Do either of you ever get sort of jealous of each other? I mean, things like "I want to hold her now, she's my baby" or anything like that? And also, did it ever bother you about which of you would hold her first after she was born? And did it make the other one of you jealous? This is something that worries me about my future baby with my fiance
No, not at all. I actually wanted Megan to hold her first, but the doctors wanted to do the skin to skin bonding to help her feel comfortable. Megan didn’t mind. Once Quinn was bundled up, Megan held her and then we passed her around to new grandpas and grandmas and aunts. It’s fun to share and watch others love on your baby.
Even still, We are around the kid so much, that it is almost a relief when others come to visit, play with, and hold her.
I’ve never taken Quinn from Megan and she has never taken her from me. We each have plenty of time… Too much time some days.