Yesterday my boyfriend asked me what size I am ( we talked about lingerie ) and I felt sooo uncomfortable because I’m usually wearing L and sometimes XL.. I was a bit ashamed but he didn’t even say anything bad about it..
Today I was thinking about it.. and I realised.. there’s nothing to be ashamed of.. Why should I feel uncomfortable for it? I should be proud.. proud because I used to wear 3XL and so far I did well and lost a lot of weight..
Proud because.. even if I was still wearing 3XL there would be nothing to be ashamed of! I was beautiful then and I’m beautiful now too!
And I’m incredibly happy because my boyfriend loves me the way I am. I’m so thankful for him! I know I’m sometimes annoying af. Because I’m overreacting pretty often and I’m often worried for no reason but he’s still here and he still loves me and I love him even more for that!
So people, don’t change for anybody but yourself it doesn’t matter if you’re a XS or a 6XL you’re beautiful the way you are! All of you, no matter if male or female, don’t let anybody tell you something different!
Love yourself - try to learn to love yourself even if it’s a long and hard way.. don’t give up, you’ll get there!
Love your skin, love your body, love every single part of yourself!