you.” Tony says then Peter kisses him again, just because he can do that now. Tony giggles.

“But only because you need a Starqueen at your side.”

Okay hear me out: the critical role cast has some issues when it comes to lgbt+ representation & interacting with fans.

I know it’s easy to look at fans being upset over Marisha’s comments about Keyleth’s sexuality & think fans are “demanding”, “asking too much”, “intruding on a private game”. These are all accusations I’ve seen in the last 24 hours. It’s important to remember that this has all come up because Marisha was joking about f/f attraction on the stream. She has Keyleth say she wanted to see Vex’s breasts and it spiraled from there. 

Fans are reacting to this because Keyleth being bi/questioning/etc will remove the sting of this conversation. 

Confirming a character as exploring something other than heterosexuality (however badly it’s done) is still better than using other sexualities as a punchline. 

And the critical role cast does this. It does this a lot. Here are a few from the top of my head:

  • the purposeful misgendering of raishan (mainly by sam)
  • grog’s ‘boyfriend’  Kerrek
  •  scanlan’s many, many jokes about sex with men*
  • laura’s whole ‘haha maybe vex will get a gf ;) jk she’s been in love with percy this whole time’
  •  hell, vax’s romance with gilmore started off as liam trying to flirt the price of goods down. to his credit he committed to it for a while, but then he followed the bisexual trope of finding the ‘right’ person of a different sex and choosing them instead.

*sam had been joking about scanlan and men for months before finally discussing the topic seriously on twitter. even then he just said “not 100% heterosexual”. it’s progress, but there’s still a way to go

“but emma, they have good intentions! you have to be patient and respectful of the cast!” my dudes i dont have to respect someone who treats the representation of my community like a novelty shirt they can wear for a day and take off later. i know they’re trying, i know they’re learning, but they still need to apologize when they make a mistake. no one is asking for blood, folks. 

This could have been avoided (or certainly at least reduced) if Marisha hadn’t initially been so evasive on twitter. the unwillingness to confirm anything read as Marisha wanting to continue the trend of joking about lgbt+ representation. it was a dismissal. 

i love Marisha, god knows i defend her until i’m red in the face, but no one gets a universal pass. she’s an adult and she knew she upset people. it wouldn’t have cost her anything to tweet something like “hey i didn’t think about keyleth’s speech last night and i’m sorry that it came across as a cheap joke. i’d like to explore keyleth’s sexuality more & this will take time bc she’s inexperienced. please bear with me as both she and i figure this out”

that’s literally all she needed to do.

the cast struggles when it comes to apologizing to the lgbt+ community. we just need to look at how they handled the situation with j’mon’s misgendering. matt actually used the “dont get mad at your allies” speech, something i know a lot of us (myself included) have heard before. again, mistakes are going to happen. people slip up, we know this, but you still apologize for mistakes. you dont get to say “hm i dont think what i did caused you any harm”. you have to step back and say “oh i upset you? that wasnt my intention and i’m very sorry for that. this is new to me and i hope i will do better in the future”

final thoughts:

-this isn’t a private game anymore. this is a show that many of us pay money to access. that doesn’t give us the right to make demands, but it does give us the right to ask that our sexuality and gender aren’t treated as a joke. it gives us the right to ask a cast member if they were serious when they flirted with the idea of their character not being straight. 

-the problem isn’t that keyleth is questioning. the problem is that the cast has a tendency to joke about these things and then never return to it, as if lgbt+ representation is a tap you can turn on or off. (sam is the only exception i can think of, but again that wasn’t confirmed on screen.) minority groups shouldn’t be treated like this.

-it’s not entitlement to ask that your sexuality isn’t a punchline. it’s not demanding to ask for clarification. it’s not asking too much for an apology. 

if straight actors dont want to seriously consider non-heterosexual orientations, then they dont get to make jokes about sexuality. 

anonymous asked:

why souldn't anyone trust someone who just needs reassurance on his penis size? i mean everyone has insecurities... every one needs reassurance on something... i dont get it

Men who think having a big penis is worth anything typically have messed up values in general. It’s one thing to be insecure and another to make your partner constantly pretend you have a big dick to make you feel better. I’m insecure about my small and weird breasts but I don’t ask my partners if they’re big because I know they aren’t, for example.

His bitch

I been getting pics from followers, some of you have nice dicks. Also been getting a lot of invites to hook up. But want to say I am currently some one’s exclusive bitch at the moment, maybe a long term thing. He is on tumblr but hasn’t told me if its ok to give him a shout out so goin to keep that private for now.
But I can answer a few questions i was asked about us and about me.
1. Yes my “Him” is white. As if that was optional.
2. Yes he lays it on his bitches like a good daddy should.
3. No we don’t have plans to meet up with other tumblr followers in a 3some or moresome…yet. maybe in the future.
4. There will be real pics posted once in a while. I delete when I start feelin a certain way about it so be quick.
5. I’m 24 years old born and raised in Georgia.
6. 36D-30-44 yea too much for some yall
7. I have 6 tats. Wrist, forearm, upper thigh, above breast, on sholdrblade, ankle. No piercing cept ears and navel tho.
8. Lost it at 14 but had my first white dick at 17. He was huge 8 real inches and thick. I was nutting hard on him by the time he first ran that shit up me balls deep. So yea was hooked but I did “go back” for a while. It was tough for ya girl to meet white men for a few years there.
9. I can do raceplay but you only call me n if you have enough dick and fuck me good enough so I dont care what you say. I need a man to make me respect that shit first.
10. Yea i smoke mj but prbly not as often as the ppl who asked me about it. And i drink maybe only once or twice a month if i have time to go out.

I will answer more another time.
Key

a fun feminist rant for you

asking a feminist to quickly summarize everything they’ve ever said on the topic of feminism because you’re “thinking of becoming a feminist” is belittling and entitled.

it undermines the fact that I deliberately publish my thoughts on social media to provide informed insight into my perspectives on feminism on a platform that encourages informed, intelligent discussion.

not to mention it’s as offensively reductionist as the ‘meninists’ who comment 'NAME ONE SINGLE RIGHT MEN HAVE THAT WOMEN DONT!!!1’ ignoring the fact that ten seconds of research would demonstrate that the need for feminism is way beyond government enforced laws and regulations and extends to a much broader concept of cultural treatment and perception based on a history of trivializing and marginalizing the strength and capabilities of women and girls.

you have to put in the leg work of curiosity-based learning and come back to me with informed, research based inquiries.

this question is especially insulting if you retort with a defensive comment that could basically translate to 'your unwillingness to reduce 25 years of experience to a few sentences shows that you’re not a true feminist, and I will therefore be joining the anti-feminist club because you were sort of rude to me when I ask a broad strokes question that I was too lazy to realize you have answered 200+ times before.’

I DO want to help educate people on the need for feminism in our current culture. That’s literally why I publish my thoughts on Instagram, Twitter, and tumblr on a DAILY BASIS.

I DO want to have important and intelligent conversations about new perspectives in feminism and the evolution of the movement in the 21st century.

I DO want feminism to feel like a club that everyone is invited to, provided we check our privileges at the door and understand whose voices are most relevant in which discussions.

What I DON’T want is to be insulted, belittled, or otherwise harassed for not dropping whatever I’m doing to regurgitate opinions I’ve expressed hundreds of times to someone who feels entitled to a synopsis of my life’s passion without having done a shred of personal investigation.

Like for fucks sake you are asking me these questions on AN INTERNET MACHINE! Literally a world of knowledge at your actual fingertips.

would you ask JK Rowling 'I’m thinking of becoming a Harry Potter fan, what are the books about?’

would you ask a mechanic 'I’m thinking of building a car from scratch, how do you do it?’

would you ask MLK 'I heard you had a dream, what was it?’

(and if you would- I guess you have bigger entitlement issues than I give you credit for)

I’m not saying this to sound rude, I’m saying this because you have an incredible opportunity to become involved in a community of love, support, equality, and empowerment, and I don’t want to take that away from you by reducing the meaning of this community to a paragraph or two in the comments section on a blog post somewhere.

I appreciate your interest in something that is so dear to me, and I hope you understand that I’m very excited for the informed, intelligent discussions that we will have on the topic of feminism in the future.

anonymous asked:

Can Blake even have children? 40, two marriages and no children and he chooses to be with a woman who has 3 children and wont have anymore. We are so quick to jump on a woman's fertility but never question men. People seem to treat Gwen and Blake like idiots who dont know their own minds or cant make their own decisions because it doesn't fit into their idea of what they should be doing. I suggest they start playing The Sims if they need to control other people's lives.

I have no idea, but I would assume so. It’s not like it was odd that he didn’t have kids in either marriage, what with the first not being *that* long (and them still being pretty young and starting careers, etc), and the second… Well, it seems it was nearly always a “One day, not right now but I’ve thought about it, but she’s the one who has to carry, so….. Yeah. One day.” Except when it stopped being ‘one day’ like on Ellen, of course. 

I totally understand that ‘we don’t question whose fertility would be at issue’, but frankly, I just see NO reason to assume he can’t have biological kids, y’know. On the latter point, I completely agree. It’s frustrating and I trust they know their lives and desires better than we do, lol. 

(Or write fanfic. It’s wish-fulfilment to the nth degree, if you want it to be.)

I apologize for the eventual mistakes, english isn’t my main language.

I love Jensen and Jared. I love Supernatural. But honestly, if those “”fans”” keep treating them that bad, I think they should start thinking about leaving the show. At one point it’s just unhealthy to them.

 I can’t even imagine what it’s like to be treat as a homophobic for Jensen, or as a attention whore for speaking up about his depression for Jared.

I dont know them personnally, but I’ve read enough about fans meeting them to asume that they are good mens. They dont deserve to be treat like shit by peoples who  are pretending to be fans.

Y’all ain’t fans. Y’all are haters, with no other purpose than destroy anyone who isn’t fitting your desires. 

And for the shippers who are currently insulting Jensen, friendly reminder that the only fucking person who is queerbaiting you is Misha Collins, who, in my opinion need this ship to stay relevant. Jensen Ackles NEVER promise you shit. He NEVER try to build false hopes.  You think he was harsh on her ?  Damn, after all those years being ask the same damn  question I would react the same way. 


Jensen Ackles and Jared Padalecki deserve better than fake fans who are hating on them everytime they open heir mouths. At this point it would be better to just cancelled cons until some of you start using their brains to understand that their behavior is disgusting.

 ( Also, I really feel bad for all the Destiel shippers who didn’t do anything wrong and are now in the middle of this drama. )

Originally posted by imthehuman

egoi-sm-deactivated20161011  asked:

I know its not your job to spread information and do not feel obligated in the slightest to respond. But if you're at all willing to look into Pardon49k (a petition to excuse 49,000 gay and bisexual men of 'gross indecency' through British governments) and possibly even share the petition it would be helpful. Do not feel in anyway obliged and I'm not asking in order to provoke anger. I'm mainly focussing my attention on significant blogs who's followers will probably be people in support of this

oh dont worry love i will spread all the important information you need! i’ve already signed it myself, but here’s the petition for those of you who haven’t yet. 

the-almighty-baxter  asked:

you're an awful person with 0 understanding of the people you're bashing. You think you're so superior but you're not. I laugh at you and also tip my fedora at your stupidity.

Before you ask yes I own a fedora. The fact that you will judge me like that makes you all the more of an idiot. I have studied tumblr fo quite some time and I am completely aware of the countless morons who get off on this site just from mouthing their idiocies. Well come at me bro. I might as well say here all you need to know about me: I do think women are below men and I honestly dont give a shit if you dont like that. If you think you’re smarter than me then you’re most likely not and if you think I care about your opinions then you are most likely wrong. Women were born to be below men and do the lesser work. hats what makes them useful. And while we are on the talk of women my ideal woman would be someone who mirrors the qualities of the beautiful fluttershy.

well…………….I think that speaks for itself

My friend asked me why we need feminism
  • Friend: but why do we need feminism??? We should just all need humanism! Feminism is only for girl's gain.
  • Me: *sighs* People aren't acknowledging that men get raped or abused? THAT is why we need feminism. We need feminism to stop stereotypes. We need feminism to end ALL abuse and ALL rape. We need feminism so that everywhere, men and women get equal pay and not 75c while men get 1$. We need feminism for the girls who dont get to go to school because of their gender (see: Malala (the girl who got shot in the head for wanting an education)) We need feminism to help and protect members of the LGBTQIA+ community who get abused and bullied because of their sexuality and gender. We need feminism because it is believed by many men that women are lesser than men, that it is believed that women cant be pretty and smart at the same time. Because women are always sexualised much more than men in the media. In interviews, men will be asked 'so tell us about your family life' (or something nothing to do with their body type *most of the time*) but most women are mostly asked 'so, what diet did you take to be able to fit into that suit?' (This actually happened to Scarlett Johansen once or twice). Because women are getting murdered for saying 'no' to men. Because when a girl says no to a guy, she's rude. Because when a women asks a guy out, she's desperate. Because 'girly' is still used as an insult. Because people get bullied and abused because some people think that any sexuality other than straight is a bad thing. Because Leelah Alcorn (transgender girl, born with a boys body) was unable to be who she is because her parents were idiots and disrespected her, took her out of school and took away all of her technology so she had no contact with the outside world just because she came out as trans. Because Leelah Alcorn committed suicide because she couldn't handle her parent's abuse. Because on her gravestone it says her birth name (Josh Alcorn). Because Leelah Alcorn's parents would rather have a dead son than a happy daughter. Because women are still getting blamed when they get raped (“well what were you wearing?” “She was wearing a tank top and shorts, she was basically asking for it!”) Because when men get abused or raped, nobody takes it seriously, (“are you sure you didnt want it?” “Whyre you complaining? You got free sex!” “But you got an erection, you must have enjoyed it!”) (I.E- Getting an erection or getting wet DOES NOT mean they give consent! Most people can not control their body's responses!! Also, erections can be gained by fear (or when blood starts pumping around your body quickly, something caused by fear)). Because girls are getting sent home from school for wearing short skirts and shorts and shirts that show off their arms and shoulders because it 'arouses men'. Because even TEACHERS are having to be told to not stare at STUDENT's legs and cleavage. Because when a women says they want equality, most men will respond “OH DOES THAT MEAN I CAN HIT YOU NOW”
  • Without feminism, girls wouldn't be able to go to school, vote, work, drive or do anything a man can do. Please please please understand this.
  • Friend: ......
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Basically Fire Emblem Awakening is a dating sim where you choose who gets you laid among an army of hot men and pretty girls, have babies and save the world from an angry jerk, a power hungry lobster and your dad who had very high expectations. Oh, and a dragon.

—————-

Haha okay im the worst person to ask this because I’ve only played like two FE games, so have an FE:A explaination instead. Please do play the game. It has a beautiful story and wonderful characters. I’d hate to spoil the game for you. PS. You dont need to know anything about the past FE games to play it.

anonymous asked:

I think the reason Ubisoft won't do a female protagonist is because there are some guys who are too closed minded to play as a girl, and video game companies tend to forget that plenty of their fans are girls. I unfortunately know people who boycotted Liberation because of Aveline's sex.

pros to having a female protagonist:

  • representation for literally half the gaming community
  • makes dudebros uncomfortable
  • everyone i know wants a female protag so that means female protag=happy gamers=money for ubisoft
  • makes dudebros uncomfortable
  • ladies are hella????
  • ladies are raw as fuck lmao remember that one time a bunch of women marched on versailles and its still considered one of the most significant events of the french revolution and “one of those defeats of royalty from which it never recovered”??? that’s so hardcORE
  • speaking of hella women in the french revolution, there were a shit ton???? for example, my bae charlotte corday, who fucking murdered marat in his own bathtub iN HIS HOME SHE LITERALLY WALKED UP TO HIM AND STABBED HIM WTF 2 RAW
  • or how about olympe de gouges who was a hella feminist and had the balls to go against those in power in the name of obtaining equal rights for women
  • yeah you know what that smells like???? girl frieNDSHIPS 
  • duDEBROS WILL BE UNCOMFORTABLE 
  • and hopefully with more female protagonists dudebros will get comfortable with it and start evolving into decent human beings thereby improving female gamers’ lives and society as a whole 
  • male protagonists number in the truckloads do we honestly need another one the answer is no
  • there are only four things that make anything better: 1. freckles 2. dragons 3. robots and 4. hella ladies
  • you know what we also need more women with different sexual preferences oh my god
  • also women with different body types…… we can only dream……
  • if we go to a party in-game we can see the protagonist dress up in big wigs and possibly seduce and poison men and honestly who doesn’t want that kind of power
  • i just need more ladies in my life tbh i want to feel empowered
  • game companies in general need to grow out of this whole ‘lady protags dont sell’ mentality
  • maybe if ubisoft is willing to have a female protag for a main game other game companies will follow suit???? 
  • there are no cons. none. goodbye

LORD HAVE MERCY OMG I AM JUST SO LOST IF I HAVE EVER IN MY LIFE HAVE SINNED ….. I APOLOGIZE FOR I HAVE SINNED. I CANT THINK RIGHT NOW WTF IS THIS I WANT THIS TO NOW THIS IS TURNING IN TOO MUCH BAEK, XIUMIN AND CHEN ARE COMING AND I AM NOT REALLY READY FOR THIS LIKE FUCK ME YO… LIKE BAEK WHO ARE YOU? WHERE HAVE YOU GONE?… I CANT HANDEL EXO GETTING FIT THIS IS UNFAIR. I AM SUING FOR FALSE ADVERTISEMENT THIS ISNT THE REALITY I ASKED FOR I DONT WANT TO DEAL WITH THIS I AM SO ASHAMED OF BEING THIS WAY… WHY DO I HAVE A STRONG ATTRACTION TO MEN IN THE GYM… I NEED TO STOP… GOD BLESS ALL YOU BAEK STANS….. YOU ARE GOING TO NEED JESUS AND A SHRINK IN THE UP COMING MONTHS. I AM THROWING LAWSUITS I’M SUEING SM … THE TRAINER AND BAEK THIS IS NOT OKAY…. I FEEL SO THREATENED…. 



scales-and-bubbles-deactivated2  asked:

Your mistake is viewing Bronies as some kind of downfall-causing parasite that gave the show a much worse reputation. may I remind you that only a complete idiot would blame the show for the actions of the fanbase. And, also, "make it unsafe for female and femme fans"? Bullshit. There are plenty of Female Bronies out there, although some prefer the term "Pegasister", and most Bronies couldn't give a shite whether or not a Brony is Female. You really need to do research before shaming Bronies...

“You really need to do research before shaming Bronies…”

OOOOMGGGGG I’M LAUGHING. KID I DON’T NEED TO DO RESEARCH, I WAS IN THE MLP FANDOM BEFORE A BUNCH OF GROWN ASS MEN DROVE ME OUT W THEIR NASTY PORN AND HOSTILITY TOWARDS FEMALE FANS. I CAN’T SEARCH “PINKIE PIE” ON GOOGLE WITHOUT SEEING PONIES IN LINGERIE. BRONIES ARE ABSOLUTELY A PARASITE THAT RUINED THE SHOW, NO ONE WANTS TO ASSOCIATE WITH THE SHOW ANYMORE WHO ISN’T A BRONY, IN CASE U HAVEN’T NOTICED.

TRUST ME, YOU GUYS DO A MUCH BETTER JOB OF SHAMING URSELVES THAN I EEEEVER COULD.

No one like you- A Jack Gilisnky Imagine

*Jack’s P.O.V*

I was currently at my bedroom, with nothing to do. I was just doing the usual, creep on my beutiful fans. To be honest, even though it may not seem like I do it, I actually creep A LOT on twitter. As I was about to get something to eat, I got a call from my beautiful girlfriend Y/N.

“Hey babe” She said

“Hi, cutie” I replied back

“Are you busy?” She asked

“Nope, not at all” I said

“Cool, do you want to hang out with me and the boys today?” She asked

“Sure, where do we meet?” I asked

“At the mall” She said

“Okay be there in 10” I said

“Kay, love you and drive safe” She said

“Love you too and I will, see ya there” I said and hung up.

I quickly took a shower, and put on a pair of jeans and a black shirt, with vans. I then went to my car and drove to the mall. When I got there, I immediately found the guys.

“Hi, guys” I said as I greeted Nate, Nash, Cam, Matt, Sam, Johnson and Dillon

“Sup” The boys said and they all “bro hugged” me.

“Hey boo” I said as i walked to hug Y/N

“Hi” she said and pecked my lips

You may think that I’m not romantic at all, but I am when it comes to Y/N. She means the world to me and I would kill for her.

“So what should we do at the mall?” Matt asked

“Well, now that we’re at the mall, I was thinking of doing some christmas shopping because Christmas is around the corner” I said

“Trueee” Nate said

“Okay, lets do some christmas shopping” Dillon said

We all went our separate ways except for me and Y/N. She actually knew my sisters more than I know them, so she helped me out

“What about this?” I asked pointing to a pink sweater

“Jack, that sweater is for a 10 year old girl” She said

“Then i dont know” I said frustrated

“Okay, how about you let me pick for you” She suggested

“Yess, please” I said

“Okay” She said

“Yess, this why I love you” I said and kissed her and she smiled

“Okay, so while you do that, I’ll go and get you something cute for you” I said

“You know you dont have to gift me anything” She said

“Oops, I’m doing it anyway” I said and I walked away to get her something cute. Since Im not that type of guy that can easily pick clothes for a girl, I decided to buy her a necklace. The necklace I chose was a golden one, that had her name written on it with the initial of my last name because she’s mine and I plan on marrying her. It may seem very soon, but I’m sure that she’s the one. I then went back to Y/N and I saw her with clothes on her hand.

“Okay I’m done” She said

“Yey, and thank you again” I said

“No problem” She said and we walked to pay for the clothes and then we went

“Noww, its my time to buy you a christmas gift” She said

“Okay but you know that I dont want anything fancy” I said

“I know” She said and hugged me

“Okay, so how about I go and leave this in the car, and then I come back, because I really cant walk around this mall with 8 shopping bags” I said

“Sure, I’ll be at that store” She said pointing at a all men store

“Okay” I said and kissed her before I went to my car

It took me 10 minutes to leave all the stuff in my car. I then went to the store that Y/N told me to go. I couldnt seem to find her, but then I found her ….. but she wasnt alone.

*Y/N’s P.O.V*

I walked into the all men store to buy Jack his chritsmas gift. But I had no idea what to buy him because he said he didnt want anything fancy at all. I then saw a guy, who out of nowhere appeared.

“Hi cutie” He said

“Umm.. hi” I said nicely

“You need any help?” He asked

“No, but thanks” I said politely

“Oh come on, let me help you” He said

“Its really not necesary” I said

“Y/N, dont you recognize me?” The guy asked me

“Do I know you?” I asked

“Y/N, its me Michael” He said

“OH MY GOD MICHAEL” I said happily

“HOW ARE YOU?” He asked me

“I’m great, oh my god I cant believe I couldnt recognize you” I said

“I know, but you havent changed at all” He said

“Neither have you” I said

“I KNOW BUT I CANT BELIEVE YOU ARE HERE IN OMAHA” He said and hugged me. I was about to fall from him, so I wrapped my legs around his waist.

“BUT I CANT BELIEVE THE FACT THAT MY BESTFRIEND IS HERE” I said almost crying for happiness.

I then turned around still hugging him to find Jack, standing there with tears on his eyes. I wanted to walk up to him and tell him what was going on but he walked away heartbroken and it was all because of me.

I quickly pulled apart from the hug and just went after Jack. As I was running I saw him walking towards his car.

“JACK, WAIT” I said and he stopped. We went inside his car, so we could talk.

“Why, Y/N, why would you do this to me?” Jack asked as a tear rolled down his cheek

“Jack, its not what you think it was” I said

“But I saw you hugging that guy, you know I’ve been cheated before, why would you do this to me?” He said

“Jack, he was just a friend from middle school, i swear to God, that i would never cheat on you” I said

“But how do i know you arent lying?” He asked

“Jack, I understand about your past with ex-girlfriends but I would never ever cheat on you” I said

“I love you Jack, I love you to the moon and back forever and always will” I said sincerely

“I’m sorry Y/N, but the jealousy just gets me. I understand that there are better guys than me outhere but it kills me to think that you will leave me for another one” He said

“But I will never do so, Jack” I said “ You never have to worry about it, you may see me with other guys, but no one will ever compare to you. ” I said

“I love you Y/N” He said

“I love you more Jack” I said

anonymous asked:

I feel weird asking you this cause Im 35 and you're 23 but I need some help, Im fat im out of shape, not married and just a complete loser. I feel like working out but I always give up. I dont know what to do to stay motivated. You are the epitome of optimism and I could use your help. Jax I feel like Im going to die and empty man one day and I dont want that. Help me. Please

In this lifetime so much can be done, so many things are possible. but in the end its not what others thought of you, but what you think of yourself. when you lie there on your death bed what are you truly going to think about. All the time wasted trying to get people to view you as the king of your generation. or all the things that made you happy? Was it worth all the times trying to prove a point by doing what others said you couldn’t. or was it worth it to do what made you happy? We can choose to live in many ways. We can love. We can hate. We can Help. We can beg for the assistance of others. The meaning of life is not a predefined definition. Life can vary depending on the actions of a single person. In the end the only question you need to ask, is was my life worth it? If you can answer all of that with yes you can die a happy man, if not You can still make a change. You can sit there and listen to your fears or you can get up and make your dreams a reality. YOU CAN DO IT! If someone says you cant then they are LYING! Dont ever let someone tell you That you cant do something! You’re a man, with limitless potential and the ability to do anything you set your mind to! Look at these past men who have set an example, who have died so that you can live. They are forever remembered and in a sense have obtained immortality for their great actions. Who is to say you cannot acheive the same greatness they have. Brave Men may not last long but they live forever, if you had to know one thing. Never give in, Never give up! The measure of a man is not importance, the measure of his life is irrelevant, but their impression on the world is what matters. Its not how deep you’re buried but how theyve risen. Its not the goals you set that matters, its the challenges you faced, Its not the hardships you endured. Its the pain you overcame. You have the ability to change the world, you and you alone decide how to live. You’re a man, not just a being. Dont ever forget that. And Seize your life! 

anonymous asked:

Hi i noticed that you reblog things about feminism and although i personally dont agree with it I am interested in hearing why you support it. Most of the femenist I ask go off on a tirade without actually giving a decent answer(example being: I need feminism because people call other people a pussy and my gender is not an insult) and I feel you are intelligent enough to actually explain your stance.

Wow, I got to be honest, I think you’re the first person I’ve ever met on this site who doesn’t support feminism?

But, putting that aside. To me “feminists” who say things like “Oh all men are assholes and women are the superior race and women should run the world and men can go die” are really toxic to the true feminist cause.

See, to me feminism is gender equality. A little boy has just as much of a right to wear a tutu and play with barbies as a little girl who wants to have short hair and play with trucks does. 

And, actually, I do agree with the people who say “I need feminism because people use my gender as an insult”. Being a woman, or having a vagina is not something that makes you weak. It should not be used as an insult because there is nothing shameful about being a woman. 

There’s sexism in this world that we can’t even begin to comprehend. Like a woman who has acid poured on her because at age twelve she refuses to marry a man three times her age, or a boy who is mutilated because he wanted to wear a pink dress to school.

Until the day that one’s sex stops defining how a person can live and what choices a person can make, we will always need feminism.

I hope I answered your question. I bolded the good bits if you don’t want to read my whole response… Have a nice day :)

This movie was amazing! I highly recommend it! Matthew 10:22 (king james version) says, “ And ye shall be hated of all men for my name’s sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved.” ; Matthew 10:32-33 (king james version) says, “ (32) Whosoever therefore shall confess me before men, him will I confess also before my Father which is in heaven.

(33) But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven.”

I am a Christian and I ask if you dont believe in Jesus Christ as your savior, who died for you and for me, to trust him if you need some encouraging help just message me im here. And if you already do trust in Jesus Christ I want to tell you dont let anyone tell you that God is dead or that he never exsisted cause you know and I know that God is the creator and he has existed for forever. Dont let the hard times in life convince you that there is no God, that is just the devil talking and telling you to not believe. Luke 4:8 (kjv) says, “ And Jesus answered and said unto him,   ,  for it is written, Thou shalt worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve.”; let the one true LIVING God make a difference in your life “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”  (John 3:16). ;
The Romans road to salvation


Romans 3:23 KJV “For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;”


Romans 6:23 KJV “For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”


Romans 5:8 KJV “But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”


Romans 10:9 KJV “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.”
Romans 10:13 KJV “For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.”


Romans 8:1 KJV “There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.”


Romans 8:38-39 KJV “For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

God loves each and everyone of you!
Have a blessed day!
~sarah (sarah-hedrick7998)

I hear more scuffling than usual above our heads, shouting, and a gunshot. “I’ll be right back.” I turn before Ella has a chance to ask what’s happening, drawing my sword while climbing the stairs. 

Lee stands with a pistol in his raised right hand, halfway between Aron and another man who quite frankly hasn’t been around long enough for me to know by name. Both are restrained by two men each and glaring daggers at each other. 

I need no further explanation. We’ll be heading to shore soon enough to see how this little spat plays out. 

fvcksxsh-a  asked:

why are you so wound up regarding teaching consent? its vital as far too often boundaries can be blurred so really its keeping everybody safe, i dont think its a malicious attack on masculinity just more of a "make sure you both want to" because so many young people dont actually understand the meaning of "no"

I’m not against teaching consent. I’m against a government teaching the feminist idea of consent to 2nd graders. Nobody needs to be taught that no means no. Everybody knows that no means no…there are just a small minority of people called rapists who don’t care if you say no. 

This isn’t about no means no. They are teaching that you must ask every step of the way and continue to ask for reassurance that this is still okay. And this is all geared towards the men. Feminists teach that this should be adhered to even by married couples, every time they engage in any kind of physical activity. It’s consent born out of a sexist and irrational fear of men and it is creating a toxic environment for normal healthy relationships.

They teach that sometimes yes means no. Women are willfully engaging in sex  when they don’t want to because feminists have taught them to fear all men…then claim later they were raped; they only said yes because they were worried they would be raped. So here’s this guy who asked a girl for sex, she says yes, now he’s in serious trouble and is labelled a rapist. They teach that women can retroactively retract consent, and they teach that perceived power differentials can constitute rape even if both parties agree to sex.

You should not even be approaching the subject of rape with 2nd graders. If you want to teach age appropriate students about a non sexist version of consent untouched by feminist bullshit..great I still think it’s redundant but I wouldn’t object.