Hi dads I'm in desperate need of advice... Me my best friend have this inside joke thing that we're married so we always act 'romantically' towards each other (people in school even think that we're dating!) and recently I've found that I really like her and I keep daydreaming about kissing her. I know that she is straight and doesn't accruals see me this way but I can't stop thinking about her, it's driving me mad! From your Ravenclaw daughter xx
GET SOME SPACE! If you are worried about it, put some distance between you and her. Not enough to look suspicious, but enough to take your mind off of her. And find some new people to mingle with. (I hate the word mingle SO much). Maybe find yourself a date. I don’t really know. Give it time. It will probably fade, as most crushes do. But there’s also a chance that you should tell her. I know that it’s terrifying, but she should be understanding if she’s your friend. You could let her know and see how she takes it. Then give yourself some space and let yourself get over it. That’s what I would do.
when i was like 14, i once wore contact lenses instead of glasses to school bc i had just learned how to put them on and i wanted to show them to my friends right, and this one guy goes and tells me “i thought girls were supposed to become beautiful when they stopped wearing glasses. something obviously went wrong with you” and that was??? so incredibly rude i wanted to cry but i just stood there not knowing what to say bc i honestly thought we were friends
but the girl sitting in front of him (who was also his crush, mind u) hears him and turns around with the most disgusted expression on her face, and calls him out on it like “omg i cant believe you said that have you even seen yourself in a mirror you have no right to tell her shit” and then she turns to me and says “dont listen to him, you look gorgeous with or without glasses” and she probably already forgot about that but i always remember it whenever i feel self-conscious about myself
so the moral of the story is: if u see someone being a jerk to someone else, dont laugh along and call them out on it. stick together and bring all the fuckboys down
Okay but you know what doesn’t sit well with me? The fact that Gansey doesn’t actually receive a lot of validation from his friends?? They all think about how amazing he is, how admirable, how unique, etc (I’m looking at Ronan and Adam POV’s, cause whoo boy), but how often do they actually tell him this??
I mean, Gansey didn’t actually understand how much his friends loved him until they followed him into the cave/tunnel in trk!! And he didn’t even think they would come in the first place!! I’ll admit, maybe it’s because it’s been a couple of months since I read the books and fanon is influencing my interpretation, but while someone will think something nice about Gansey, all they’ll say out loud is, “Your shoes are hideous” or “You’re such a buzzkill” or “Why do you talk like that?” Like, he doesn’t actually receive a lot of nice comments from Ronan or Adam??
please just compliment my boy Gansey and tell him that you love him
now that i’m older i’m realizing even though joey was painted to be this dense womanizer with subpar acting jobs, he actually worked his ass off for each role he got, was caring towards his friends, and was really sweet and open towards women. ross on the other hand