maybe its too big to deal with

anonymous asked:

Fuck Black Thursday bullshit, I don't get to see my family that I only get to see *maybe* 3 times a year all so some fuckwads can get 30 dollars off a tv. Fuck anyone in the ass that wants to shop for deals on Thanksgiving I'm not gonna get to see my niece because of all this bullshit. Capitalism fucking sucks and anyone that supports it fucking sucks too

thats why u gotta do it online or wait a day

and its usually not $30 more like $300 and thats a big deal for people who normally cant afford a tv

Fathers Day for Tony (Quick Fic)

For @shitshitshitshitwhy who asked for an Awkward!Spidey trying to say Happy Fathers Day to Tony

Tom Holland is Peter, of course RDJ is Tony.

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Peter had been trying to talk to Tony all day.

First in the elevator that morning, as they headed up to Tony’s mandatory Sunday breakfast with the team. Peter had been thrilled to catch Tony alone for once, and had reached in his backpack for the small package and card he had bought yesterday, only to turn around and see Tony on his phone, talking loudly about the pillows on his bed and why they just weren’t fluffy enough, and yes he was aware pillows deflated, but he needed perpetually fluffy pillows.

Peter had just sighed and put the package away.

>>>>>>>>>

After breakfast when Tony and Happy were arguing over who to invite to the birthday party for Clint that weekend, Peter tried to talk to him again.

“Um, Mr Stark?” Peter cleared his throat nervously. “Mr Stark if you have a moment–”

“Do you think it would be obnoxious to decorate in purple?” Tony was saying and Happy nodded emphatically.

“Tony, Clint hates purple.”

“But Clint wears purple.” Tony countered.

“Mr. Stark.” Peter tried again. “I need like two seconds, just real quick.”

“Hey Underoos.” Tony said with a bright smile and Peter flushed a little in happiness. “Do you think Clint would shoot me with an arrow if I decorated his party in purple because Happy thinks—”

“I’ll come back.” Peter said dejectedly, and waved, completely unnoticed by them.

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au where isak goes to the cabin with jonas and eva but who joins them is even, mostly a friend of jonas, he sometimes hangs out with the boys and isak has a ridiculous crush on him and he nearly screams when he sees him standing outside. and jonas and eva spend most of the time cuddled up (”u guys were the ones who wanted to join, not our problem”) so isak is left with even to make dinner and they make it work too easily and it tugs on isaks heart how great they are together, and isak doesnt know if its the weed, maybe he’s making a big deal out of it, but when they’re eating, even sitting next to him, he feels evens leg press against his and it stays there the whole time, neither of them moving and isak can barely eat bc of his racing heart. and when jonas tells them they have to share a bed, the blood drains from isaks face bc no way he’s sleeping next to even. but even gives him a wink and a grin and so a couple of hours later isak finds himself lying next to even. even is on his laptop editing some videos and isak is on his phone but he just stares at the screen, and his legs are bouncing but he doesnt realize that until even puts a hand on his thigh, “can you stop, its kinda distracting” and isak mumbles a sorry then with a silent sigh he turns to even, “what are you doing?” and even smiles as he explains the short movie he’s working on and isak is listening to him with his mouth slightly open and he’s so fascinated and totally gone for evens shy smiles. then isak turns on his side, his back to even, and he tries to sleep but its kind of impossible due to the fact of even being a few inches from him, so he tries to calm his heart. it almost works but then even squirms and he’s shutting his laptop and the bedside lamp, then isak listens as he makes himself comfortable under the blanket and its silent, until, “um.. do you mind if..uh..can we cuddle” and isak is 99% sure he’s dreaming already and he lets out a weak “yeah” and there’s a hesitant arm around his waist and isaks heart is about to jump out ,but when even pulls him closer by his chest, isak feels his heart go back to its place. isak falls asleep sooner than he thought he would. and what they wake up to is eva’s teasing voice, “food is ready, lovebirds” and isak slowly opens his eyes and theyre staring right into even’s blue ones and isak swallows, “were you watching me while i was sleeping” and he swears even blushes a little, “not at all” and they smile for a moment until they hear eva’s voice again. and isak is glad her and jonas are occupied with each other bc he has time to get to know even more, and maybe to kiss him down by the lake after they fed each other some roasted marshmallows

ok, this is the part where i get witchy because Daniel Flameo might not believe in the cards but goddamnit I do, and those cards had some shit to say*. mainstream Phils won’t tell you but your friendly neighborhood witch will!

The Chariot (Dan’s past), momentum, determination, self-discipline, victory
Ok, so this is pretty obvious, TATINOF/TABINOF and maybe DAPGO. I’d also argue that it could represent Dan’s career in general: making a job out of being a person on the internet isn’t easy (even affording for Dan’s privilege) and as much as we shittalk Dan (and as much as he does himself) it’s a job that requires a certain type of motivation and determination. As part of the Major Arcana, the card also represents life changes and events that are a Big Deal, rather than day to day choices.

Death (Dan’s present), transformation, closure, regeneration
Oh my god, everyone let go of the idea that Death is a “bad” card. There’s no such thing as a bad card. Anyway, we know that this is a resting year for them. TABINOF/TATINOF is over. The biggest project, possibly of his life thus far, is over and now…on to the next! This is the coolest thing about Death for me. It’s not just death for the sake of dying, its Death in order for something new to be born and grow. Maybe this is whatever mysterious goings-on were happening in February/March? Maybe it’s whatever the hell Dan was doing in the Bahamas for two hours. There are other projects in Dan’s (and probably Phil’s) future and they’re gonna be a Big Deal, too. Now I say “projects” and imply that these are work projects, but there’s another Big Deal that this closure/transformation might be referring to. 

Ace of Wands (Dan’s future), energy, inspiration, sexuality, self-image
“Now is your time to be courageous”. Let’s cast our eyes to Dan’s instagram, shall we? Shall we talk about this glittery nailed, bejeweled hatted soft boye? Shall we talk about the newly freed knee? The (terrible) Granny shirt? Can we talk about Signapore (all of it)? Listen, I’m just talkin’ about what I’m talkin’ about, but I think we’ve been seeing, and are going to continue to see a Dan that’s more self-assured about his gender expression and yeah, his sexuality. At the end of 2017-2018, we’re all gonna be like No Homo Howell, who? Aces are all about potential and opportunity. Dan, and we as his audience, is at the beginning of a fucking delightful adventure and I can’t wait to cheer him on.


*My philosophy on tarot cards is more that they’re thinking tools than ~fortune telling and since I’m privvy to only a very small part of Dan’s life obvi this is just my interpretation. But OH GIRL. The cards don’t care about your lil video, Phil! The cards are like “let me tell you about yourself”. 

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these messages have been sitting in my inbox for 10 days now. every time i logged onto tumblr i would see them. i didn’t answer them because i didn’t really know how to respond without anger, and i didn’t want to perpetuate a toxic environment in this fandom.

but the reason i’m posting them here and now, is to show you guys how much your words can hurt. you think its not a big deal, you just hit the anon button and sent a mean message or two because your jealousy got the best of you. you didn’t think about the fact that there might be others sending them too. maybe you thought your message was just another drop in the bucket. it wasn’t. i felt every single cruel message that passed through my inbox, no matter how hard i tried not to.

 the worst part of these messages was that every time i think about the secret sessions, a happy time, the BEST time in my life– these messages flash into my mind and taint the good memories i have sitting on taylor’s floor as she looks into my eyes and smiles.

please use the anon feature for something else. use it to send your friends a nice compliment without them knowing its from you. send a funny question because you see one of your mutuals is bored. don’t use it to hide behind your keyboard and type nasty words. because the moment you hit send, it goes to a REAL person’s inbox. i’m on the other side, having my day interrupted by the echoing words  of “you’re an entitled bitch, you didn’t deserve it” 

so please remember:

“Words can break someone into a million pieces, but they can also put them back together. I hope you use yours for good, because the only words you’ll regret more than the ones left unsaid are the ones you use to intentionally hurt someone.”

anonymous asked:

So as I see requests are open! Yaaaay! This is my first request ahah... So could you guys write about MC that smokes? (pluss Saeran + V + Vanderwood ). I smoke too, and there are people who is very bothered by this ( not like i smoke in other people houses ) but the smell, and people might be concerned. Maybe there is a reason or maybe its just an unhealthy addiction? c: ALSO I see so sooo many similar blogs, but you gurls are my favorites! May 707 bless you both~~~~

Thank you so much! So sweet:) Hope you like these~


Zen:

  • At first, he was dismissive about it
  • But then, as he got to care for you more, it bothered him
  • He didn’t want it affecting your health, skin, lungs, etc.
  • So, he talked to you about quitting, but you passively say you didn’t think it was a big deal–and you pointed out that he smoked too from time to time
  • He realized you were telling the truth
  • So he put in the effort to quit himself
  • When he finally managed, he talked to you again
  • He admitted he quit because of you, and he hoped you would do the same out of your own choice

Yoosung:

  • He talked to you normally when you were around him
  • But the second you pulled out a cigarette he got really quiet
  • He finds you a little intimidating when you smoke
  • He also starts coughing a lot
  • You ask him why he always moves away from you when you smoke–if it made him uncomfortable or something
  • And he honestly tells you that the smell bothers him
  • He can’t really stand to be around it, even though he feels bad that he leaves whenever you smoke
  • He doesn’t comment much on it, and leaves the decision to you
  • But you do start feeling convicted after a while, and you announce that you’re quitting
  • He’s so happy about it and supports you through the process

Jaehee:

  • She didn’t like the habit, and she made that fact very clear
  • Whenever she sees you grabbing for your pack, she just says, “You know those aren’t good for you, right?”
  • She might even send you articles about the downsides to smoking
  • You were honestly getting annoyed by it, and you told her so
  • She apologized, but said, “I don’t mean to be rude about it. But I’m very concerned for your health.”
  • You realized her intentions, and after that you became more aware of your bad habit
  • You hadn’t even made an official decision to quit
  • You just found yourself needing a cigarette less and less, finding happiness with Jaehee instead

Jumin:

  • He would not like it
  • He saw you as an amazing, capable person with a kind heart
  • But he also saw smoking as a deep flaw
  • It wasn’t just the smell, but it was purposely putting your health at stake
  • He eventually put his foot down, and told you he didn’t want you smoking in his house or outside of it
  • It led to a pretty big argument between the two of you
  • After a few days to cool off, you two sat down to talk about it
  • He explained that he didn’t mean to come off as attacking you
  • He was just concerned about your health, and he knows what smoking does to a person
  • You couldn’t deny it was a bad habit, so you made the decision to quit
  • He helped in whatever way he could, with those patches or even with an occasional appointment with a doctor to help


Seven:

  • He was used to the smell and everything, since Vanderwood also smoked
  • But he didn’t like the fact that you were doing it
  • He’s not very good at direct confrontation yet, so he just chooses to go the underhanded way
  • You find a lot of your cigarette boxes missing…
  • “Seven, where are my cigs?”
  • “Oh…I found the empty boxes and threw them out.”
  • “It was a brand new pack.”
  • “Well, they’re empty now.” 
  • You made him sit down and talk, and he admitted it made him uncomfortable
  • He would prefer if you quit, but he wouldn’t force you
  • You eventually made the initiative to do it, and he was your greatest support

Saeran:

  • He wouldn’t care one way or the other
  • Smoking was a habit he picked up at Mint Eye as well
  • But then he realized you were coughing a lot
  • When you went to the doctors to check it out, you found out the smoke was beginning to affect your lungs
  • Saeran shut it down from then on out
  • He wanted you to quit, and he made the first step by quitting himself

V:

  • He doesn’t particularly mind
  • It’s your habit and your decision
  • But he doesn’t really like the smell…or the taste
  • He won’t kiss you after you’ve smoked, and you started to notice
  • One day, he slips up and says he’s concerned about the amount you’ve been smoking
  • For some reason, it struck a chord
  • So you made the initiative to quit in secret
  • He was so proud of you when he realized months later that you hadn’t touched one cigarette

Vanderwood:

  • He doesn’t care
  • He smokes too
  • In fact, he’ll light the cigarette for you
  • You guys actually have good chats while taking a smoke

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June’s Featured Game: Living Playground: The Witch’s Puppets

DEVELOPER(S): Meaka
ENGINE: RPGMaker XP 
GENRE: Supernatural, Puzzle
WARNINGS:   Both implied and shown violence to the children, Emotional abuse, Blood
SUMMARY: With what starts as a simple day at the park, siblings Tony, Pablo, and Octavio are once again caught up in a series of strange circumstances such as strange pocket dimensions, coordinated monsters, and more geese than anyone could ever want to see in their lives. Stranded with them are Haze and Seal, two witches who seem to be connected with whatever nonsense is going down. As witches tend to be.In the simplest of terms, this game is about friendship and relating to others, both the good and the bad. With an unfortunate focus on the bad. It will be mostly straightforward with only one ending. 

Download the demo here!

Our Interview With The Dev Team Below The Cut!

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aaron/jackson + aaron’s first i love you

Mini Rant

I am really tired of you black stans that whenever an idol does something offensive to black culture, y’all pull the “im black and im not offended” card…like okay good for you. Just because YOU’RE not offended doesn’t mean the issue is justifiable. You think just by stating that you, a black person, is not offended by negative depictions of your culture, it makes the issue irrelevant. newsflash: YOU DO NOT REPRESENT ALL BLACK PEOPLE. Majority of us believe that culture appropriation in the kpop community is wrong and maybe if you take your coon head from out of your oppa’s pale ass then you’d understand why its wrong. Y’all be trying too hard to be accepted into a culture that quite frankley don’t give a single fuck about you. Y’all claim to not see what the big deal is, but in reality you do you just want to ignore it because y’all have this stupid idea that you need Korean validation so badly. I am not here for it, and I will not tolerate this coon behavior. If you’re not offended by something, then thats fine you can stay in your unoffended ass lane and stay quiet, but do not come at other black stans who are offended (and rightfully so) and try to invalidate how they feel just because “you’re black and you’re not offended”.

P.S. J-Hope’s braids are ugly as shit and I do not feel an ounce of guilt for the backlash he is getting and I will never approve of that tragic hairstyle no matter how much I love him and BTS. And that is all I am saying on this matter.

anonymous asked:

This question is for Evan. Heyo. Um, I've started having some intrusive thoughts lately (calling myself an idiot, which is a big insult for me; "goddamnit, [my name]" whenever I do something even remotely wrong; etc.) I was wondering if you had any ideas of how to deal with that kind of thing. It's really ruining my self esteem. *Psst, Jeremy, maybe his answer will help you, too*

Keith’s connection to the Lions?

Alright guys, I’ve been thinking about this since I watched Voltron S2 and then rewatched the first episode of S1.

During the two seasons we have right now, we have seen Keith connect to three different lions: the Blue Lion, the Red Lion, and the Black Lion. Now I’m not saying he has a deep connection to all of them, his connection is mainly with Red, but still, what has occurred is very unique. The only person/alien we see able to connect to more than one lion is Allura, due to her father entrusting her with this power before her 10,000 year sleep.

Blue was sending some sort of ‘feeling’ to Keith during part of his year in isolation out in the desert, until Lance came out to the area in which Keith discovered the markings of the Blue Lion. 

Keith later then bonds with Red Lion, becoming her paladin, even though it took some time and Keith proving himself to her (I’m going with Red being a female lion here). They later developed a deeper bond in S2, in which Red can sense her paladin’s distress.

But then in episode one of S2, we see Keith pilot and bond again with another Lion, Black, when Shiro is in trouble and they work together to save Shiro. This leads to Shiro giving the line we all love to hate, “If I don’t make out of here, I want you to lead Voltron.”

The reason I bring this up is because I believe the writers did this for a reason. Really the only person who should be able to connect with all of the Lions is Allura, but Keith has been able to sense two lions and is able to pilot two lions as well. I don’t know exactly where this might lead but there is a saying:

Once Is Chance, Twice is Coincidence, Third Time Is A Pattern

I believe that this is a long foreshadowing of something that Keith and the whole team will have to deal with in the future. Maybe we are thinking about something happening to Shiro too much, and should look more at Keith and where his story is going, with his heritage and other aspects of his past. I don’t think anything big will happen in S3 (unless its at the end and we get another cliffhanger)with this “scenario”  but I think it might be something to watch as we learn more about Keith’s past in the future season.

Or maybe I just overthink stuff to much with this show  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 

Snape Appreciation Month Day 6: Snape’s Parents

The first and only time we meet Severus’ parents, we see his father bearing down on his mother who was cowering while Severus was crying. This is significant. It means that there was no other way to read this other than Tobias was at the very least terrifying to Eileen and Severus found his behaviour distressing. The other times we hear about them, violence is implied. The way Tobias ruled the house had a negative effect on Severus. When Severus told Lily that his father liked nothing, he included himself. At best, Severus inferred this from Tobias’ behaviour. Imagine being that young and being able to tell that your father doesn’t care for you. It would hurt your self-esteem because after all if your parent, who is obligated to love you, doesn’t even like you, who will? At worst, Tobias let Severus know verbally and/or physically how he felt. There’s a link between spousal abuse and child abuse so there is a very high likelihood that Severus got the same treatment as Eileen.

Eileen was a pureblood who got married to a muggle. Maybe she fell in love with Tobias or maybe he was a casual fuck who accidently knocked her up. Either way she married a man in a muggle town without any support system from the magical world where she had lived all her life. Things might have been rosy in the beginning but Tobias did scare her and, like Severus implied, he didn’t like her very much either. Unlike other fans, I don’t think Eileen was good parent. Severus was thin, dirty, wearing mismatched clothes and going wherever he pleased. He was telling Lily about magic (and Lily was telling her family) like it wasn’t a big deal. She was clearly not looking after her son. I think it was because of learned helplessness. The abuse and poverty just sapped her energy. Maybe she took jobs too to keep a roof over their home. Regardless, neglect has adverse effect on children.

Poverty on its own is bad enough, add in domestic violence and neglect, and you have a kid with a lot of issues. Severus’ house wasn’t very big. I bet he spent a lot of time in his room reading his mother’s textbook to prepare him for the place he would go to escape his town. I also think that he spent a lot of time roaming the town unsupervised, getting into fights and playing by himself. I think he’d rather that than spend time around his parents. This doesn’t mean he hated them. Based on the nature of his other relationships, I think he loved them hence the nickname Half Blood Prince. I don’t know how his parents died but I think they died while he was still in Hogwarts. It didn’t make a difference in his life since he already knew how to take care of himself. At the very least this explains why Severus formed strong attachments to people who didn’t necessarily feel the same way about him.

Jaebum’s Husband Profile

DAY1 Jaebum
here we go ^_^
i hope everyone likes it.
if something is missing them let me know :) 
sorry if a lot seem repetitive, but most topics are similar to the wedding profile.
~ahgase Omma

Timeline

he’d start to consider marriage after a serious relationship hits a little bump and he realises he can’t live without her. maybe in his early to mid 30s.

  • Proposal- 3-6 years of dating
  • Wedding- within 2 years of proposal 
  • Kids- 2-3 years of settling into their place, their maybe some moving due to work or family.

Proposal
A classic, but personal outing/surprise proposal, it would see very ordinary, he might seem a little off in behaviour, but otherwise its all normal, until he brings you to that special place (not necessarily the place you first met, but the place you wish you could go to but couldn’t)  then he would turn around to face you and suddenly drop… he would think its so cheesy but its actually very tasteful and classy.

Wedding
Small, not made public, close family and friends, maybe even the got7 families too, but nothing too big, if he can help it he’ll make sure the company doesn’t make a big deal out of it.

Dutifulness
He would be very dutiful around the house, even after the honeymoon period. he would carry on to tidy up, cook when he can, and be the one to suggest taking turns to do the equally hated jobs. 

most cherished moments
he’d be busy, so any time together was everything to him, even if it was 2am and your already sleeping, he’d cherish those moments of himself curling upto you in bed. when he wakes up after a few hours sleep and watches over you for as long as possible, before he has to bolt through the house to get to the studio in time, kissing you and the kids as he leaves. 

Arguments
They would mostly be about ‘timing’ whether it be related to work, and him not getting free time, or him missing out on the kids life events.

Romance
When something has gone terribly wrong, and also when things are going very right and he wants to show his thanks. he would be open to the small things, like the secret kiss in the morning, the little surprise in the fridge, but the bigger the gesture the less frequent it would be. mostly because he doesn’t want to be the cheesy husband but you’ll still get your favourite meal when you least expect it, and surprise outings

Kids/Pets
How many
2, maybe 3 kids, plus an army of cats… with the way he’s going. he may give his cats to someone for a while when the newborn is in the house for the first time, thats if the post natal centre is strict with not having pets there.

When
Cat first but then within 1-3 years will be your first child, then a classic 2 years gap. the main problem would be his work taking him to lots of different places, you may settle in seoul first, but then need to move out of seoul, only when things are stable and a home is established will the talk of kids really start.

Superman factor 
He would whenever he can… which isn’t often at home, but when they get past 4 years old, he would bring them to work to play as he partly worked. he would be the one that wakes them in the morning, and make sure they are in bed at the end of the day. the kind of working dad, that the kids dont remember much of in their very early life, but become super proud of because he did work so hard.

Anniversaries 
the first one would be the most out of the blue romantic thing in the world! he wouldn’t let anything slip, he had to keep it a secret right up until the day. he would do a few small gifts then a bigger evening surprise maybe a long weekend away to jeju-do or busan, because he wants to stroll through the streets and taste all of the amazing sea food there. 

Family-in-law
he would try he’s hardest to make the best impression in the first few meet ups, because he knows he’s going to be busy and maybe miss a few. he helps his mother-in-law cook, no matter how much she told him to go sit down again, he would talk about his job and show his diligent side to your father, he’d treat (bribe) siblings. he’d also make a point of remembering their birthdays, so he could organise gifts to be sent to them every year.

Gifs are not my own

  • Pugsley: Wait for it... Wait for it... 9:01! Lucas Beineke is officially late for the first time ever. All right, let's do this. Who's got theories?
  • Joel: Uh... Alarm didn't go off.
  • Pugsley: All three alarms? All with battery back-up? Come on, who wants to take this seriously?
  • NJ: Ooh! He was taken in his sleep!
  • Pugsley: That's what I'm talking about! Super dark, NJ, but way more plausible than Joel's idiotic alarm clock theory.
  • Monday: I bet he tucked himself into bed too tight and got stuck.
  • Gina: Mm, maybe he fell into another dimension where he's interesting.
  • Wednesday: It's 9:00 A.M. Why is no one working?
  • Pugsley: Lucas Beineke is a few minutes late, and we're all trying to guess why.
  • Wednesday: I'd like to play. I'd say he's in line... at the bank... this is fun.
  • Pugsley: It is fun, but you're all wrong.
  • [Lucas enters]
  • Pugsley: There he is! Lucas! Where have you been? We've been worried sick. Do you care to explain yourself?
  • Lucas: I'm just 70 seconds late. It's not a big deal; don't worry about it.
  • Wednesday: Lucas, you will tell us, and you will tell us now.
  • Lucas: ...there was a problem at the bank.
  • Wednesday: Hot damn!

like. dude. listen. you cant put shit out in the world without at least some semblance of the awareness that, wow, huh, maybe that’s actually regurgitating a really harmful idea!! maybe i should look deeper into my own biases and examine why theyre there!!! ethics 101!!

theres this super fucking pervasive idea that disabled people–in this case, let’s say particularly blind people–are the victims of some horrible tragedy. fight ableism because “that could be you one day!! [shudder]”, or ditch the fighting ableism completely like most people. that could be you one day. oh god. how terrifying. imagine a life like that!

when i went blind i spent like a week in the hospital bingeing everything on netflix that had audio description (at the time this was: daredevil, criminal minds, sherlock bbc, and glee) and getting an alarming number of blood draws. it was pretty chill. i didnt really have my official freakout until a couple weeks later, after…wait for it…a professor failed me rather than deal with the inaccessibility in her own coursework and told me i should drop out, because academia was no place for someone like me.

i was pissed at first. im still pissed. meet me in the fucking pit, laurie, the 504 coordinator can be our referee.

but after a little while it set in that, oh right, i can’t read. oh right, i can’t currently cross the street on my own. on right, i cant, i cant, i cant. everything that everyone had ever said was such an awful fate to be subjected to sunk in all at once and i think i ended up crying over not being able to finish dragon age: inquisition.

i dont even like dragon age.

it took like…..a while……..to remember that life has intrinsic value. that theres nothing actually all that important about being sighted. there are some things i cant do anymore but that isnt the end of the world, and like, hell, there are some perks, too! i never have to see benedict cumberbatch’s face ever again, for one.

i got through my little breakdown pretty quickly, and into a stage in my life where my blindness was something that defined me – and that that wasnt a bad thing. i know im lucky for that. i know if i werent already a cr*p it probably would have been a lot harder. i know other people still struggle with the idea that they’re useless, or that their existence is tragic. i have those moments too.

and like, spoiler alert, if y'all fuckers and your “isnt it so sad that matt doesnt know what foggy looks like”, [something something inaccessible disney channel cartoon], etc etc thought you werent involved here, you thought wrong. those ideas are part of the problem. you are part of the problem. maybe you dont think that its a big deal because you’re not necessarily espousing eugenics (side-eyeing u transhumanists real fuckin hard rn), but it is. casual ableism like that, like it’s a no-brainer, of course blindness is terrible, of course it’s something to fear, of course… that has an impact.

grow the fuck up. think critically about the kind of shit youre putting into the world. be better

Mark’s Husband Profile

DAY2 Mark
seems like its not as popular as i thought it would be
but its nice to see some of you enjoying it :)
let me know what you all think ^_^
~ahgase Omma

Timeline
we already know he’s expecting to be married by the time he’s 35, and that leave around 10years to fill in. he’s already thinking about it, but is waiting for the right person and timing. it may start to become serious around 29/30.

  • Proposal- 3-5 years of dating
  • Wedding- within 2 years of proposal 
  • Kids- 1-2 years of marriage, ideally he’d like to start a family right away.

Proposal
Very sentimental, with it planned out weeks in advance. he would make the day obviously special, with not apparent reason, but then at the end of a very long day he would propose then end the day with dessert and a cosy night together.
He would be nervous but bold when proposing, and stay knelt down until you got over your shock and finally answer him.

Wedding
its not made public, and he’d have no intention of making it too big, but with family and friends it ends up being more than your thought. Also there would be the question of if you have a wedding in korea or america, it would more likely be in america, and this also means that you might end up having two or more ceremonies, a korean modern, an american style, and any other depending on the otherhalf’s background.

Dutifulness
He would do plenty around the house, without hesitation, it might die down a little after the honeymoon period but he doesn’t just make you do all the work.
keeping the place generally clean isn’t much his thing, but small things like hovering, random dishes, and of course dog duties are his thing.

most cherished moments
easy! any every time he’s able to just relax at home with you. those moments where everything is quiet and he just looks over at you and thinks how perfect that moment is. he hates being away form home, so every chance he gets to remember his happiness he does.

Arguments
It would be far and few between, not because there are a few issues, but because he doesn’t make much of a scene out of them, they either naturally sort themselves out or both parties quickly come to an understanding, with no resentment. if things became too much then perhaps voices would be raised but only in times when both of you have very different ideas. not in times where one is doing something small wrong/differently.

Romance
it would be at the most random times, when mark just suddenly feels like surprising you. it would vary greatly depending on his chance to prepare for it, from a small gift to a couples weekend. random romance would be his thing! he would be the one to give back hugs whilst you cook, and cuddle when your watching tv, have a bouquet sent to you when he’s away, with the sweetest card ever!

Kids/Pets
How many

2-3 kids, and a dog. he’s all about having a whole family, pet included, and as soon as possible. he’d love seeing how the dog/s interact with the new born, and have them grow up together, running around, going to dog cafes and kid cafes all the time.

When
ideally, within the first year of marriage, i also wouldn’t be surprised if he ends up having a ‘shotgun’ marriage. he’d want to have them fairly close together but still old enough to look after each other. he’d like to have his kids by the time he’s in his late 30s.

Superman factor
he’s already in father mode! he’s perfect for the job, at first he might spoil his kids, but then realise that its not really sustainable, and that they need to learn about the value of money. he would play with them every chance he gets! and even ends up sleeping with them all curled up on the couch after playing for so long

Anniversaries
he’d remember them all, the main ones at least. birthdays, wedding anniversary. if he could plan anything it would be something simple but sweet. a small cruise down Han river, with dinner and the amazing light show, with a little special something, maybe a light up banner with the wedding date and your names on it, a little cheesy a little cringeworthy but super sweet.

Family-in-law
he’s all about those family outings with everyone to the park. a relaxed visit with the whole family, no super important celebration but rather the everyday stuff. he likes to remember those, because they’re the family memories he wants his kids to remember, that sunny day where they played with their dad, and ate mums and grandmas amazing picnic then fell asleep in the car whilst granddad talked about milk costing much less back in the day.

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anonymous asked:

i don't know much about falsettos, why is it bad that people are hcing marvin's last name as feldman? (does he not have a last name?)

no he doesnt !! the only people in falsettos w canon last names r whizzer nd mendel ( brown nd weisenbachfeld , respectively )

nd like .. ok so the whole thing w marvin feldman started bc theres a man on the aids quilt named marvin feldman nd mayb im makin a way too big a deal of this but i personally find it R L Y disrespectful to the memory of the actual man

nd to add insult to injury the aids quilt was made IN H O N O R of marvin feldman like idk why the falsettos fandom thinks its OKAY to hc marvs last name as that is if he were that person the aids quilt was made for , as if marvin feldman werent a real gay man who died of aids like ……… yall jst b creative. come up w a name that isnt LITERALLY replacing a fictional char w a real man who died like ??

there r so many last names out there. use a fucking generator if yre that desperate fr one fr marvin good l-rd

  • Yates: Wait for it... Wait for it... 9:01! Elizabeth Shaw is officially late for the first time ever. All right, let's do this. Who's got theories?
  • Benton: Uh... Alarm didn't go off.
  • Yates: All three alarms? All with battery back-up? Come on, who wants to take this seriously?
  • Jo: Ooh! She was taken in her sleep!
  • Yates: That's what I'm talking about! Super dark, Jo, but way more plausible than Benton's idiotic alarm clock theory.
  • Osgood: I bet she tucked herself into bed too tight and got stuck.
  • Doctor: Mm, maybe she fell into another dimension where she's interesting.
  • Brigadier: It's 9:00 A.M. Why is no one working?
  • Yates: Elizabeth Shaw is a few minutes late, and we're all trying to guess why.
  • Brigadier: I'd like to play. I'd say she's in line... at the bank... this is fun.
  • Yates: It is fun, but you're all wrong.
  • [Liz enters]
  • Yates: There he is! Liz! Where have you been? We've been worried sick. Do you care to explain yourself?
  • Liz Shaw: I'm just 70 seconds late. It's not a big deal; don't worry about it.
  • Brigadier: Miss Shaw, you will tell us, and you will tell us now.
  • Liz Shaw: ...there was a problem at the bank.
  • Brigadier: Hot damn!