love schedule

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You’re doing amazing :) you woke up today!! And you turned on your phone or tablet or computer and you got on tumblr!! And sometimes that’s a pretty big deal ^-^ so good job! You’re doing wonderful :) I hope your day is as awesome as you cause you deserve it, okay? You really do ^-^

anonymous asked:

Hello for the advice thingy, I guess I'd like an outsiders opinion and advice? I'm 17, 18 in 2 months, and I've never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, nothing. A lot of people at school think I'm gay bc of this and I'm not? I've had boys approach me they're just not right for me and bc of this I feel really unlovable, like do I not deserve love? Sorry for the word dump :/

Oh my gosh sweetie no!!!! I was in a very similar situation at that age too; the most boy experience I had was hugs from my platonic guy friends and I always felt like there was something wrong with me.  I kept seeing all my friends getting in relationships or at least having boys show interest in them and then there was me, who couldn’t relate.  It’s not a fun feeling!

I wish someone had told me sooner that there is absolutely no schedule for love.  There’s no official deadline or anything by which you should have kissed someone, should have a boyfriend, should have done this or that.  There’s that saying about how love has no age and there’s honestly a lot of truth to it because everyone has those experiences at different times and that’s okay!!  Also, being able to tell when guys aren’t right for you is a really really good thing.  I’m still really picky about who I show interest in, and it’s saved me the trouble of being in bad relationships or dating for convenience alone, which is something I’ve seen happen to a lot of my friends. 

Trust me when I say I know how frustrating it can be not to have kissed or dated anyone–I didn’t have my first kiss until after high school and even now at 21 I’ve still never had a boyfriend!  How you feel is totally understandable, but not having done those things does not mean you’re unworthy of them.  You are so deserving of love and what I always say to my friends (and to myself!!) is that one of these days, someone’s going to come along who will make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else <3 

Cait :)

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Keep smiling forever you sweet thing.