love-yourselves

im at this stage of growth where i have to deal with people talking down on me because they can’t fathom their own shitty lives & ways of thinking. just love yourselves. can’t blame others for your misfortunes bro. im gonna still be content ✨

I reached, and surpassed 800 followers like a week ago and got real lazy on doing a little bias list but I’m feeling it now, so here are a few of my favorite people to plot, bullshit, rp, and destroy lives with. All 800 and whatever of you guys are cool af for following, you’re awesome, and I love you, so make yourselves and your lives more awesome by following these people. #choices

Seriously though, these people have stuck with me through whatever nonsense and fuckery i’m posting, remaking my blog, the drama that I constantly don’t ever get involved in, you know, the rough shit, and they deserve praise. There’s also a few among them that I have admired from afar because I may be vain af, but I’m also shy for like 5 seconds and get anxious when I ask to rp or reply to an open.

@dxvilhunter / @resurrxct | @bornathief / @scngofthesiren | @brightica | @jasonxtoddred | @wobblemywebs | @themxdtitan | @jiltedskurge / @incrediblestudofaman | @indomitablle / @volcannic | @fireversed | @throniv | @90superboy | @warforgcd | @silfursvik | @lokicfasgard | @ulvgud / @oralvexation | @balderblake / @malcfactor | @onlyahammer | @onlyslightlydoomed | @danveriisms | @doctorxdoom | @iidunn / @thjazii | @illdepths | @pclehorse | @nchntrss | @butscrewmefirst | @revvolver / @agentofspyral | @finestglitter | @ornitus | @ofeterniiity / @justahealcr | @neverparted | @motherofoceans | @avengingson | @seijoki | @machetemaestro | @outlawiism | @mephistx | @dcrmammu | @okkulted | @madehiswar | @shieldofasgard | @demonveiined | @moonchosen | @nesuferatu | @remembcr | @sviker | @cxpt | @snakurofeden | @necrcmancyy | @worstavenger | @runspeedrun / @lighttempted | @crackedportrait | @wretchedgrasp | @gloriiana | @servomagus | @wcrthiest | @depthdweller | @psionicisms |  @rvenbow | @xstormclad | @the-accursed | @mctherdeath | @loreleithevixen | @androktones | @vivacii | @agreaterweapon | @beautiful-mischief

and a special shout out to @chaos-and-hexes for being lucky number 800! Follow them and be groovy and nice, they’re new!

Hello friends!

I would like to welcome you all to my super special self-care masterpost for all of you super special cuties out there! Unfortunately, it’s common to dislike ourselves and feel a little lower than usual. When that happens, it can be very difficult for us to acknowledge our worth! But never fear my darlings, because here are many ways to look after yourself, even if you’re feeling a little down. Best wishes and lots of love! ♥♥♥

Note: I apologise that most of the links on the masterpost are currently not working, but until I fix it please refer to the repost here 


Dealing with depression and feeling suicidal

Relievers for depression and feeling suicidal

Depression and suicide hotlines/chatrooms

Dealing with self harm

Dealing with grief and loss

Dealing with loneliness and break-ups

Dealing with anxiety and stress

Relievers for anxiety and stress


Audio meditation techniques

Dealing with bipolar disorder/ manic depression

  • Helping your loved one through a manic episode
  • Helping a loved one with bipolar disorder
  • Dealing with bipolar mania: help for caregivers
  • 7 ways to deal with a manic depressive person
  • Dealing effectively with depression and manic depression
  • Simple tricks to deal with anxiety and mania
  • 5 tips for coping with mania
  • Coping skills for bipolar disorder
  • 50 natural ways to manage and cope with bipolar disorder
  • 10 small steps you can  take to improve bipolar disorder

Dealing with hallucinations and schizophrenia

  • Helping a person with schizophrenia
  • Treatment and recovery for schizophrenia
  • 60 methods for coping with hallucinations
  • Helping someone cope with hallucinations
  • Coping with schizophrenic hallucinations and delusions
  • 5 ways to quiet auditory hallucinations
  • A practical guide to cope with hearing voices
  • Helping people who hear voices
  • Strategies for coping with distressing voices

Dealing with eating disorders

  • Why do we have to eat?
  • Why you should eat often + strategies
  • The reality of anorexia and bulimia
  • Recovering from an eating disorder
  • Recovery and relapse prevention
  • The dangers of diet pills and laxatives
  • the dangers of laxative abuse
  • Physical effects of an eating disorder
  • Recovery toolbox
  • Milestones in recovery
  • Understanding recovery
  • Making a recovery meal plan
  • What to do when you feel fat
  • Confidential eating disorder screening

Treatment services

  • Inpatient services (Australia)
  • Treatment centers (USA)
  • Treatment centers (Worldwide)
  • Online treatment program
  • Eating recovery center website
  • Different treatment settings
  • Treatment settings

Dealing with anger

  • Managing anger
  • Controlling anger
  • Dealing with anger and impulsivity  
  • Dealing with criticism
  • Gruntle.me
  • Click rocks
  • Bouncy balls

Dealing with insomnia/sleep deprivation

  • What time should I sleep?
  • Calculating the perfect bedtime + sleep efficiency
  • 42 simple tips to deal with insomnia
  • 10 tips to beat insomnia
  • How to make yourself so tired that you’ll fall asleep
  • 11 ways to get to sleep and stay asleep
  • Trick yourself into dozing off
  • Natural remedies to help sleep
  • Natural remedies for sleep apnea
  • Restoring restful sleep
  • 10 steps to recovering from insomnia
  • Recover after a sleepless night
  • How to fix snoring
  • How to pull an all nighter and still do well in an exam
  • Health benefits of sleep
  • Why sleep is so important

Audio meditation 

  • Sleep meditation
  • Guided meditation for sleep: floating among the stars
  • Journey to the stars: 1 hour sleep meditation

Dealing with Borderline Personality Disorder

  • Finding out about BPD
  • More info about BPD and treatment
  • Helping a loved one with BPD
  • BPD Recovery
  • BPD therapists
  • Treatments for BPD
  • Listed treatments for BPD
  • Self-help for BPD
  • Three herbs everyone with BPD should know about
  • Omega-3 fish oil helps BPD
  • Natural treatment for BPD
  • Natural treatments for BPD
  • Info about schema therapy
  • DBT self-help lessons
  • Everyday DBT
  • Self-help course in CBT
  • 10 coping skills for BPD
  • Coping skills for BPD
  • Living with BPD
  • Mindfulness meditation resources

Services for BPD

  • UK services
  • USA services
  • More USA services
  • Australian services
  • Finding services for BPD help (Australia)

Dealing with sexual assault

  • Helping a friend or family member who was a victim
  • Coping with the after-effects of sexual assault
  • Man’s guide to helping female victims
  • Coping with rape
  • Coping with acquaintance rape
  • Coping with rape-related PTSD
  • Dealing with rape
  • UK helplines for male survivors
  • UK male survivors
  • When a man is raped (includes how to help victims)
  • Understanding and helping male survivors
  • Survivors Chat

Dealing with domestic violence and abuse

  • Steps to take if you are a victim of family abuse
  • Domestic violence and criminal harassment unit of the Vancouver Police Department
  • Canadian bar association- family violence
  • Vancouver coastal health services
  • Victims info
  • Domestic violence help
  • ywca domestic violence help
  • domestic abuse services
  • domestic violence resources

Places to stay 

  • Safe house
  • Napless shelter for women and children
  • YWCA women’s shelter

Learning to love yourself and be happy

  • 21 tips to release self-neglect
  • 9 ways to love yourself
  • Loving yourself
  • Let yourself be happier than you think you deserve
  • Who to fall in love with first
  • 7 reasons to shamelessly love yourself
  • 5 ways to love your body
  • 17 reasons to love your body just the way it is
  • 20 ways to love your body
  • Learning to love your body in 4 steps
  • Do I deserve to be happy?
  • 100 reasons to be happy
  • 300 reasons to be happy

Had a hard day?

  • 28 tips to relax
  • Learn how to relax and sleep like a baby
  • 14 ways to live a more relaxing life
  • 40 ways to relax in 5 minutes
  • 20 ways to relax and unwind
  • Jukebox time machine
  • Read any book
  • Colour quiz
  • Useless web
  • Pointless sites
  • Build a squid
  • Mario sequencer
  • Seaquence
  • Virtual Piano
  • Spot the difference
  • Internet Explorer 6
  • Falling falling
  • Heeeeey

Dealing with substance abuse

  • 11 ways to handle substance abuse
  • How to quit smoking
  • Healthy alternatives to smoking
  • 10 tips to quitting smoking
  • 10 unusual quit-smoking tips
  • Tips to help you stop smoking
  • Quitting methods and what to expect- smoking
  • Overcoming drug addiction
  • How to beat drug addiction
  • The best way to quit using drugs
  • Ways to end drug addiction
  • How to help a friend quit drugs
  • Caring for someone with a drug problem
  • Alternatives to alcohol
  • Alternatives to drinking
  • Alcoholism-solutions
  • Alcohol abuse treatment and self-help
  • How to stop drinking alcohol
  • Health effects of alcohol
  • Alternatives to drugs and alcohol for solving our problems

Substance abuse helplines/services

  • US: National Drug Information Treatment and Referral Hotline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
  • US: Alcohol Abuse and Crisis Intervention: 1-800-234-0246
  • US: National Cocaine Hotline: 1-800-COCAINE (262-2463)
  • US: Al-Anon/Alateen Hotline (for friends and family) 1-800-344-2666
  • UK: Drinkline: Nat'l. Alcoholism Helpline: 0800 917 8282
  • NZ: Alcohol / Drug Helpline: 0800 787 797AUS: Alcohol & Other Drugs Information Service (ADIS): Freecall 1800 131 350
  • Australian helplines
  • More helplines

please dont let this website make you think its okay to barely sleep at all, its often joked about on here but in reality it can seriously affect your health, i know its not always possible but please try and get a decent amount of sleep whenever you can, and remember to look after yourselves okay thank you~

But the most beautiful things in life are not things. They’re people, and places, memories, and pictures. They’re feelings and moments and smiles and laughter.
—  Unknown

Okay, so correct if I’m wrong, but…  

…aren’t sharp weapons…

…that are also guns….

…like…

…like…really, really dangerous? Like just straight-up stupidly dangerous? Like “Hey, lemme just use these guns as nunchucks WHOOPS I SHOT MYSELF IN THE GODDAMN FACE.” 

I mean, look at Blake:

It’s a sword. But also a gun?? But she also swings it around??? While continuing to use it as a gun???? She is literally swinging around arguably one of the most dangerous-to-use weapons ever conceived?????????