me asking for help

anonymous asked:

Hey I have a weird question I haven't really seen addressed anywhere if you don't mind. I've been seeing a lot about Freyr lately, and he sound so, so super nice and I've been wanting to say hi, but the fertility angle terrifies me as someone who would rather die than face pregnancy. Is that okay, like is that something that would jive?

That’s totally okay! I honestly don’t think there would be an issue with that, he’s so much more than a fertility god ya know? But at the same time I totally get where you’re coming from, my period was late this month and the minute I realized it I was like, “SHIT I’VE BEEN WITH FREYR AND WEARING UNAKITE EVERYDAY IM DONE IM PREGNANT” but nah. I think if children aren’t something you want he’ll be fine with that, the majority of devotees I know don’t pray to him for that. I do but I twist it around for fertile earth, bees, and soil. 🐝

 @hallelouise15

This sounds amazing! It also makes me happy that you have a mixed race couple (Like my parents!), I live in the country, so it feels like my dad is the darkest skin person in a 70 mile radius

Okay, so the first things I picked out were from your note on their age, race and the era. I thought about how they might interact and figured that these might be some key things to remember in this particular relationship:

  • Innocence- They’re young and innocent and didn’t have smut fiction in those days (or maybe they did. They probably did.)
  • Naivety- Still young and innocent and ever-so naive. Maybe they were sheltered from racial segregation in their lives, or maybe they’re in awe of the others racial differences and pure beauty?
  • Awkward/shyness- How will this affect the mood of the story and help it progress?
  • Hesitance- I’ll link this in with LGBTQ+ just because I can: I see LGBTQ+ segregation a lot like the racial segregation that we are only just overcoming. It is something that neither communities can change and that’s why our differences make us hesitant. Being raised in a community of solely straight people, we become hesitant to do anything that seems different to what those around us doing (Not sexually…). Use their hesitance in the long-run, it will make the reader love them more than they already do and will affect how the reader reacts when something bad happens between them.

Your characters will go through a lot, that applies to everyone’s stories, but especially when including historical/sensitive topics. Think about how people of that time might be reacting to certain things and dealing within these situations. In your case, I’d recommend to read some literature from early 1900′s. Knowing about the time and place you’re writing in is key and keep in mind that you’re focusing on the setting and mannerisms when reading, unless you particularly want to focus on the writer’s language techniques.

I can’t really say a lot as I don’t know where you are in your story and how much help you need :) Sometimes your conflict comes in different ways in stories, it doesn’t always have to happen between the protagonists. Think about the families and an outsider’s opinion and how a friend might react to their new-found lover. 

I know this probably didn’t help a whole lot, so feel free to DM me and I’ll see if I can help out! Good luck, I’d totally love to have a read, lots of love from Yasmine xox

simtopolis  asked:

I just saw your 300 followers post and omg I'm one of the simblrs you follow!? Ahh this is so amazing thank you!! (I couldn't reply or like because of the NSFW update saying your post was sensitive when it wasn't so I'm replying and sending my love through an ask)

i have no idea why it’s marked nsfw and i have no idea how to fix it stupid tumblr

and of course! i love your blog sooooo much!! and your builds are GORGEOUS

borderlinemimikyuu  asked:

for your viscount filia au is it an au where mage supporting hawke just goes "my city now"? bc i've always wanted to see that

It is!

After Meredith turns into a statue, Filia turns around and looks at The Templars like ‘y’all wanna catch these hands too?” and of course they don’t–so they back away.

And Filia then realizes two truths:

The Templars are afraid of her and that she’s the most powerful person in the city.

So she doesn’t need to leave–she’s going to stay things are going to be run a little differently. 

And since there’s no one left in Kirkwall to really be a figure of authority, someone nominates her for the Viscount seat. 

There’s some uproar, mostly concerning her desire to help mages and her relationship to Anders but that’s a whole story (that’s coming together as we speak!)

Thanks for asking! 

I’ve been less than productive this year when it comes to art so far, but I’m in such an odd spot where I like… I’m happy and confident about most of my art and when I have those weird moments where I scroll past my own drawings I have an ‘oh wow this looks cool I should reblog it‘ moment before I realize that I’m a dummy, that’s my own art right there.

nuuup. tumblr isnt letting me tag you lol. and I can answer these for u most of them arent spoilers!

iwaizumi and oikawa aren’t friends and have never met before, but you’re right that iwaizumi has business with oikawa and sought him out. the campfire art I did takes place sometime in the future when they’re companions, actually! (gotta give my iwaois a reason to stay together lol) anyway, i dont actually mean iwa has no choice in who he fights! it’s just oikawa who’s immediately hostile towards him and since iwa can’t exactly…state his business, he just rolls with it and starts attacking him back *iwa logic* ≧ω≦

i havent actually given much thought about other heretics but other than oikawa, more of them exist! it’s not an organization or anything, but more like a status. because they usually pose a threat, lots of people hunt them down, which is why oikawa is easily hostile to everybody

lastly, kenma isnt a divine servant, i just wanted to show what normal human would look like when casting spells hahaha. the beauty of being a servant means you can bypass all those longass incantations for a powerful spell.

cute crush asks

ok, send me a question and your answer to that question in regards to your crush or significant other then i’ll answer about my crush (bc don’t we all just wanna talk about our people??)

1: Do they drink coffee?
2: Are they left or right handed?
3: How do they do their hair? Facial hair? (If they have it)
4: What’s their favorite animal?
5: What is their relationship status?
6: What is their favorite band/singer?
7: Are they more a cat or dog person?
8: What does their laugh sound like?
9: Do they know multiple languages? Which ones?
10: How old are they? How old are you?
11: One word that describes them.
12: Do they have any pets?
13: What is their favorite TV show?
14: What is their favorite movie?
15: What car do they drive?
16: What ethnicity and/or nationality are they?
17: Where did you meet them?
18: What was your first meeting like?
19:  What is their zodiac sign? Are your signs compatible?
20: What month is their birthday?
21: What is your favorite outfit on them?
22: Are they good texters?
23: Your favorite feature about their appearance.
24: Your favorite thing about their personality.
25: Do they make you laugh?
26: Do you make them laugh?
27: Are they good huggers/ kissers?
28: What is your favorite “flaw” that they have?
29: Are they nice to strangers?
30: What is the funniest thing they have ever said?
31: Saddest?
32: Weirdest?
33: Cutest?
34: Ever dreamt about them? What happened in the dream?
35: How tall are they? How tall are you?
36: Do they have a booty?
37: What are their hobbies?
38: What are their talents?
39: What would your dream date be with them?
40: Does anyone know about your crush/love?
41: What do you guys have in common?
42: Do they go to the gym?
43: Do they go by their given name?
44: What is their favorite color?
45: How far apart do you live from them?
46: What song reminds you of them?
47: Do they listen to a lot of music?
48: What do they smell like?
49: If they were in a book (protagonist or antagonist or supporting character, up to you) how would the writer describe them?
50: How often do you see them?
51: The last text/ message they sent you?
52: The last thing they said to you in person?
53: What is the most embarrassing thing that’s happened to you in front of them?
54: Do they have any tattoos or piercings?
55: What color are their eyes?
56: What is their clothing style?
57: What is one thing that makes them really special?
58: Will you tell your crush your feelings?
59: How long did you know them before you started falling for them?
60: Was there a defining moment when you knew you liked them?

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J: michael and i have both been seeing a therapist since everything. i go to family counseling with my dad and michael has to drive all the way to the city for a specialist but its been helping the both of us a lot! therapy isnt an instant fix and a lot of it is wanting to be helped in the first place but…

M: its been good for us.

indiepunkloser  asked:

I think i'm asking a little early, I forgot the date but I just wanted to know if your surgery went well? I figure you'll make a post about it but I just wanted to know if you're doing okay. Anyways if this is pre-op good luck and if it's post op I hope things went well. much love I hope you get back to full health soon!!!

Tomorrow will be a week exactly since I went into surgery. The surgery finished almost an hour early, roughly 4 hours total. I lost almost a litre of blood but I didn’t need any blood transfusions, thank God. The tumor was also bigger than I thought it was, a bit bigger than my actual kidney. 

The first day was very rough; they tried to make me walk and I blacked out and threw up. The second day I was unable to urinate on my own for 6+ hours so I was stuck on a catheter for 2 days. Luckily by Sunday I was able to go on my own. They allowed me to go home on Sunday afternoon, but after removing my drainage tube from my side I got a fever that night of 101.5 degrees and couldn’t move/breathe well. There was fluid in my lungs too, but I think I fended off pneumonia for the most part by practicing the spiromiter thing. I was told to call the hospital if I had a fever or anything but I chose to sleep and drink water instead. My fever went away a couple days ago.

I can’t sleep long hours and still am in constant pain. My parents bought me a walker to walk to the bathroom when I need to, and I went to the hospital today to see my surgeon. He is giving me more pain meds and muscle relaxers to help me sleep at night. Luckily he told me the tumor was tested and wasn’t cancerous, though since I’m so young there’s a chance I’ll develop one on my liver or my kidney again in my lifetime. For now I’m not going to worry about it.

Thank you guys for all the prayers and kind thoughts. They helped a lot while I was in the hospital, and still help as I’m continuing to recover. Hopefully in a week I can move and get up by myself. For now I’m playing it by ear.

The-Holy-Trash™ question time:

1) Wich character do you hate the most and why?
2) Is Alexander a hoe or nah?
3) Thoughts of Jamilton?
4) Lams?
5) Daveed Diggs: Thomas or Lafayette?
6) Who has the best voice?
7) Who is the actor you love the most? (not the character, and the original cast)
8) Most hated song?
9) The saddest song?
10) That song that makes you wanna dance and sing so bad.
11) Lin Manuel Miranda? Yeah, Lin Manuel Miranda (We all agree).
12) Does your heart break when you listen to Philip saying “my name is Philip, and im a poet”????? Am i the only one??? And idk whyyy????
13) Which Schuyler sister you like the most?
14) Thomas is a Dick™ (this is not a question).
15) How did you get to know about Hamilton?
16) The first song you listened to?
17) Kill, kiss, marry?
18) Hamliza??? (Hell yes)
19) Favourite quote?
20) DAVEED DIGGS’ ARMS???!!!!

anonymous asked:

Hey amy! I just lost my dog, so i've had a bad week. Got any cute headcanons about Dami and his numerous pets?

  • I’m going to go ahead and assume that Damian names his favorite bats from the cave, and since Damian’s record on pet names is all over the place– some of them (Goliath, Titus) are dignified, while others (Batcow, Spotty the rat from B&R 13) are definitely not– I imagine the bat names get pretty interesting.
  • Damian: Antigone, Bonaparte, Ulysses, Jezebel, Scheherazade
  • Also Damian: Rita, Earl, Capitalism, Lemon, Bagel Bite
  • Alfred the cat has spyware in his collar. So far it’s been a useful and multipurpose investment, good for eavesdropping on both one’s family and unsuspecting criminals loitering in the parts of the city where a stray cat would go unnoticed. Conveniently, that is most of the city.
  • Titus sleeps at the end of Damian’s bed, for the death nightmares. It helps to have someone to hug.
  • There are also geese on the Manor grounds– they come in and out of the pond on the east side of the property– and Damian has been feeding them Cool Ranch Doritos for the past month as part of an experimental plot. That’s Tim’s brand of chips; if everything goes according to plan, the next time Tim takes a picnic lunch, he’ll be swarmed by expectant geese. It’s going to be hilarious.

anonymous asked:

What are your favorite Ships in BnHA?

puttin the Oh… in OTP ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ