should have realized im a huge lesbian when i was like 14 and thought girls only wanted boyfriends for the title of having a boyfriend and being a guy’s girlfriend because the concept of actually liking a man and wanting to spend quality time with him in any intimate context was so unbelievable to me
Anyone who says the words “too bad/what a shame you’re gay” or “You’re gay? What a waste” to a lesbian automatically owes them and every other lesbian in a ten mile radius of them $20.00 for having to read/hear their value as a person being reduced down to the amount straight men can use them for their own satisfaction, sorry, I don’t make the rules.
like the reason i bring that up is bc everybody is always so quick to jump down every lesbians throat who says anything like “john boyega is handsome” like str8 girls can write entire blog posts abt how badly they wanna fuck rihanna or whatever and nobody bats an eye but the moment a lesbian is like “there’s this one man who is aesthetically pleasing” suddenly everyone is like “🚨🚨🚨fake lesbian spotted!!!🚨🚨🚨ur not a real lesbian!!!!🚨🚨🚨a real lesbian would never even be able to look in the same direction as a man!!!!🚨🚨🚨” and like???? im tired of it. every time a lesbian gets tired of hearing abt men all anybody can talk abt is how wonderful men are and how bitter and evil lesbians are but then occasionally a lesbian will be like “this one celebrity who is universally renowned as very attractive is good looking” people lose their shit and accuse us of being “fake” and “appropriating” the lesbian label and like?????
which is it lesbophobes???? do u want us to die if we speak the name of a man or cater to their every whim??? bc we arent doing either but people gotta go Wild every time we do People Things like chill
ur allowed to be a lesbian who can recognize attractive men it doesnt mean ur faking it just means u can see when people are good looking