maybe i will get married in that dress too

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When I put on my wedding dress I knew it was the one. The gentle sparkle of the dress, the lace detail the champagne colour that perfectly complemented my olive skin.

The way it fell over my hips and followed the curves of my figure.

It was magical.

I never dreamed I would wear a dress like this, hell, I used to think that I would never find love or get married unless I lost weight.

After I chose it there were times I doubted myself, thinking I would be too self conscious to wear my dress, that it was too tight fitting. That maybe I should have tried to lose weight for my wedding.

But As you grow older and you surround yourself with the right people, you begin to realise that what you look like doesn’t really matter to those that love you.

Dan has loved me at all different sizes and on the day of the wedding when I walked into the room he turned and teared as I walked towards him, he looked at me like I was magic.

So I would like to say this one thing to brides to be everywhere, plus size or not. Do not feel you have to change yourself or your size to be happy on your wedding day, your partner loves you for who you are, not just what you look like.

You are deserving of happiness no matter what your size, and you will be the most beautiful person in the room next to your love because you will be glowing with the love you have for each other.

The happy ending is for everyone so please, please let yourself have it.

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Photography: Kirsty Mackenzie

i’ve been watching mushy wedding videos on youtube all day which naturally resulted in deep contemplation of the following:

  • harry marries ginny in his auror uniform bc HOT DAMN TBH
  • idk maybe ginny wears her pro quidditch robes too because why go the white dress route when you can start your official life as a famous hot power-couple with a statement like that
  • harry thinks it’s a good thing he was already standing up-front when he noticed hagrid and mcgonagall sitting where the groom’s parents were supposed to be otherwise he reckons he might have cried a bit he still cried a bit
  • molly and minerva take turns dancing w/ harry for the mother/son dance don’t touch me
  • people come up to mr weasley and ask him good-naturedly “gaining another son, eh arthur, don’t you have enough of those already lolol?” and he’s just like “pls we pretty much raised that kid, do u see these gray hairs he is partly to blame, this is basically an excuse to have cake”
  • hermione and ron have a muggle ceremony & hermione teaches her delighted father-in-law the chicken dance
  • ginny’s speech as maid of honor (or matron of honor bc hinny probably got married first lbr) and harry’s as best man both contain so much damn sass that hermione and ron start to question their life choices
  • ron forever regrets that he missed his chance at payback by neglecting to bring up ginny’s singing valentine at harry’s wedding
  • everyone bets on percy and audrey dating for 3+ years and then being engaged for 2+ years and having an elaborate ceremony planned down to the tiniest detail
  • lol nah they date for like a month and then elope
  • everyone but fleur is shocked
  • george considers leaving the spot of his best man open but picks ginny in the end
  • lee jordan is jealous for about a second before he starts a fierce campaign to be angelina’s maid of honor
  • angelina does not make lee jordan her maid of honor
  • he does however land the gig of dj for the reception and plays an endless rotation of sappy 80s love songs & spice girls
  • charlie never gets married bc dRA g O NS “but charlie you’re so handsome and there’s this lovely-” “DRAGONS THO. mum. like, DRAGONS??? dragons”

anonymous asked:

If Faith were to get married, what kind of wedding would it be and what would she wear?

Ooooohhhh…this is a fun question Nonny! If Faith were to ever get married, I have no doubt it would be informal, maybe even in Vegas, (but not necessarily) but I think it would definitely be a handfasting with rings and vows mixed in too.

She’d probably want to wear something halfway nice, but wouldn’t go out and buy some fancy dress. If she had a white dress, she’d wear that, or get a simple white dress. I actually found an example and turned it into a manip. :) This would be the most formal she’d go, IMO.

I think it would be meaningful to her, but she wouldn’t need or want the big white church thing. 

Ideally, outside at night. SMALL, maybe just the two of them and witnesses. There would be some candles, music (it could be as simple as a single guitar or even a recording of their favourite song, but there’d be some music). Like I said, a handfasting and rings/vows hybrid and someone to snap a couple of pictures for them. Simple clothes and she’d carry one or two flower… OH! and Xander could be her maid of honour. LOL! Then a big ol’ party after… Or just partying afterwards.

Thanks for the fun question, Nonny!

anonymous asked:

i feel like i abused my cousin when we were both little. idk how old we were but i remember kissing him and my parents and his parents saw me and they thought it was cute so i did it a few more times. i didnt know what incest was. also when i was younger than that i had a wedding dress and i would make my older brother wear a suit and pretend we were getting married. (my parents thought this was cute too) i feel gross and bad :(

I dont have the energy to give you a paragraph like I usually do but I dont think you abused them

any followers who could maybe add more to this would be a great help

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Trespasser DLC Sera Romance Spoilers!

Playing the DLC with my Female Lavellan, Safeen.  I knew there was a reason why I dumped Solas with his shady ho ass (sorry, Solavellans!!!) and rolled over for Sera instead.  Didn’t even question her on the subject, just barreled into her arms.  NOW I AM WIFEY!!!!!!!!

With shotgun wedding pics.  Or is it an exploding shot wedding? Doesn’t matter.  THIS IS SO FRIGGING ADORABLE.

Best part were the companion comments. 

Cassandra: (on getting married) You did? Here? In the palace? Oh the garden would be perfect for a wedding!

Dorian: A married woman! My, my, isn’t that something? I should call Sera “Mrs. Inquisitor” from now on.  Maybe teach her to crochet. She’ll love that!

Cassandra: I wanted to say, you looked lovely, Sera.  It was a surprise.

Sera: Josie wanted me in a dress so foofed you could lose a ham in it.

She looked really frigging cute in that dress too.