love your blog girl

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Be the Support System that your past self needed.
Don’t pay attention to the ones that berate you and focus on the ones that celebrate you! 

Happy Big Girl Appreciation Day! 

I want you to tell me about every person you’ve ever been in love with. Tell me why you loved them and why they loved you. Tell me about a day in your life that you didn’t think you’d live through. Tell me about what the word ‘home’ means to you and tell me in a way that I’ll know your mother’s name just by the way you describe your bedroom you had when you were 8. See, I wanna know the first time you felt the weight of hate and if that day still trembles beneath your bones. Do you prefer to play in puddles of rain or dance in the bellies of snow? And if you were to build a snowman, would you rip two branches from a tree to give your snowman arms? Or would you leave your snowman armless for the sake of being harmless to the tree? And if you would, would you notice that the tree weeps for you because your snowman has no arms to hug you every time you kiss him on the cheek? Do you kiss your friends on the cheek? Do you sleep beside them when they’re sad, even if it makes your lover mad? Do you think that anger is a sincere emotion or just the timid of a fragile heart trying to beat away its pain? See, I wanna know what you think of your first name. And if you often lie awake at night and imagine your mother’s joy when she spoke it for the very first time. I want you to tell me all the ways you’ve been unkind. Tell me all the ways you’ve been cruel. See I want to know more than what you do for a living. I want to know how much of your life you spend just giving. And if you love yourself enough to also receive sometimes. I wanna know if you bleed sometimes through other peoples wounds. I want to know about you.
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Wear what you wanna wear! Who cares what other people think?! If they’re judging you for how you appear on the outside, then they’re not too great of a person on the inside. Surround yourself with people who love and support you. Don’t choose to stay with people who degrade you. You know you deserve better than that!

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“Now you Shouldn’t even get into who I’m given Skins to~
It’s none of your business
So don’t try to change my mind, I’ll tell you one more time~
It’s none of your business”

(If y’all do not know of Salt-n-Pepa, then I highly suggest listening to a few of their songs!)

Stories from me, your average lesbian #21:

Crush: So I like someone and the only way I’m going to tell them is by making an impulsive decision

Me: *trying to be a good friend but inside I’m hella jealous of whoever I’m about to help out* Than make an impulsive decision, whoever it is will be lucky to have you

Crush: Yeah so I like you

Me: Well I was not expecting that one

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I used to worry about having my arms exposed. I would wear jackets and undershirts all the time. One day in middle school, my dad asked me “Why are you covering your arms? It’s okay to have them out.”
Sometimes, it just takes a little bit of reassurance from the ones you love to get you through tough times. XD

i can give you a̹̩ͥ̀̿̋͐͑́ņ̝͍̭͙̣̼͍͐̒͛̎ÿ̫̯̯́͑͑ͬ͌̀̋͢t͔̬͈̜͘h̴̩͓ͦi͖̅̊̿ͥn͖̪̩g̦̥͓̬͇͍̘͗ͪ͂̆ͬ | darkiplier aesthetic

I got really inspired by an aesthetic that was made by @markired so I decided to make this. I’m reeeeeeeeeeally proud of it 

considering how little time was spent on this lol

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4 Stages of Dealing with Haters; 

  1.  …what… did you just say to me?
  2.  Don’t worry, I’ll wait. I’ll let you finish. 
  3.  Ya done? You got all that out? I don’t know who hurt you, or why you feel the need to spread that negativity, but you need to get all of it together and nip it in the bud because I. Don’t. Have. Time. For. Your. Negativity. No one does.
  4. Now that we got that settled, wanna join me for a friendship s'more?? There’s no need to hold grudges XD
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the duality of jung hoseok: spring day x mic drop

happy birthday [01/09] to my dear @hobislobster, i hope you like my gift