Yesterday my boyfriend asked me what size I am ( we talked about lingerie ) and I felt sooo uncomfortable because I’m usually wearing L and sometimes XL.. I was a bit ashamed but he didn’t even say anything bad about it..
Today I was thinking about it.. and I realised.. there’s nothing to be ashamed of.. Why should I feel uncomfortable for it? I should be proud.. proud because I used to wear 3XL and so far I did well and lost a lot of weight..
Proud because.. even if I was still wearing 3XL there would be nothing to be ashamed of! I was beautiful then and I’m beautiful now too!
And I’m incredibly happy because my boyfriend loves me the way I am. I’m so thankful for him! I know I’m sometimes annoying af. Because I’m overreacting pretty often and I’m often worried for no reason but he’s still here and he still loves me and I love him even more for that!

So people, don’t change for anybody but yourself it doesn’t matter if you’re a XS or a 6XL you’re beautiful the way you are! All of you, no matter if male or female, don’t let anybody tell you something different!
Love yourself - try to learn to love yourself even if it’s a long and hard way.. don’t give up, you’ll get there!
Love your skin, love your body, love every single part of yourself!

As embarrassing as the right picture is, this needed to be posted. The photo on the right was taken this very day, exactly one year ago. The photo on the left was taken about five minutes ago. I have a lot of before and afters from this exact day, so I may spam some more, but I’m really proud of myself.💁🏻💘 #weightloss #vegan #veganbody #body #bodyposi #bodypositive #bodypositivity #beforeandafter #loveyourself #loveyourbody

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“You are your own definition of beautiful…” - @taylorswift
I feel like there is so much meaning behind those words that many of us take for granted sometimes.
That statement is giving you permission to be yourself and to define your own beauty and worth. And I really think that’s something that needs to be taken in more, and not just pushed aside.
So many of us struggle with feeling like we’re not enough, whether it be feeling not pretty enough or smart enough or good enough.
And I love this quote because my interpretation of it is that you gotta ignore everyone else’s standards and go and define yourself and discover for yourself that you are enough.
So, for today I’m going to take in for myself that I am enough, in all aspects.
What will you take in for yourself today?
#effyourbeautystandards #loveyourbody #loveyourflawz #BeVocalSpeakUp #cleanspeech #youareenough

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