Dont make them your full course meal if you’re just an icing on their cake. You deserve more than that. You fucking deserve more than that. You deserve the moon and the stars and all those shit that guys promise to the girl they love. You deserve a goodnight text, not a ‘where are you, come here’ at 1 am. You deserve a goodmorning text, not a panic attack each night that he might be gone when you wake up. Hell, you deserve handwritten love notes and not just a text.
You deserve a breakfast in bed, or at the kitchen, as long as it is breakfast and it is your favorite pancake drizzled with your favorite chocolate and mapple syrup, because who cares if you gain a little bit of weight, he loves you anyways. You deserve a forehead kiss and tender kisses on your lips, and not a slap on your backside. You deserve a cuddle whenever you’re feeling out of sorts, and not a quick fuck. You deserve I love you’s, and not ‘give me some space’. You deserve much more than this. You deserve all of it, because girl, you are the baker of your own life and you… you can choose to be more than the pretty icing on their cake.
cynthia go // An Open Letter to All the Girls: You’re not just a pretty icing on the cake ( @cynthiatingo )
An Imagine on what it would be like to date him! <3 Lordy I had fun writing this one! Fluffy - a tinge smutty.
Long slow kisses.
Coffee dates, with deep discussions about art, poetry, music, literature, travel, deep thinking, and staring intently into your eyes… and down your cleavage. He thinks he’s being all sneaky sneaking glances at your boobs. ;)
Speaks foreign terms of endearment and other filthy things in the many foreign languages he knows!
Likes for you to be the Lady in the streets, and the Whore in the sheets!
He is the perfect gentleman, and your parents and friends adore him!
He is your protector.
Going to museums together, The ballet, the Opera, musicals, and acting right in public - or giving the illusion of such - when actually he whispers naughty things in your ear, or secretly gropes you!
Sweet shit, those bedroom eyes!
You can feel his presence from across the room, and suddenly the world just stops and it is just the 2 of you. Very Hot!!
He likes to spoil you in various ways. Handwritten love notes and cards, Perfumes, lingerie, jewelry. He likes it when you wear that black lace panty and bra set. The sheer see thru lace gets his mouth watering! You are his Queen, his Goddess, his world and he will not let you forget it!
Anniversaries are a big deal to him, and you celebrate whenever he is in town. Yes he is cheesy and celebrates monthiversaries - the anniversary of your first date together!
You both make Sheamus gag because you two are so damn cute! Sheamus always tells you two to “Get a fookin room, ya fookin lovebirds!”
He likes for you to be beautiful, so he is always sending you to the spa for all day treatments, or to the salon to get your hair and nails done.
He likes taking you shopping. Michael Kors, Burberry, CoCo Chanel, there is no place he won’t go with you. He also wouldn’t dream of letting you carry all those heavy bags by yourself!
Fine dining. Nothing but the best for you, his ladylove. Loves for you to get all dressed up to go out on the town. You are the IT couple. Screw the Miz and Maryse - it is Cesaro and Y/N!
He is also one HELL of a barista! He likes making yummy coffee drinks at home for the two of you. He also is a wonderful baker and chef, and treats you to candlelit dinners at his place all the time.
Making out in the Hot tub.
Stargazing. He knows all the constellations and planets and the Mythology that goes along with them - but his favorite stars are the ones he sees in your eyes.
Lots of romance. Flowers, gifts.
Slow dancing under the stars.
Very passionate. Loves soft kisses that gradually build up to lip biting, and wrestling tongues. Loves to tease and deny you your release a few times, before he finally allows you a release - and LORDY what a release! The 2nd time around is for his release! Always the gentleman.
Loves for you to stroke his body all over - loves being petted. He feels so good under your hands as you rub his chest and down his tight stomach. You both worship each other’s bodies. That “Happy Trail” tho… damn!
In bed, likes very much to be in control - as in using silk neckties to bind you to his will!!
Loves PDA, hugs, hand holding, pecks to the cheek, on top of your head, forehead, hand kisses..
He is competitive, but not above stopping his weight lifting to be your spotter as you are lifting weight in the gym with him. He always gives you tips on how to enhance your workout and be the best you can be. He is proud of your accomplishments, and never slacks in giving you lavish praise.
He has a very dry sense of humor, but you two are always laughing and smiling.
The best hugs.
He loves it when he can take you to have a new experience in dining or travel - he actually gets off seeing the wonder and joy in your eyes as you experience things he has experienced many times.
Selfies together. That goes without saying.
The tear away suit isn’t just part of his ring gear - he has used it on you in the bedroom a time or two. IT. NEVER. DISAPPOINTS.
He thought I see only stars in his eyes when I can see galaxy. He doesn’t know how my world turn upside down whenever he’s around especially when I hear him talking. He saw himself under the gloomy clouds and he doesn’t know that I want to dance with him in the rain. He’s got all the love that he needs including mine even though I do not show. I have given half of my heart so that his will remain whole but he doesn’t understand perhaps he doesn’t really know.
Day 14/100 days of productivity
April 5th 2017
Day 5 of #aprilstudychallenge
Today was yet another productive day! (All thanks to the amount of homework and the small tests we keep having)
- studied for an economics class test
- Did my homework for Accounts and English.
Question for #aprilstudychallenge: Handwritten or typed notes?
Ooh! I’ve been wanting to voice my opinions on this topic. I love seeing handwritten notes here on tumblr, but I seriously do not have the time nor the skill to make such good notes.
I prefer typed notes because:
- They can be made faster than handwritten notes
- I can constantly keep making changes in the document before I print it out.
- I’m a write kinda slow and I type a lot faster than I write
- No time, no skill to make notes look pretty, and trying to make it look pretty wastes time.
I think that if you want someone, you should be able to say it and act on it. Love is supposed to be cute. It’s meant to be cliche, you’re meant to miss them until your bones ache, you’re meant to run out of words to describe how they make you feel, that’s love; handwritten letters and notes on lunch bags. Love is staying up to think about, well, love.
Words, feelings, butterflies, people — you invest in them. For the thrill of it, for fun, dam it, you need to invest.
I’ve learned about destruction and breaking, I’ve heard bad things about falling but I still believe in love, in investing; because how would I find love if I don’t look for it? Or at least try to look for it?
Anyone could be love. That guy at the bus stop this morning, the girl with a bright pink hairpiece you saw on your drive home, love has no specific name or gender or face, anyone could be love. Believe in love, invest in it.
Hey sorry to bother you but I'm a new studyblr and I was wondering if you had any advice or tips for me since I'm new to all of this ps I love your blog so much
Hi there! Welcome to the wonderful world of the studyblr community :)
When I made this blog, I had absolutely no idea on how to begin , even what a studyblr was (true story haha). But, I do remember seeing posts of lovely handwritten notes and those hella nice mildliners. I was instantly drawn to this fantastic rabbit hole. It motivated me to become more productive and enthusiastic in learning.
Here are my tips for you
1. Choosing your url
You can have any url that you fancy. Yet, I would recommend that having a username that is study-related will let people know easier that you are a studyblr.
2. Determine first your aesthetic
Every studyblr has their own aesthetic. You might be someone who likes pastel-y posts, or maybe you prefer posting about cute stationery. It can be a mixture of anything under the sun! There are no rules. You can post whatever you’re passionate about.
There are SEVERAL of studyblrs out there. You’ll get to meet tons of fantastic people who will constantly inspire you. You could check out this studyblr map to see studyblrs near your location. You could also see some communities and study groups. Here’s some of my studyblr faves as well ☺
Try to make your own original posts! It could be about your notes, desk, handwriting or tips. Your posts can also range from masterposts, videos, playlists, printables or even just photos. Your original content will surely introduce you the studyblr world. As much as possible, try to be consistent. I try to post at least once a week. Don’t forget to tag it with #studyblr and #studyspo
*You can also signal boost your posts by tagging studyblrs who have their own tracked tags ☺ Some will be delighted to reblog them! You can track me in your posts and I will be happy to boost them as well
It helped me too when I made an introductory post. I met tons of mutuals through it
* An important rule to remember is reblog never repost. It would be very rude to steal someone else’s work, and it will upset them too.
For me, I learned that being a studyblr is not defined by the number of notes and followers one must have . Being a studyblr doesn’t require fancy handwriting or a Macbook laptop. A studyblr is someone who aspires to be a better student. She/he works hard to achieve success. A studyblr is someone who is also willing to help their fellow studyblrs, they support + help one another ☺
Here are some advice as well from other studyblrs: