make someone feel important

A gentle reminder to take care of yourself this holiday season.

Originally posted by dziesiemdziesiat

You are loved. You are cared for. Whatever it is you’re struggling with, know that there are many out there who understand and are likely willing to offer a comforting shoulder. You’re not alone.

i know how annoying it can be when you want to get something of your chest but may not have anyone to talk to.  so if you want to get something off your chest send me an anonymous message and i don’t have to reply or not unless you want. 

water moons + relationships

water moons (cancer/scorpio/pisces), emotionally, need reassurance. they have emotions that must be expressed and, perhaps more importantly, validated by their loved ones. water moon individuals are those who make decisions with their heart; they are feelers, not thinkers. not that they aren’t smart, they just process information via how a situation or problem makes them feel. and that’s how they go about seeking out a significant other; they go with their heart and seek for someone to make them feel important, cared for, and validated.

water moon + fire venus

an affliction common for individuals with this combination is worrying about every facet of the relationship before seeing the person, and then forgetting it all and having a great time. fire venus’s hold the capacity to rush into things romantically (less so for sagittarius venus, however still potentially there), which may tug on the native’s water moon, enticing its desire for a forever relationship. a lesson for this combination is not to let your overly questioning/doubting moon stop you from enjoying a relationship. another is not to let your spontaneous, fun-loving venus blind you from what’s truly making you unhappy. it’s a struggle for balance between total devotion and total entertainment.

water moon + earth venus

sensitive in theory, more pragmatic in practice. earth is said to be water’s opposite; however, both elements share the longing of protection or security. earth venus wants to know their partner is in it for the long haul, and that they can solve their problems in a manageable fashion. your moon sign, however, may not be able to give you that! water moons share an acute sensitivity to the subtle changes in a person’s demeanor, and can cause a tirade of insecurities to attack their brain. however, the venus in them will bring them down to, well, earth when the time is needed. this is a combination who will not only cherish you, but look forward to your routine of togetherness. it’s an insecure combination, but one that will love you maturely and wholly.

water moon + air venus

an internal push-pull for the native with this combination. this is a combination that values its privacy and distance to an extent, but craves a dedicated adoration. the ultimate goal for this person is to have a partner who will be their best friend, their water moon and air venus will treasure the ability to have conversations about anything; the water moon has abundance of emotions and longs for stability while the air venus needs its space and some laid-back laughs. until this native finds such, they may find themselves holding on with dear life to the wrong people as they struggle to find the balance they desire. this partner may have lots to say about matters of the heart as they are drawn to such but they aren’t the greatest in practicing what they preach. a lover of this combination can only get by on so much mental connection before water emanates in the search for an emotional tie. the bond itself is what matters most to them. 

water moon + water venus

the phrase ‘truly, madly, deeply’ fits perfectly for individuals with this combination. water moon coupled with water venus dramatizes a relationship, sometimes for good, sometimes bad. though the individual’s way of showing love may vary, you can bet they will try and express it to you as much as they possibly can. natives with these placements might also, however, be the type to push their partner’s boundaries and ‘test’ them, perhaps gauging their loyalty & commitment. water moon + water venus paints an almost magical picture of their love life, living in fantasy; as julia roberts in pretty woman put it, “i want the fairytale.” a cancer venus is the fairy godmother, a scorpio venus is a black knight in shining armour, and a pisces venus is the damsel in distress.

I love how in pokemon contests not only the coordinator gets a ribbon but the pokemon does too

because they work just as hard

and deserve it just as much

and it’s super cute too!!

In life, we’ll meet someone who will change our lives by just being a part of it. Someone who we don’t think we’ll ever know and will exist in our world. Someone who will make us fall in love all over again. Someone who will share a whole new world to us, who will be with us to explore and wonder what this world will offer. Someone will make us feel important, alive and even better than before. Someone who will tear our walls down, shake us up and awake our soul. Someone who will reveal another layer of ourselves. The next morning you’ll wake up, you want them to stay forever but eventually, they’re meant to leave.
You will meet this kind of person, out of nowhere, under the strangest circumstances in life. This person is called a soulmate. Its purpose is to introduce us to something we don’t know, make us use to it and leave us; teach us lessons, break our hopes so a new person can mend our hearts. It’s the most important person that we’ll meet, they carry the greatest impact and bring the turning point in our lives. It will make us desperate enough to change then be discovered with the new light.
—  baekebyan

I need someone who’ll text me twice just to make our conversation longer. I need someone who can reply my message at the same minute that i texted him, I need someone who can make me feel I’m important and he’s really into me.

Advice and request

Please don’t have rebound relationships.

They’ll kill off a soul and destroy a heart.

You can have a rebound fuck. A rebound one night stand. Even a rebound weekend or summer fling.

But please, for all that you love and hold sacred, do not have a rebound relationship.

Don’t let another person think they mean so much to you when they don’t.

Don’t ask someone to be your girlfriend just because you’re sad and lonely and think that a happy person will make you go back to your old self.

I know we humans tend to be selfish but please don’t do this.

Don’t make someone feel safe and important and loved when in reality you just want to say you’re no longer alone. 

When all you want is to show everyone you’re doing good and gave already moved on from your heartbreak.

You won’t move on. You won’t fix your broken heart. You’ll just be selfish and make someone else suffer what you did or worse. 

Don’t try to reverse karma the universe.

Let it be. If you’re sad and lonely and not your old self… Just hang in there. Travel, make new friends, sleep with strangers, pick up a random girl at a bar who just wants to have fun.

But don’t pretend you’re in love. Don’t try to force a happiness and fulfillment you don’t feel. 

Don’t try to act like someone means more to you than what they actually do.

And please don’t start a relationship just to no longer be alone. 

You’ll kill a soul, destroy a heart, leave life long scars that will never heal. 

And you’ll both be feeling empty. Worst of all, you’ll wreck a life that wasn’t yours to wreck.

You’ll kill a heart and the hopes of a soul that had nothing to do with your own problems and heartbreaks. 

So here’s my advice and request: do not, under any circumstances, start a rebound relationship. 

How to be a Better Friend

1. Prioritize being kind.

2. Be there when it matters.

3. Learn the value of silence.

4. Never betray a confidence.

5. Never take advantage of them.

6. Help to cheer them up when they’re having a bad day.

7. Show an interest in their life, and what matters to them.

8. Overlook those small offenses.

9. Be someone who forgives.

10. Make sure they feel valued, and important to you.

When he was still a lonely child in the depths of Casterly Rock, he oft rode dragons through the nights, pretending he was some lost Targaryen princeling, or a Valyrian dragonlord soaring high o'er fields and mountains. Once, when his uncles asked him what gift he wanted for his nameday, he begged them for a dragon. “It wouldn’t need to be a big one. It could be little, like I am.” His uncle Gerion thought that was the funniest thing he had ever heard, but his uncle Tygett said, “The last dragon died a century ago, lad.” That had seemed so monstrously unfair that the boy had cried himself to sleep that night.
—  Tyrion II, A Dance with Dragons
Such a bully

@lexluthros you asked for a 9 or a 25, but as I wasn’t sure about which drabble game you had in mind, I just supposed it was the latest, Myosotis. If it’s not the case, just say it and I’ll do another one ! :D

9. “Remember when I said I was fine and in control?? Well forget it and help me !”

 You were a self sufficient person, able to take care of your-self and of the other. There was nothing you couldn’t do, you were all powerfull and everyone was relaying on you when needed because you were someone responsible. And you loved that feeling, that was making you feel important, and somehow superior.

 So the very idea of needing someone’s help was unbearable. Most of all when the only person present to helo you was none but the great Lex Luthor, your greatest nemesis. Not that you were really fighting, it was more something like a ranchor, a grudges that you couldn’t forget.

 He stole your favorite and most promising student.

 You were a professor in science, one of the youngest and yet most competent one for you were considered as a genius and people would fight to attend you classes. And it appeared that Lex Luthor favorite’s game was to take away your students.

 Currently, you were making research in the library of the university, struggling on the ladder to catch a book that was at the hightest shelft, and for some unknown reason, Mr Luthor was there, annoying you.

“Don’t you have a company to rule?” You asked, annoyed, still trying to catch the book.

“Everything is pretty calm lately, but thanks for you concern.” Replied Lex sarcasticaly. “Need some help maybe?”

“Not the least.” You muttered under your breath. “I am perfectly fine. Everything is under control!”

“Your sure? You look like you could use some height.”

“I’m not small!!!” You screamed.

 Your small size was something very sensitive for you, and you hated when people said you were little. That out burst made you lose your balance, you fell, and hold onto the shelft.

“Damn!” you shouted.

 There was a light chuckle and you get as red as a tomato from embarrasment and anger.

“Stop laughing!”

 You froze at the sound of the bookcase, and feared that it would end up falling on you. You feet pedaling in the air, you swear when you realized that the ladder was down. You crossed eyes with you foe, and frown. No. Ne-ver. The hell if you-! There was another crack and you gave up.

“Remember when I said I was fine and in control?? Well forget it and help me !”

“Asked so nicely…” Lex said with a smirk.

 He reached his arms and you protested:

“Just give me the ladder!”

“Do you really think your in a position when you can give order?” He replied with a smile like the cheshire cat.

 He was enjoying it the jerk! You gritted your teeth, holding back an acerb comment, and let him help you. He caught you by the hips, and you ignored the sudden heat in your stomach, let go of the shelft. You safely get back on your feet, flustered by the sudden closeness, but your stubborness quickly awoke and you get away from his hands.

Thank you.” You said like it was an insult. “Now if you could just leave !…”

“Oh, dear Y/N, you kindness touch me to the heart ! If you’re so thankfull, then maybe you could talk to that student about-”

“Just fuck of!” You shouted before living – pushing him hardly as you did.

 He just laughed it off, thinking that annoying you was a great hobby and that he was looking forward the next time.

 Such a bully…

Request and advice

Please don’t have rebound relationships.

They’ll kill off a soul and destroy a heart.

You can have a rebound fuck. A rebound one night stand. Even a rebound weekend or summer fling.

But please, for all that you love and hold sacred, do not have a rebound relationship.

Don’t let another person think they mean so much to you when they don’t.

Don’t ask someone to be your girlfriend just because you’re sad and lonely and think that a happy person will make you go back to your old self.

I know we humans tend to be selfish but please don’t do this.

Don’t make someone feel safe and important and loved when in reality you just want to say you’re no longer alone. 

When all you want is to show everyone you’re doing good and gave already moved on from your heartbreak.

You won’t move on. You won’t fix your broken heart. You’ll just be selfish and make someone else suffer what you did or worse. 

Don’t try to reverse karma the universe.

Let it be. If you’re sad and lonely and not your old self… Just hang in there. Travel, make new friends, sleep with strangers, pick up a random girl at a bar who just wants to have fun.

But don’t pretend you’re in love. Don’t try to force a happiness and fulfillment you don’t feel. 

Don’t try to act like someone means more to you than what they actually do.

And please don’t start a relationship just to no longer be alone. 

You’ll kill a soul, destroy a heart, leave life long scars that will never heal. 

And you’ll both be feeling empty. Worst of all, you’ll wreck a life that wasn’t yours to wreck.

You’ll kill a heart and the hopes of a soul that had nothing to do with your own problems and heartbreaks. 

So here’s my advice and request: do not, under any circumstances, start a rebound relationship. 

I don’t want to be an option anymore. I don’t mean i will be someone’s top priority, i am not that selfish, i just want to feel that i am on their priority list, maybe not on the top but at least i am one of their priority. I want to be important to someone and make me feel that i am not just someone they can run to whenever they need something and just throw like a trash when they no longer need me. I just want to know that i am also important to someone and never make me feel that i am just an option and will never be someone’s priority.
—  is that too much to ask?
Request and advice

Please don’t have rebound relationships.

They’ll kill off a soul and destroy a heart.

You can have a rebound fuck. A rebound one night stand. Even a rebound weekend or summer fling.

But please, for all that you love and hold sacred, do not have a rebound relationship.

Don’t let another person think they mean so much to you when they don’t.

Don’t ask someone to be your girlfriend just because you’re sad and lonely and think that a happy person will make you go back to your old self.

I know we humans tend to be selfish but please don’t do this.

Don’t make someone feel safe and important and loved when in reality you just want to say you’re no longer alone. 

When all you want is to show everyone you’re doing good and have already moved on from your heartbreak.

You won’t move on. You won’t fix your broken heart. You’ll just be selfish and make someone else suffer what you did or worse. 

Don’t try to reverse karma the universe.

Let it be. If you’re sad and lonely and not your old self… Just hang in there. Travel, make new friends, sleep with strangers, pick up a random girl at a bar who just wants to have fun.

But don’t pretend you’re in love. Don’t try to force a happiness and fulfillment you don’t feel. 

Don’t try to act like someone means more to you than what they actually do.

And please don’t start a relationship just to no longer be alone. 

You’ll kill a soul, destroy a heart, leave life long scars that will never heal. 

And you’ll both be feeling empty. Worst of all, you’ll wreck a life that wasn’t yours to wreck.

You’ll kill a heart and the hopes of a soul that had nothing to do with your own problems and heartbreaks. 

So here’s my advice and request: do not, under any circumstances, start a rebound relationship. 

Here’s the thing: I know how painful it is to be told to shut up about something you’re passionate about. So if someone talks to me about their interests and I see how much it means to them, I will always urge them to keep going.

anonymous asked:

Bonjour I'm the j'taime non (and no I'm not Alex) so I don't know the whole story about the rude anon but I'm really sorry about it and that person really sucks and I hope you're okay

Aww thanks! I think I’m okay it’s just… I’ve never technically had anon hate yet? I mean there was something kinda like it a while ago but it was worded rlly kindly and wasn’t that bad but this was different…..

I don’t know who the anon is, but I hope they’re disappointed in themselves. You shouldn’t mess with anyone for any reason and just know that I love my friends so much that the moment I see a glimmer of hate towards them I will press the block button I’m not scared to. Nothing is more important than my friends and I hope none of y'all ever stoop as low as trying to make someone feel like they aren’t important in the world.

*sees own post appear on dash*

oH wow would you look at that i am one of the popular cool tumblr kids bc one of my posts has aprox 2k notes soon it will blow up and i will be rich and famous

*looks at the notes and sees that literally 1,999 notes were all from me and one like was from a follower*

Originally posted by millioninvisible