maybe I'm totally wrong about all of this

anonymous asked:

It's incredibly personal and maybe totally wrong to ask, don't answer if it makes you uncomfortable. I have bpd and depression and I always say I don't want kids because I couldn't do that (life) to anyone else. I don't mean to attack you and I wish you all the happiness in the world, I'm just so curious as to what makes you believe life is so worth living that you would pass it onto another human being? (1/2)

I’m not judging you, I actually feel like I  might really wanna be a mum someday but for me it’s a huge question about life being worth it’s struggles or not. Like, what if my child gets the same disorder as me (my parents didn’t cause it). I’m sorry if it’s inapproiate, I don’t want to make anyone feel guilty I just can’t stop wondering. (2/2)

Just to let you know, you didn’t click anonymous on the second part. And I can’t, I’m afraid, answer this? Because our shared disorder does not intrinsically equal shared experience of it. I have a loving husband, awesome family, hobbies, friends and fantastic pets. It’s not been hard for me to see life as something worth living, so, sorry. Life is great. Mental illness is not. And nothing I have is genetic, so can’t be passed along that way, and even if Julian was mentally ill, I have the experience to help him through it. Life is fantastic. There are so many experiences I want my child to have.

I just realized by answering that post I might kind of be pointing people to harass the OP or someone else on that list and I don’t want that so I hid it
But honestly if you think all my ridiculous sexual shallura and daddy jokes have always been totally and completely fine yet a single fluffy picture of adult shance makes you blow through the roof

maybe

take a second to think about what you’re really doing
And if you still think the second one is way worse honestly it doesn’t bother me in the slightest if you want to unfollow and block me

anonymous asked:

My memory's a bit fuzzy, but didn't someone interview Togashi and asked about how he felt with all the shipping? I could've sworn it happened, but maybe I'm wrong

hmm so there’s two different things you might be referring to…

someone started spreading a rumor that togashi said in an interview that he’s grossed out by all the gay shipping but yeah that is totally fake

i’m not super familiar with yyh fandom but i believe what’s actually real is that togashi was asked about a gay noncanon ship between two of the protagonists and replied “oh, i wish i thought of that” (maybe someone else can confirm)

Malcolm in the Middle sentence starters
  • "I am destined to be the most miserable person on earth."
  • "I want a sundae and then some pizza."
  • "So, what kind of socks are you wearing?"
  • "I will leave home forever! Or I'll never leave... whatever's worse."
  • "You don't have any friends."
  • "You spent $300 on sequins?"
  • "I want to wear my pajamas to school."
  • "I expect nothing and I'm still let down."
  • "I can smell colors."
  • "I have social skills, jackass."
  • "I'm just gonna go crawl under a rock now."
  • "People can't help what they like."
  • "In our house, 'feelings' is the F word."
  • "Are you trying to seduce me?"
  • "I'll get up when the world stops being a cruel joke."
  • "I know what you're gonna say and believe me, I totally agree."
  • "There was no excuse for what I did. It was idiotic, immature."
  • "I was being sneaky and stuff."
  • "You're going down."
  • "Who's this dork?"
  • "You wanna go learn something about the real world?"
  • "Too bad. You're coming."
  • "I got the DVD player but we'll need to steal another $600 if you want the surround sound."
  • "Maybe we can figure out some sort of deal."
  • "Nothing exciting ever happens around here."
  • "I just wanted somebody to like me."
  • "She's cute, she's smart and she even lies to cops."
  • "I'm in ass heaven."
  • "I'm Mr. Cool."
  • "Why does everything end in a group suicide with you?"
  • "What happened to your face?"
  • "What happened to your pants?"
  • "Well maybe she wouldn't be a lesbian if you tucked in your shirt once in awhile."
  • "There was nothing they could do about it."
  • "I don't want to burn up any calories repeating myself."
  • "I just don't get why we're celebrating. It seems wrong."
  • "If he wants to marry a total stranger, that's his business."
  • "Have you really thought about what you're doing?"
  • "I'll spend the rest of my life being sweet to her."
  • "You will never connect normally with another human being."
  • "We photoshopped your head in."
  • "I have a need to show off."
  • "When they laugh, I'm sure they're always laughing at me."
  • "They're all jealous."
  • "I bet you feel like a jackass."
  • "This in no way justifies what you said before."
  • "It's ditch day."
  • "I'm surprised you didn't hear. Everyone was telling their friends... Oh."
  • "The professor of boozeology has some homework for you."
  • "What's he doing here?"
  • "I know I always say gossip rots your soul, but it doesn't count when it's this good."
  • "I'm so glad we don't have any secrets."
  • "I'm glad you told me."
  • "Feels good to come clean."
  • "I ended up at the supermarket, where I squeezed all the Wonderbread into balls, so the manager threw me out."
  • "Oh my God, I'm as unpopular as you?"
  • "You don't have to freak out, I know how to handle him."
  • "Thank you for inviting me."
  • "Are you trying to prove you can't go out in public?"
  • "This is your last chance."
  • "Don't try 911. They're not qualified."
  • "Maybe we need to look at ourselves honestly."
  • "You're a ruthlessly brutal thug."
  • "I have my moods."
  • "Look how it was my first impulse to criticize you, that just shows what a pompous asshole I am."
  • "I usually assume people are my enemy."

anonymous asked:

I don't get it. What's so bad about a Taylor cake? Maybe she likes her? Or is there is a whole point I'm missing.

Oh, it’s totally possible that Eleanor likes Taylor Swift. But, there are a couple things wrong with this situation:

1.They made the cake look all lovey-dovey from the one angle when really it was like, almost like a kiddish birthday cake, not loved-up at all.

and 

2. While Eleanor may like Taylor Swift…
 Louis

certainly

does

not.

anonymous asked:

I really want to fantasize about lovemaking, but the only thing that seems to get me off is kinky stuff that frankly distresses me (like, to the point of suicide). Is there anyway I can change that so I can orgasm to vanilla stuff, or am I stuck? And if so, will I ever be able to have vanilla sex irl & orgasm, or will it always have to be some form of roleplay? I'm a cis woman who only just learnt how to orgasm & I have reason to suspect it's because I wasn't fantasizing about the right stuff.

First of all, I think it’s important to believe that fantasy is free.  If it stays in your head and imaginary, it’s not wrong, no matter what it is.  Yes, even that.  Your inner thoughts don’t harm anyone and you should not hate yourself or hurt yourself over them.

Secondly, what I’ve found is that editing or re-framing disturbing fantasies works better than total repression.  Maybe the “action” is the same, but you preface it with “in a consensual roleplay” or “in a movie I’m watching.”  Identify which parts of the fantasies are really bothering you, not just unconventional, and edit only those parts.

As for “will I ever be normal?”, maybe not, but so what?  There’s nothing wrong with being kinky.  And the dating pool of people willing to try a little roleplay (or a lot) is so much bigger and more diverse than you might expect.  I really can’t overstate how many millions of people there are whose outward presentation makes you think “this person only has Correct Upstanding Sex, probably slow gentle lovemaking surrounded by candles” and whose bedroom is full of well-fucked weather balloons or drawings of Tigger with a humanoid vagina.  Sometimes two humanoid vaginas.  Vaginae.  You get me.

Depending on what your kink is, you may have to compromise some of the details for safety and consensuality, but you do not have to compromise all the way to “normal.”  There’s no reason, ethical or moral or practical, that you ever need to be normal.

You’ve learned what gets you off, and that’s a gift.  It may not feel like one right now, but it is.  Better to get off to weird shit, and find ways to make the weird shit work for you, than to forever remain unweird and unfulfilled.

Yo dude what if Krishan leaving exo was all part of the fucking plan because think about it. In the wolf drama, they were the only ones that were “wolves”. They were different among the group. And then the teasers show a lot of evidence correlating their departure as well. Maybe they are coming back…? I s2g if SM pulls something like that I will explode. BRUH THESE TEASERS ARE FUCKING ME OVER. MAKING ME FEEL LIKE SHERLOCK OR SOME SHIT B. Y. e

anonymous asked:

My health teacher makes these trans-hate remarks, like today he said "No woman has an adams apple." And another time he was like "gender is permanent." and i said "well actually its not" and he said "yes there are people that think they can change their gender by having an operation, but you cant really change their gender, you're still a girl or a boy in your DNA." Anyway I'm scared he's just reinforcing this into all the kids he teaches but when we argue he never accepts he's wrong.

ewwwwwwwwww he’s a total transphobe, intersexist, and has a baby’s grasp of the science of biological sex or the social construct that is gender. What a pompous jerk.

I’m sorry you have to put up with his bigoted nonsense, anon! hopefully you and the other kids in your class can learn better from other sources. does your school have an LGBTQ+ group? if so, maybe you lot could talk about trans and intersex issues there to help counter some of the damage.