signs & infidelity

disclaimer: the rating beside the placement does not assume how likely it is for someone with that placement to cheat, it is based purely on archetypal behavior and will obviously vary with each individual based on their morals, environment, and other placements. scale of 1-10 from not likely to very likely.

*check moon & mars for men, moon & venus for women 

below are a description of the moon/venus/mars signs in love and reasons for infidelity. you’re mine means they are more dominant/possessive and i’m yours means they are more submissive/selfless.

aries / 7 / you’re mine

very impulsive and reckless, however, is very passionate when you can tie them down by giving them the adventure and excitement they crave. they want their partner to maintain that wow factor. they tend to act without thinking and are more hesitant to saying no to people, causing some actions they later regret.

taurus / 1 / you’re mine

no matter how unhappy they may be with the relationship, their morals, natural loyalty, and habit to think before they act makes it pretty unlikely for them to be unfaithful. however, they do tend to expect a lot out of a relationship, such as romance, financial and emotional stability, and possessiveness.

gemini / 8 / you’re mine & i’m yours

can be extremely flighty and naturally love to socialize and be around many people- the more the merrier for them. they don’t usually like to hide their actions, but can give into peer pressure. they like intellectual stimuli and dislike people who are too clingy- so if space isn’t given they may leave. 

cancer / 5 / you’re mine & i’m yours

once they get attached, they stay attached. care and love are directly connected for them and it runs deep. however, the moment they feel abandoned or attacked, they may turn to someone else to protect them. they’re highly defensive and will find anyone they can to give them safety. 

leo / 4 / i’m yours

very passionate and sweet lovers, if you give them all your attention, all theirs will be on you. if they’re developed leos, they will be very loyal. however, it is possible they expect a lot out of you and if you can’t provide it for them, they may turn to someone else. 

virgo / 2 / i’m yours

the most cautious, virgos think through their ideas before acting upon them and always consider all the consequences. they stick to their morals and are rational and independent. selfless in love, they are unlikely to cheat. however, it isn’t difficult to make them flee- they need space and mental connection.

libra / 6 / i’m yours

romantic, sweet, generous, and prioritizes love. when developed and cared for, they will be loyal and perfectly fit what the ideal lover should be. however, they can be flighty and want a physical, emotional, and mental connection. they are easily persuaded and influenced by others. 

scorpio / 3 / you’re mine & i’m yours

extremely passionate, sensual, deep lovers. once they’re yours they give you their all and do not focus on anyone else. however they can be confused with what they want out of the relationship and get jealous and possessive easily. they can always question you but don’t want you to question them.

sagittarius / 9 / you’re mine

quite hard to tie down, they are lovers of freedom and adventure. their mutability makes them easily persuaded and flexible, and their fiery nature creates impulsive urges and action before thought. if you are able to tie them down you will always be a big part of them, however.

capricorn / 4 / you’re mine & i’m yours

more often then not, they are supportive and understanding lovers who don’t see a reason to be unfaithful. however, they don’t typically prioritize love and may be emotionally colder or more closed off. always very respectful and will be proud of you, which their way of loving you.

aquarius / 5 / you’re mine & i’m yours

because of the lack of emotional connection, it can be easy for them to be unfaithful and not feel as much remorse for their actions. keep their attention and you will be their best friend. they are very supportive and open-minded, and easy to talk to. 

pisces / 4 / i’m yours 

may have a set of wandering eyes over physically cheating. anyone they feel like they can get spiritually or emotionally connected to easily will keep their attention, and may consume their mind as they are dreamy individuals. but once they love you, they are yours forever. 


New Wands in the Shop!
Going to be listing new product all weekend! Here are just a few I managed to get photos of. It was dark and rainy all day yesterday so I will have more up tonight (hoping for some sunlight). These are a little different than some of the other wands I normally make. Two of them were inspired by Sailor moon, one by kawaii decodens and the last was a little experiment on doing paintings/drawings directly on the wand.

that was the best. read the baby a book once and she throws it at me to read it again

and again

and again. smiling at the end. ‘set go!’ so we can read it again. what a pleasure. what a mercurial mind (mercury,mars in gemini - moon in virgo). this is my joy. i wont teach her maths cause im a complete idiot with numbers, but i will teach her words, stars, and philosophy 

Why sun sign astrology doesn’t work

Let’s face it: a lot of the time, you won’t relate to your sun sign.

Your sun sign is who you are at your BEST. It’s who you are when you’re in your element, when you’re confident, when you’re in a comfortable situation.

Your sun sign is your identity, but also who you aspire to be. When you think of your sun sign, you think of the qualities that make you special, and make you an individual. It’s probably something you’re proud of. But also, it’s something to live up to; it’s a goal to be the best version of your sun sign that you can possibly be.

The sun sign is extremely important, because it follows you throughout your life in all ways, but it often can’t be pinpointed to specifics like the other placements can. It’s much more broad; it’s always present, but sometimes it’s just out of reach.

People will not always see your sun sign when they first meet you. But close friends will see your sun sign more than anything else, because they see the best in you.

Your RISING sign is who you are all the time, without thinking about it. It’s natural.

Any time you feel threatened, need to put up a front, want to “appear” a certain way…that is your rising sign. Many people don’t consider the rising sign as important as the sun. But in reality, it’s more important.

Some people aren’t even aware of their rising sign. Some people will be surprised when they read the description. But if you ask anyone around you, they will see it immediately. You can’t hide your rising sign, you have to just accept it.

If you meet someone for the first time, that is their rising sign.

Your moon sign won’t be seen by the world at first either, but a lot of times it can be seen more than the sun sign. Your moon sign is your instinctual reactions and ways of living.

Any time you’re upset, you’re happy, you’re jealous, you’re disappointed…these are all times that your moon sign will show. Depending on the sign, of course, it will show in different ways.

Anything to do with the emotions cannot be defined by the sun sign. That is the realm of the moon sign. People wonder why they don’t relate to their sun sign on a lot of different posts - this is why. The moon sign is far more important, because it is your immediate needs and behavior.

People who see through you see your moon sign; people who are able to connect with you emotionally. They have to look deeply enough to get through the wall put up by the rising sign, though.

Mercury is how you get your message across. When you meet someone, there’s a bit of mercury thrown in there too, since they’ll be communicating with you.

Sometimes people will not consider you to be a lot like your sun sign. That’s probably because your mercury is in a different sign than your sun. It’s a bit conflicting, because the words you say are quite different from who you actually are - you might seem more like your mercury sign in some ways.

Mercury is probably the least appreciated and noticed placement in astrology. People always seem to forget about it, but it’s absolutely vital to understanding someone’s personality.

“What is an *insert sign here* like in love?” This is the question that everyone wants to know. Unfortunately, people usually answer it with sun sign. Again.

Venus is your true “love” placement. You might get a sense of what someone is like with their sun sign, but in a relationship you might be surprised when they act so differently. Their idea of romance might be drastically different from their central identity.

Mars is where to look if you want to get an idea of the overall energy someone gives off. Rising sign has a part in this too, but mars is how someone takes action.

Mars, in a sense, is also related to love because it’s how someone does the pursuing. Mars has to do with initiative (and how much of that you take).

Next time you make an astrology post, read an astrology post, or think about astrology in any way, remember this. Most people don’t do their research, and make assumptions that all sun signs are a certain way, and all people will relate to all aspects of their sun sign. This is not the case.

Think to yourself: is this asking about me on a daily basis? My emotions? How I communicate? How I act in love? My impulses?

Chances are, it’s not your sun sign.