what’s really fucking annoying about people citing interracial relationships as a reason for showing more straight romance is that there’s like a practically infinite number of straight couples in the media and i can think of maybe two popular interracial pairings.
meanwhile people seem to just like, ignore that several of the most popular m/m or w/w couples in the media right now are in fact interracial couples.
my friend just called me begging me to come out like… my guy… I’m IN BED w my bra &a makeup off & he didn’t get it he was just like ‘yeah put t back on’ um how dare u ? 🙂 “put my bra & makeup on????” what is that
can i just say that i appreciat that ur open about ur atheism? i've been an atheist for around a decade but the majority of my friends including ppl that i'm pretty close w/ are very religious and i've always been a little scared to tell them that i'm atheist. i don't want them to think less of me for it. so i really, really appreciate ur courage about your beliefs.
Oh, man, I totally understand where you’re coming from. I still feel uncomfortable telling people too, sometimes, because I don’t know how they’ll take it. Console yourself, at least, that even if they did reject that aspect of you, it only indicates that they are closed-minded, and not that there is something wrong with you. It’s more of a “their problem, not yours” kind of thing, but I know it sure as hell doesn’t feel that way when you’re the one facing the consequences.
Like a lot of other things, visibility is critical for acceptance and understanding. So I’ve been trying to be more blasé
about stuff lately (mental illness, sexuality, political opinions, etc). Even so, religion is the one thing that remains very hard for me to discuss with people! Especially because of how complicated things actually are for me.
yea i’m dissappointed w/ how Hunk got treated too w/ him being just goofy comedy and fat guy jokes for the most part, but i also dsiagree w/ people saying he should show more enthusiasm (like Pidge) about the tech stuff ‘cause
like Hunk is smart, like good at engineering and probs is the only paladin even close to Pidge’s (otherwordly) level but imo what he’s good at intellectually doesn’t translate to me as being something he’s incredibly interested in. Pidge loves tech and math and all that and that’s why she’s so wholeheartedly invested in that stuff (esp as we see in season 2).
Hunk … is not. He’s good at it, like no question, and we get to see that a little bit here and there (I wish it was more but y’know). But just ‘cause he’s good at something doesn’t mean he’s interested in it?? He knows the engineering stuff and he’s great at the mechanics side of things and that’s amazing! But honestly i don’t see that as a source of joy for him. He’s not elated (as far as I can tell & you can refute it if you’d like) to be fixing things, doesn’t jump at the chance the same way we’ve seen from pidge. All of what I can recall of his sciency/”intellectual” side is a very toned down, matter-of-fact, glad-to-be-helping-but-not-much-more attitude.
The place where we see hunk spending all his free time around tho? The kitchen. Like his passion is/seems to be cooking. idk how good at it he is because all we’ve seen is him struggling w/ Altean ingredients/dishes, but boy if he doesn’t love it. And yeah, he’s the fat guy in the group and his love of food is made a joke a lot but
I honestly just love that he loves cooking and it’s his go to task to clear his mind. and I just wish more people accepted that i guess?? He’s smart, but just because he is doesn’t mean his character can’t love something else instead (and yea his interest is food and that’s stereotypical, but it’s also not really a masculine thing??? Which I love?? Like tell me when you think of a kitchen and baking you don’t think of a girl/woman - at least at the level of Hunk’s skill and the very kinda domestic setting we’re presented in w/ the castle).
I do read kd smut in chaptered fics. Like paper mache, ain’t nobody gonna love you (like i do). I only rmmbr these two rn. I don’t usually read one-shot (only smut) bcoz the kinks are something I’m not really comfortable w. Well, everyone has their own taste lol. I really like non-au/domestic. I enjoy good story plot. So I don’t mind reading smut in chaptered fics.
not to get into sad hours but I like the idea of being in love and stuff but it’s really unrealistic for me cause yknow no one loves gross things and I’m a fucking creepy freak who doesn’t know how to love properly but I’m still hoping!! w my whole heart I’m still hoping that I get the chance to be in love too!!
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