I am so incredibly in love with my boyfriend that it hurts. I love him so so much and he makes me feel so good and everything. I'm so in love that it's almost disgusting. Anyways, i'm just really scared of that though because if he leaves me i'm literally going to feel so Empty. i don't wanna lose myself in him but i can't help it. Do you have any advice on how to not be so ABSOLUTELY in love with him to a point where I can't live without him???? idk if this makes sense, but thank you anyways!!
Honestly like, you guys have been asking things lately that are actually me. Like I think about this literally all the time.
Basically, I have anxiety and my boyfriend helps me through a lot of it so i often worry that I won’t be able to function without him.
However, I have been in a relationship once before where I honestly lost a lot of myself giving and giving so much love to him, that when he broke up with me (after a few years) I felt like I couldn’t go on. I was sick and anxious and a complete mess. But slowly but surely, and with a lot of strength, i persevered and had a great life and came out stronger and way smarter.
So the moral of that story is that you will be okay without this person if it comes down to that.
However, something I learned from that first relationship. Is that you have to love yourself above him or anyone at all. And one way to gauge this is like, are all your hopes and dreams about him? or are they about you? Make them about you. Give yourself so much love, live life for yourself, and just like be your own person. Don’t let the relationship consume you. Do hobbies and spend time with your friends as much as possible. After I lost my ex, I realized I had been neglecting my friends. And I loved my friends! So don’t neglect any part of your life for this person, and live in a way taht makes you so happy. live a life for yourself.
That’s my advice on how to be in a relationship but not lose yourself. You are a whole and complete human being, and you happen to have found someone worth letting into your life.
You can’t go after people for liking a ship. You don’t need to like it to let other people enjoy it. You can, in fact, condemn a ship without being a dick to people about it.
I’m sure anyone who follows me knows how I feel about melchritz. Can you name one time I’ve confronted someone about it? I’m pretty sure the answer to that is No. Do you want to know why?
It’s because ultimately no one is getting hurt by it. It’s a ship. It’s two fictional characters. That are Fake Dating bc someone thinks it’s cute or hot or whatever. No one is asking you to ship it too. You can think or say anything you want about it, you can argue with people who start a conversation disagreeing with you, but you can’t just go after someone.
I don’t ever want something I post to be used against someone. It’s not something I want to see on this blue hellsite and it’s definitely not something I ever want to be involved in. Respect is extremely important to me and kindness is extremely important to me. Having fun is also important to me. You aren’t letting people have fun, being kind, or being respectful if you’re dragging them into a conversation they did not ask to be part of. So maybe think twice before you do that and try to keep in mind that whoever you are attacking is a person with feelings and deserves to be treated with kindness.
Or, to quote one of my favorite songs, “kids! Don’t be a dickweed. Appreciate the shit out of the present moment and be fuckin nice!”
you can get free sporks at the supermarket near my house and i need one for my salad but you gotta ask for them, and there’s something about the thought of having to walk up to another living human being and uttering the phrase “hi can i please have my free spork” that makes me feel like i’d rather Die
3. The Wolf Bite beat in Verge and Can’t Live Without You
4. The shout in Can’t Live Without You is the same beat as “When did the sky turn black and when will the light come back,” in Beautiful Times
5. “Wonderstruck” used in Thunderstruck is a nod at Enchanted
6. “I walk alone” in Bird With a Broken Wing is from Silhouette and If My Heart Was a House
That’s all I can hear from my initial listen, still trying to find some ATBAB elements. The more I dissect these songs, the more I’m falling in love with them. I’m understanding them more every minute.
Feel free to add on anything else you guys find! Let’s make it a game! :D
What she means:
I've been off my game, mentally and physically. If you know anything about the Three Wolf Moon tee, you'll know that it transforms people's lives. I want to wake up, put that shirt on and feel like I could take over the world. I need to go from 0 to Swag Dragon immediately. It's time for me to evolve, and I can't do it without this shirt. What better way to make that happen than to have the people I love help me launch my life into greatness I could never have dreamed?
Alex’s reaction to Piper saying ‘Why do you always feel so inevitable to me?’ makes me feel so, fucking, much.
inevitable (ɪnˈɛvɪtəb(ə)l/)adjective - certain to happen; unavoidable. noun - a situation that is unavoidable.
We know they’ve both said i love you-s before, but I think that this line means even more to Alex than an i love you. By saying Alex is inevitable to her, Piper basically says that she can’t live without Alex. By saying always in the same sentence, she’s saying she can't ever live without Alex. Ever.
It takes Alex by surprise, like we all can see, and she doesn’t know what to say back. She also realises a 'simple’ i love you wouldn’t fit so she comes back with i heart you, which means the same but in a way she makes it more exclusive: something she would only say to Piper. She may be saying i love you to more people, like her family or friends, but i heart you is only for Piper. Because she feels inevitable to Alex, too. She always does and she always will.
Clara just jumping the Doctor and crushing him in a hug when he enters the TARDIS and refusing to let go for ages because if she does he’ll leave again and him just stoically accepting it without complaint for once because fuck it he’s got Clara back and he seriously needs to hide his face right now
The Doctor and Clara admitting that they totally lied and all but begging each other to please just do the space hopping together again because it’s seriously unbearable like it is right now am I talking about them or me you’ll never know haha it’s both
The Doctor and Clara just finally telling each other that they love each other because seriously?? The time is now. It’s time. Now. Now is the time. Because they both know what it feels like without the other now and what do they have to lose next for them to finally realise that it fucking hurts either way and they might as well just be honest for once in their lives
Hi rubyetc. Love your work and your awesomeous dog. As a fellow person who'd like to make a living doing arty things, how to you silence that voice in your head that goes 'this is stupid, don't do that'? That voice just makes me feel a bit unable to try/do anything, so I just end up sitting in a funk of 'I just can't do the things I want to because they are stupid, and so am I'. Do you have any advice?
Ello. Maybe if you can’t silence it just think about acknowledging it’s there without letting it become overwhelming and obstructive..much like geography or Nicholas Cage films.
I want to Sherlock to say Molly "I can't live without you""Please""Don't go anywhere""Stay with me(like forever)"and beg. (Maybe finally she give up him, and somehow he notice that. and he can't accept that.) He finally admit his feelings. maybe it's little bit angst. But it's become all fluffy in his confess of love and beg for her, I think. It's ok if you don't want this or change detail. Sorry for my English and if it's doesn't make sense. I hope you feeling better soon. Love your work!
Ok, this turned out way different from how I thought it would be - I’m just in a fluffy mood today, and I changed it quite a bit. I hope you’ll still like it! And thanks for the prompt sweetie.
Something was horribly wrong. Molly Hooper was ignoring him. Instead of staying around while he was working in the labs, she would pack up immediately when her shift ended.
She would go for dates on Fridays, even when he needed her help for experiments. There would be a smile on her face whenever she received a phone call or text from one of those blasted blokes. She had even chewed on her lower lip while she talking to a man the other day – Jaden or Jared or something. Sherlock thought they were all rather stupid names.
He tried to forget about it, act like nothing was wrong. But he couldn’t stop himself from pondering over the matter. As much as he tried to deny it, he was bothered.
The boy I like has a new girlfriend and I can feel my bones splintering. It doesn't matter that he smiles at me like I'm the first girl he's ever seen, doesn't matter that I am the first girl he's ever spoken to about constellations and stars and the future: he asked her out last month. She is dainty and blonde with dimples and a cute smile and has every goddamn thing I've had to live without and I just can't stand the thought of him talking about constellations with someone who isn't me.
Keaton Henson: “The thought of your hands on his chest makes my stomach itch. And I see pictures now of the two of you and it makes me sick.”
Topanga makes me laugh, but Lauren makes me laugh too.
Which girl you'll rather have deep conversations with?
I can talk to Topanga about anything, but I like talking to Lauren also.
Honesty, you can trust her, very important.
Topanga is the most honest person I've ever met, but Lauren has been honest with me for the very beginning.
What girl has the perfume going, with who do you see yourself going *sexual sound* (not appropriate for a kids show)
well, there's only one Topanga and she got the *sexual sound* with the raw raw, but there's nothing like being inside Lauren's jacket.
It's a tie. You like Lauren as much as Topanga and you can't live without either of them.
Shawn, yeah, I like Lauren, and I like to spent time with her but I can live without her. I can't live without Topanga. *pulls the whole bag of beans in Topanga's side* there's not contracts.
GMW Jellybeans scene (Riley vs Maya)
Who makes you laugh?
well Riley’s a total goofball and makes me laugh like 50 times a day, but Maya also makes me laugh with the hahurs and when she calls me huckleberry.
Who would you rather have a deep conversations with?
The day with Riley in the library I could have talked with her forever, but then there was Maya in the campfire.
Which girl makes you feel *makes sound* (makes him feel butterflies kind of sound)
I need you to get you say it. Riley.
*makes weak sound*
*makes weak sound*
you have to mean it. Think about both of them. Riley and Maya.
*makes bigger sound*
(There's a tie between both)
hey, look, I don’t believe in coincidences. I think coincidence is the universes way of telling you something. I mean, what are the odds that on that subway she falls into my lap, it’s Riley *puts the whole bag of Jellybeans on Rile's side* it’s always been Riley since day one.