“I’ll occasionally picture my life without him and it always makes my chest go tight and I’ll start to feel bereft. The idea of not sharing my life with him breaks my heart and that’s always a good sign.”
Cate thought Andrew was arrogant, Andrew was apparently not impressed with Cate and concluded she was aloof. While playing a late night game of poker and talking about his attraction to a friend of hers, they kissed. Three weeks later he proposed. Cate described it as an extraordinary adventure saying “It was a leap, but I wasn’t leaping by myself. It was a leap into the future” with someone she could discuss her work with and who could share her creative life. Andrew said they clicked.