Hi! Umm well, I'm genderqueer but I'm not out to anyone. Basically, I'm 26, mentally ill and demi-pansexual and my friends/family already make jokes about me being a 'special snowflake'. When I've brought up non-binary gender before in a general sense they stopped me mid-sentence to call me a 'deep thinker' and they are 'simpler folk' then changed the subject. They are on-board with binary trams, but they react as if non-binary genders are part of being mentally ill and not 'real'