Being plus size does not mean you are lazy or have no control. It does not make you less worthy and it does not mean you are less attractive. Any woman is beautiful, all you need is confidence and to understand the shape of your body and how best to dress it. As long as you are happy and healthy, you’re gonna look GORGEOUS.
Always remember, your body is just a body. Just flesh and blood and bones and gunk (ew). Clothes are just bits of fabric stitched together. You may as well wear whatever you want. The trick is to wear them with confidence. Start with a smile and go from there.