► Hair color ➔ light brown…dark blonde. whatever way you look at it ► Eye Color ➔ brown closer to he pupils, hazel more on the outside
► Birthday ➔ november 30 ► Gender ➔ female ► Lefty or Righty ➔ righty ► Single or taken? ➔ single ► Happy? ➔ sometimes, i guess.
TEN THINGS ABOUT YOUR LOVE LIFE
► Are you in love ➔ nope ► Do you believe in love at first sight ➔ idk yet
► Who ended your last relationship ➔ - ► Have you ever broken someone’s heart ➔ - ► Are you afraid of commitments ➔ no ► Have you hugged someone within the last week? ➔ yes
► Have you ever had a secret admirer ➔ hah i wish
► Have you ever broken your own heart? ➔ yes ► Do you usually spend Valentine’s Day alone? ➔ yes ► Short or long-term relationships? ➔ long-term
► Love or lust ➔ love ► Lemonade or iced tea ➔ lemonade ► Cats or Dogs ➔ dogs ► A few best friends or many regular friends ➔ few best friends ► Television or internet ➔ internet ► Pepsi or Coke ➔ neither ► Wild night out or romantic night in ➔ romantic night in ► Day or night ➔ night
► Text or Call ➔ both
► Make-up or au naturel? ➔ au naturel
TEN HAVE YOU EVER
► Been caught sneaking out? ➔ no
► Fallen down/up the stairs? ➔ yes both. haha ► Wanted something/someone so badly it hurt? ➔ yesssss ► Prank called a store? ➔ yes :p ► Skipped school? ➔ no
► Wanted to disappear? ➔ sometimes….
► Spent all your money? ➔ yes ► Met a celebrity? ➔ yes, but small disney stars when i was twelve
► Been really ill? ➔ yes, i got pneumonia last october :(
► Gotten high? ➔ no
► Smile or eyes ➔ both
► Light or dark hair ➔ dark
► Shorter or taller ➔ taller ► Intelligence or attraction ➔ both
► Hook-up or relationship ➔ relationship
► Funny and poor or rich and serious ➔ funny and poor ► Mac or PC? ➔ PC ► Chapstick or lipstick? ➔ neither ► City or country? ➔ city ► Driving or walking? ➔ driving
LASTS ► Last phone call? ➔ my aunt ► Last song you listened to? ➔ gallows by cocorosie ► Last thing you ate? ➔ hawaiian bread (◕‿◕✿)
► Last thing you drank? ➔ water ► Last place you were? ➔ kitchen ► Last kiss? ➔ no kiss….ever ► Last picture taken? ➔ one of my brother’s foot. :D ► Last outfit? ➔ tank top, sweater, necklace, shorts ► Last purchase? ➔ teen wolf on dvd. hahhah
because what, what, what, what the actual heck are you people doing
you wouldn’t send such harsh messages to real people, especially not someone who’s just had their life turned upside down.
Just because the recipient isn’t real and is therefore not affected by your words, YOU are both affecting yourself and others. You are encouraging this kind of behaviour in real life toward real people, that it’s somehow ok to use your words in flippant and hurtful ways as if the recipient deserved it, when in reality, she has been abused, has been taken advantage of, things Lydia could not avoid, because George is a scumbag, but a skilled scumbag. Telling Lydia she’s somehow at fault here is only reinforcing the awful norm that it’s an abusee’s fault for being abused (also bordering on rape culture and blaming rape victims, also not ok).
Just please, try and remember, no matter the circumstance, words have power, so use them for good, not evil; love, not hate.
Here, instead of blaming the innocent, we can use our words to #LoveLydia.