man this is so much to deal with

anonymous asked:

not an ask buuuut~ your blog is p rad tbh. and my name is victoria too! i've never actually met someone named victoria other than myself, so.. yeah, i really appreciate the blog though! keep doing what you're doing, mk? and by the way -- i have depresion & anxiety too. kinda shitty, but hey, what can you do? thanks, man. have a great day!! maybe i'll come back and talk s'more about my life. after all, i need someone to rant to. bye~

Thank you Vikky! -Can I call you that?-

And i’m sorry you have to deal with Depression and Anxiety too, I know it’s really hard even though people don’t notice. But well, it’s not like we can do much, just take care of ourselves.

Have a great day too! And feel free to PM me!


To My Curvy Sister:

You are NOT a “big girl fetish” or BBW. You’re an incredible soul wrapped in a frame that society has for years tried to belittle, but you’re much more beautiful and too strong for that. You’re not ugly. No! You’re not some dark secret. No! The only way you’re subjected to that foolishness is if you allow your mind to think so negatively. However, you’re a rose and the right man will smell of your sweet essence and cherish it forever. So what if you aren’t a size 2 or 10. SO WHAT if people have their opinions. SO WHAT if you had boys in the past make a big deal about your weight, don’t you dare see yourself as less than what you are: AMAZING.

Your full figure is just your mark of beauty. Your heart, mind, and spirit is what shines so much brighter!

Congrats to all of my curve sisters! Showcase that love that people said you didn’t deserve. Fuck em! You deserve that and more! - De'Shundra

I just want to make sure we all know sombra doesn’t wear toe shoes / vibrams. The are thick tights/leggings with reinforced padding on the under side. If they were toe shoes, the shading defining each toe would be much more pronounced and go further into her foot. 

That is all, good night.

ok listen… you r literally the only person i’m telling this. just.. don’t tell anybody bud, but

i couldn’t sleep, so I decided to just start flicking through some internet TV things, like Netflix, Crunchyroll, etc.

and I found


this ANIME~~~~

called “SHE AND HER CAT”.

and it’s just it’s about

this girl and her cat.

but… it’s from the perspective of the cat. who LOVES HER.


and… the whole show is just about how happy he is to be her cat and how he thinks she’s amazing and the best ever




and i SWEAR ON MY LIFE, I am a grown 30-year-old man with a successful business

reduced to literal tears

because it made me miss having a cat SO MUCH that I just cannot deal without ranting on Tumblr!!!

I mean come on… 

She always comes home exhausted.

She brings the smell of a faraway town I don’t know.

I live in my own time, and she lives in her own time.

So these moments when my time and hers intersect

are more precious to me than anything




Hey here’s a webtoon that ISN’T Ableist, Misogynistic, and all around Unoriginal


It’s about a man who just turned 70 and is beginning to come to terms with his own mortality.

Because of this, he decides that he wants to pursue one of his oldest dreams; Doing Ballet

The comic deals with issues of age, masculinity, and so so much more. Not to mention the art style is so unique and charming!

As of right now, there are only 4 chapters out, so you can catch up really easy! Please do yourself a favor and look into this.

you: man, why aren’t there any out lgbt professional hockey players? wouldn’t that be so cool? also, watching nhl games on tv costs so much money! i can’t afford to buy an expensive cable plan, but i don’t want to watch games illegally… and gosh, the nhl really sucks in terms of racial diversity…. everyone is so white… i wish there was a way i could enjoy hockey without having to deal with all the problematic issues associated with the nhl…

me, an intellectual:

Now that I’ve used memes to get your attention….

1. The NWHL is super gay!!! The NWHL is partnered with You Can Play, Kourtney Kunichika has a fiancée, and Harrison Browne is the first transgender athlete to play in a professional American sports league! And that’s not even all of them!!

2. Every nwhl game is streamed online completely free! no costs!!! legally!!! the NWHL youtube channel live streams all the games!!

3. Blake Bolden and Kaliya Johnson are both African-American women playing in the NWHL. There are also several Asian-Americans (Kourtney Kunichika included) and the top draft pick from the 2016 draft was a woman of color named Kelsey Koelzer.

4. All the players just genuinely seem nice??? Like they’re supportive and kind with each other all the time! They have meals together! They’re good friends! They bake each other cookies and give them to each other in Bath and Body Works bags with handwritten notes!

tl;dr: the national women’s hockey league does not get enough attention from tumblr and frankly i think that needs to change

You guys- I just talked to a Netflix representative and after a bit of awkward ‘trying to understand what I was talking about’ the nice man on the phone freaked out when I said GMW was being cancelled because apparently his wife watches it all the time and loves it and let me know that Netflix has a deal with Disney so that every show Disney makes Netflix automatically gets first dibs. Usually this is used for streaming purposes, (so like when season 3 is over Netflix will get it first) but in the case of a cancellation Netflix has first dibs on the title as well. We just need to show Netflix how much we love this show you guys!! Keep calling! I want every Netflix representative to have heard about GMW by the end of this week!!!

Christmas 5 years ago...

I just realized what Mycroft had to deal with at that time:

1.) Bond Air / Coventry conundrum

2.) Sherlock’s melancholy because of Irene Adler’s death

3.) Moriarty

4.) Eurus

5.) Running the UK (more or less)

People CLEARLY don’t give that man enough credit. Holy wow!!


We’ve got so much in common! We’re both ambitious. We’re both super hot. I blackmailed and murdered my way up the Hyperion ladder, you came up with that sick Vault key deal…

Richonne looking good in 7x04

Rick running his fingers through his hair is why I live.

Their chemistry is so palpable. Even during moments of tension.

That forearm vein needs it’s own Instagram account.

Rick singing: “Looking good plenty tight. Tell me is there any more room for me.In those jeans”

That warning look. Rick Grimes is still with us.

Defiance never looked so good.

Rick licking his lips is making me feel things.

She is so beautiful I can’t deal.

The emotion in his eyes is killing me. He loves this woman so much and doesn’t want to lose her. Ugh. The feels.

Michonne is the definition of a good woman/partner. She is always there to reassure her man and to give him confidence in himself even when they’re not seeing eye to eye.

They don’t even have to touch for me to lose my shit.

This episode once again pointed out to the masses that RICHONNE LOVE EACH OTHER AND THEY’RE HERE TO STAY.

Can we just talk about that Jaune/Ren hug though

Not even looking at it in a shipping way, or a friendship way, but just these two guys.

We have Jaune, a character who spent two whole volumes dealing with toxic masculinity, and constantly trying to be “the man” of any given situation, be it wanting to be “the hero” of the fight, refusing anyone’s help because of the idea that men can handle things themselves, or insisting on continuously asking out a girl who repeatedly shot him down on dates because that is what “men” do, openly initiating and embracing another male in a moment of very emotionally vulnerable physical affection, without brushing it off or making “no homo” jokes, as a way of conveying how much the other boy means to him. (Even going as far as to cradle the other boys head intimately while doing so.)

And we also have Ren, a character who in every instance until now seemed completely taken back by any physical contact by anyone, immediately and willingly walk into someone’s arms, and just bury his face in their neck, and hold them back for an extended period of time. For someone who does not like physical contact, showing that amount of intimacy with anyone, especially someone they met only a year prior, is a HUGE display of trust toward that individual. (the only instance that i can think of where we did not see him seem even a little awkward with being touched before this episode is in vol 2 while dancing in the background with Nora during the ball. Even when she Booped his nose, he shrank back from it first before smiling.)

This was not just a hug, this was character growth at its finest.

listen man i love that sonic is such a happy, positive guy as much as anyone else but also at the same time he’s literally 15 and so far he has had to deal with:

  • Station Square getting destroyed by Perfect Chaos (SA)
  • Westopolis getting destroyed by the Black Arms (ShTH)
  • Prison Island getting blown up, probably with people still inside (SA2)
  • Amy being held at gunpoint by Eggman (SA2)
  • Shadow falling to his ‘death’ right in front of him (SA2)
  • Having to fight a brainwashed Tails (Colors)
  • Believing Amy and Knuckles were gone and that Tails would be brainwashed into a robot (Lost World)
  • Shahra sacrificing her own life in order to save him (Secret Rings)
  • Losing Chip (Unleashed)
  • Watching all his friends be consumed by the Time Eater on his own birthday (Generations)
  • Just having to save the world and be everyone’s rock in general
  • (there’s probably a lot more i’m missing)

like sonic……sweetheart……i know you want to watch over everyone and not make anybody worry but do you need to talk to somebody??? it’s ok if you’re not happy-go-lucky all the time??? internalizing bad feelings is bad????? REALLY THO PLEASE TALK TO SOMEBODY????

BTS reaction to their gf surprising them backstage


He would be so startled. Like his eyes would get super big and he would look and feel like he just saw an actual ghost. Once the suprise factor is gone he would be a overgrown child he is and just give you so much love and affection.

Originally posted by baebsaes


He would try to remain calm even though his body would scream from the insides because of how happy he is. Only thing that would give away his excitement would be his gummy eye smile and occasional glances towards you just to make sure what’s happening is real.

Originally posted by markjin


Another man child trying to act tough. He would try to look so manly in front of you, acting like it’s no big deal even though shy namjoon would rise and he would be blushing so hard and giggling so wide.

Originally posted by fyeahbangtaned


He would scream and hug you sooo tight your liver might fucking burst. Seriously, he would look like you just saved 7 billion puppies from getting run over. I don’t even have any words to explain it it’s literally just it.

Originally posted by hobilu


Okay but Jimin would be so happy. His face woud go from shook as fuck to eye smile in 0.000001 seconds. He would just hug you for straight up a minute and not let you go till you are like “uhh jimin? are you good?”

Originally posted by jung-koook


He wouldn’t even try to act like he isn’t freaking bursting from happiness like other members. He would be yelling, he would be kissing you all over your face, he would freaking piggyback you to the coach and throw you on it. This sunshine would be so stoked he wouldn’t know what to do with himself.

Originally posted by jeonthegreat


I am a firm believer would not even realize its you he would go in his spacey little mind like “Oh that’s obviously not Y/N” and then you would be like “JUNGKOOK” and he would be so shook like who is jungkook how are you here what is happening.

Originally posted by jung-koook



Not Everyone Is Suitable To Be Your Friend

Imām Ibn Qayyim said:

“Know that the greatest of losses is for you to be preoccupied with one who will bring you nothing but a loss in your time with Allah – the Mighty and Majestic – and being cut off from Him, a wasting your time with the person, a weakening of your energy, and the dispersing of your resolve. So, if you are tested with this – and you must be tested with this – deal with him according to how Allah would wish, and be patient with him as much as possible. Get closer to Allah and His Pleasure by way of this person, and make your getting together with him something to benefit from, not something to incur a loss from.

Be with him as if you are a man who is on a road who was stopped by another man, who then asks you to take him on your journey. Make sure that you are the one who gives him a ride, and that he is not the one giving you the ride. If he refuses, and there is nothing to gain from travelling with him, do not stop for him, bid him farewell, and do not even turn back to look at him, as he is a highway robber, regardless of who he really is.

So, save your heart, be wary of how you spend your days and nights, and do not let the Sun set before you arrive at your destination.”

• [Source: al-Wabil as-Sayyib, (p. 45)]

So I’ve been watching The Flash and Arrow, both shows I really like, though not as much as Supergirl. And on both, there have been multiple occasions where a character openly flirts with, dates or sleeps with her boss, and it’s just not considered a big deal at all. It’s not a hindrance. And it got me thinking about how with Cat and Kara, so many people seem to think it’s a huge issue. Even I have written it into my fics as a necessary but surmountable obstacle, because in the real world it no doubt would be. But, I can’t help but feeling like there is much more permission and suspension of the rules given to heterosexual pairings in these stories. If Cat were a man, people would absolutely, undoubtedly recognize the chemistry and possibility between them. It would become another “will they won’t they” moment in pop culture history just like so many other straight ships, like Bones, like Castle, like The Office, just to name a few of the literally thousands there have been. So you know what? I’m sick of all the excuses and heteronormative bullshit that people spew trying to say SuperCat isn’t completely and totally legit. They should not be held to a higher or different standard than any other two people who work together and fall in love with each other. When the chemistry is there, it’s there, and fans see it, and sometimes if we are lucky the writers and producers see it too. Still holding out hope that this amazing, radically inclusive and progressive show will just fucking go for it.

Originally posted by catgrantscupcake

Man… I wish I had this show when I was a kid.

I wish I had anyone tell me how to deal with my emotions when I was a kid.

Notice how there are still butterflies around Stevonnie.

But now they can calmly think a way to dispose of them.

Okay fuck this.

I’m crying

Yep yep yep that’s exactly what I wanted fuck this show I love it so much.



Yeah… it’s much easier if you have someone else with you.

To share.

I don’t know why but this scene… just the four of them laying there and looking up is beautiful.

Not in a visual sense, just… beautiful.

So… yeah.

Best song in the entire show.

Bar none.