men of tumblr

To all the men on tumblr

If your girlfriend tells you that you are inherently misogynist, she is not good for you.

If your girlfriend makes you insecure about your appearance, she is not good for you.

If your girlfriend hits or slaps you out of anger, she is not good for you.

If your girlfriend makes you feel that you are beneath her, she is not good for you.

If your girlfriend pressures you into sex acts you don’t want to do and say you don’t want to do, she is not good for you.

If your girlfriend makes common sexist jokes against men but takes offense at jokes against women, she’s a hypocrite.  She’s also not good for you.

If your girlfriend makes you afraid of making her mad, she’s not good for you.

If your girlfriend tampers with her birth control or protection and doesn’t tell you, she’s not good for you.

This has been a PSA.  Girls, we’re worth it, but men are worth it, too.

Masculinity

Why is there such an issue on this site with masculinity? Like I have never seen so many people push men to be more feminine.
“Wear make up!”
“Wear dresses!”
“Fucking cry and be open about your emotions!”
“You are oppressed by patriarchy, be a fucking woman!”
Like… What’s wrong with a man wanting to be a man? What’s wrong with men not being open about how they feel? Men aren’t wired to understand their feelings as well as women, plus testosterone doesn’t help much.
Why are you all so dead set on feminizing men and crucifying the ones who want to happily stay masculine?
Why do you all fixate on “toxic masculinity” without approaching “toxic femininity”?
Let men be men. Let the ones who want to be more feminine be feminine. Let the men who wanna be masculine be masculine.
There is nothing wrong with being a guy who thinks about sex a lot, because women do it too. There is nothing wrong with men who enjoy sports and getting dirty. There’s nothing wrong with making offensive jokes, most jokes are founded ondark subjects anyway.
Let men be masculine if they want because I don’t wanna have a boyfriend who’s afraid to talk about his masculine interests, or a boyfriend who’s scared to ask if he can go to a game with me. I want masculine men to comfortable with themselves just as much as any feminine man.
Please. Be kind to masculine men.

Can we take a moment to appreciate these men

This man wore his Sherlock scarf to a festival

This man wore his Doctor boots to Comic Con

But this man wins by a mile

Need I explain?

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