love is love no matter the gender

REMINDER THAT...

I just wanted to remind all of you that:

✅YOU ARE VALID✅
🦋BE YOURSELF🦋
🚺EXPRESS YOUR GENDER🚹
💖LOVE YOURSELF💖
✨BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE✨
💪STAY STRONG💪
😁YOU ARE HUMAN😁
🖕FUCK THE PHOBICS🖕
🔪CONQUER YOUR DYSPHORIA🔪
🤢YOU’RE NOT AN ILLNESS🤢
🙄YOU AREN’T RETARDED🙄
😊STAY HAPPY😊
😂KEEP LAUGHING😂
😜BE SILLY😜
👩‍❤️‍👩LOVE WHO YOU WANT👨‍❤️‍👨
😱STAY FABULOUS😱
✝️YOU ARE NOT A SIN✝️
😒YOU ARE NO DISGRACE😒
🤔YOU’RE NOT CONFUSED🤔
🤥YOU ARE NOT A LIAR🤥
💩YOU AREN’T FAKE💩
😇YOU EXIST😇
🤗YOU MATTER🤗
😌KEEP YOUR HOPES UP😌
😃BECAUSE THINGS WILL GET BETTER😃
🎨SHOW YOUR TRUE COLORS🎨
🏳️‍🌈YOU ARE YOU AND WE ACCEPT IT🏳️‍🌈

❤️💛💚💙💜💖❤️💛💚💙💜💖
HAPPY LGBT PRIDE MONTH
❤️💛💚💙💜💖❤️💛💚💙💜💖
REBLOG THIS A MILLION TIMES
❤️💛💚💙💜💖❤️💛💚💙💜💖
I SERIOUSLY LOVE YOU ALL!!! PLEASE MESSAGE ME IF YOU’RE HAVING ANY PROBLEMS OR ASK ME ANY QUESTIONS
YOU NEED ANSWERED! WHETHER IT’S
ABOUT A GENDER IDENTITY, ORIENTATION,
OR ANYTHING ELSE! IF YOU’RE BEING
BULLIED FOR THE WAY YOU IDENTIFY
PLEASE CONTACT ME AND DON’T
HESITATE! IF YOU HAVE DEPRESSION
OR DYSPHORIA I WOULD LOVE TO HELP
YOU!!! I’D BE HAPPY TO INSPIRE YOU!!!
(Sorry this is in all caps and has a crap load of emojis. I just want this post to stand out. And don’t forget to turn on notifications if you follow me or are a new follower and like my content!)
❤️💛💚💙💜💖❤️💛💚💙💜💖

anonymous asked:

Wait!!! I'm confused now! @.@ what's the difference between demi and pansexual???

(asjhsdhsdf I’m not an expert on the matter correct me again if I make mistakes guys please!)

These terms are not the same..

Pansexuality is reflective of those who feel they are sexually/emotionally/spiritually capable of falling in love with all genders.  A pansexual could be open to someone who is male, female, transgender, intersex, or agendered/genderqueer.

By explaining the meaning of “Demisexual” I told you how we feel about Love and Sex, which one we prioritize and which one is  second place.

Now, Demisexuality varies according to the gender you feel attracted too, then you can be Demisexual-hetero, Demisexual-bi, Demisexual-gay,…

 Demisexual-pan too… etc etc…

Hi, my name is Gosha, I’m seventeen years old, I live in Belgium and I’m bisexual (you can go to my instagram for pictures @goshatirions). I am looking for a pen pal because I love to write letters (but I’m not very good at art and I do not have any cute shops near me so don’t expect cute little gifts or amazing art in your envelope ^^’). Your gender, sexuality or religion doesn’t matter to me, as long as you aren’t  homophobic, transphobic or racist.

I guess I should tell something about myself.. I study human sciences and I can speak three languages: Dutch, English and French (Okay no I suck at French hahaha). I love music, even though I can’t sing or play any instrument. Some of my favourite artists and bands are twenty one pilots, the front bottoms, p!atd, Dodie Clark, Melanie Martinez, Declan Mckenna, adtr, neck deep, thenbhd etc. I’m also really interested in astrology and photography. I kind of collect old cameras. Things I like to do in my free time are reading, watching movies/series/youtube, traveling, hanging out with friends, inlineskating, taking pictures, drawing… 

You can send me a message on:

  • instagram: @goshatirions
  • snapchat: goshake
  • tumblr: @gxsha

Because gay isn’t only 17 year old white kids that come from middle to upper class homes. And Black Love isn’t just straight couples that enforce gender roles and women with perfect bodies, a quiet tongue, and a womb always ready to create. This is also the face of Black Love. And its beautiful. -ShiShi

you know what? i love boys. i know there’s a lot of praise surrounding bisexual girls who always say how much they love women, and as great as that is, bisexual girls loving boys is just as good. boys can be soft and lovely and warm and i love them. sometimes the same amount i love girls, sometimes less, and sometimes equally, but no matter what, i still like them. shoutout to other bisexual girls who don’t feel as if they’re as worthy in the LGBT+ community when they like a boy.

Why all of the Disney princesses are awesome

Snow White

- was a survivor of attempted murder, and was resilient to not let that horrid and traumatizing event bring her down or let it ruin her life

- was a victim of emotional abuse, and didn’t let the abuse get to her

- would save a baby bird from danger and make sure it found it’s parents

- knows how to hold a rocking party with friends

Cinderella

- survivor of emotional abuse from her stepmom and stepsisters for many years, and stayed kind towards others

- despite her family treating her so wrongly and poorly, she just wanted to spend a night with them and have fun with them, and just be like a normal family “ Prince Charming, who “ ?????

- she’s sassy as fuck “ Well I don’t want to interrupt their “music lesson “ during her stepsisters bad singing

- even though she had a short time to be at the ball, she was grateful for the opportunity anyways

Aurora

- Gives up her happiness, to perform her duty as a princess for her kingdom and her kingdom’s future and knows that she must do her job as a princess. That’s pretty brave and selfless.

- that gorgeous blonde curly hair !!!!

Ariel

- she’s the first Princess that goes forward to make her dreams come true, rather than just wishing, hoping and waiting.

- she’s adventurous, curious, loves to explore, learn about new things and new cultures and new world

- she’s the first Princess to save her love interest, but once, but twice

Belle

- different, odd and a misfit from the common crowd and gives no fucks

- “ Women shouldn’t read “ Well shut the fuck up, I’m going to do what I love and enjoy anyways.

- takes no bullshit. You are a asshole ? Got no time for that. She’s outtie.

- sees the good within people, but is also isn’t naive, she knows that some people are just plain monsters, through and through.

Jasmine

- will stand up for her rights, and won’t be pushed around

- is quick, sharp, intelligent and a fast learner

-wants to learn more about the outside world and her people

-if you try and lie to her or manipulate her or treat her like she’s a fool, she’s not having that shit

Pocahontas

-will fight for her people, her family, her world, her home, her culture

- she’s the first princess to save the day, not the guy, not a male sidekick, she’s the one the saves the day, while Snow had the Dwarfs, Cinderella had her mice friends, Aurora had Prince Phillip, Ariel had Eric, and Jasmine had Aladdin. ( Belle is debatable imo )

- loves the earth and nature and will protect it from harm

Mulan

- she saves China, I mean, come on

- she never gives up, no matter what. If she fails, she will just try even harder to succeed and will find a way on how can succeed.

- brave, determined, strong mentally and physically, a kind friend

-teaches girls that it’s okay if you haven’t found yourself yet- if you don’t give up, one day you will, and you will conquer

- pushes gender norms

- another female princess that saves the day, not her male love interest, or sidekicks, is also the first princess to defeat the villian in battle, like a previous male character like Phillip or Eric would

Tiana

- is hard-working, and never gives up on her dreams, and will work hard to get there

- teaches that dreams are done by sweating your butt off, giving up on fun sometimes, sometimes having to work more than one job, than just wishing and hoping, you have to take action, and make that dream happen

-ambitious and smart and realistic

- teaches that you shouldn’t take a short-cut, find a lazy option, cheat or gamble your way to success, the only to get there is through hard work and effort

- again,another badass princess that saves the day on her own

Rapunzel

- is kind to everybody

- is cheerful, positive, warm and supportive towards others, even people who seem “scary “, she knows inside, that we all have dreams

-is brave enough to step outside her  zone and new and strange places and territories

- anger her by harming one of her loved ones and she will fucking tear you apart

- a talented artist

Anna and Elsa

- teaches girls that family love is just as important than romance love, if not more so

- Anna goes through a abusive relationship and isn’t put off love forever, she learns her lesson, doesn’t let Hans bad treatment of her ruin her or let her become a toxic person, like he was, and moves on with a better man, and a healthier relationship

- Elsa goes through basically being locked up with lack of other human contact, fearing her powers and fearing what other people think of, to come out as better and stronger person

- Elsa teaches that sometimes its best not let what others think of you, and just say “ fuck it “ and just be yourself and be free

- Anna teaches the difference between a unhealthy relationship (whirlwind romance,quickly trusting people, getting into a deep relationship with somebody you don’t even know )  and healthy one ( somebody who gives you his jacket when you are cold, holds you close when you are scared, is worried about your well-being, getting to know somebody first before leaping in, somebody who asks for your consent before kissing you, will do anything to make sure you are safe and okay )

Moana

- will do anything for her island and people and make sure they’ll all okay

- her leadership skills are A++

- no “ you are forced to marry this boy so you can become his queen”, BS, Moana is the future leader

- is brave to fear the unknown waters, learn new skills, and battle monsters

- is understanding, and understands why somebody acts the way that they do

- is extremely independent


in short, they are all awesome, even the three originals.

Reminder to all the Christian LGBT+ individuals who have been told they are going to hell or that God hates them:

God loves everyone, no matter what gender you are or who you love, God will love you. Being LGBT+ does not mean you’re going to hell, I promise

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Keiynan Lonsdale photographed by Storm Santos for VULKAN Magazine

“I like to change my hair, I like to take risks with how I dress, I like girls, and I like guys (yes), I like growing, I like learning, I like who I am and I really like who I’m becoming. Spent way too many years hating myself, thinking I was less valuable because I was different… which is just untrue. A couple years ago I was able to accept myself, and it saved my life, but now I’ve gotten to a new road block and I feel kind of lost. I gotta take the next step and actually embrace who I am, which is pretty exciting. Not faking shit anymore, not apologizing for falling in love with people no matter their gender. I’ve become bored of being insecure, ashamed, scared… no one should feel like that about themselves, especially when there is so much good life to live. Ya know more and more I see so many young people being their best / truest selves, it’s fucking inspiring… so what have I been waiting for!? Who knows. Everyone in their own time. I hope we can all learn to embrace who we are and not judge people who aren’t exactly the same as us. The truth is we are all family, we’re all one. Just love.”

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Happy Valentine’s Day, Tumblr. 💖

Today we’re working with the Ad Council (@lovehasnolabels) to spread the message that love has no labels, and to encourage everyone to treat each other equally—no matter their race, disability, sexuality, gender, or religion. If you have a story, photo, or any other kind of art that describes what “love has no labels” means to you, we want to see it. Post it with the tags #lovehasnolabels and #postitforward so everyone on Tumblr can find it.

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Keiynan Lonsdale, who stars in The Flash on The CW, came out as liking girls and guys in a lovely Instagram post a few days ago. He wrote:

I like to change my hair, I like to take risks with how I dress, I like girls, & I like guys (yes), I like growing, I like learning, I like who I am and I really like who I’m becoming. Spent way too many years hating myself, thinking I was less valuable because I was different.. which is just untrue. A couple years ago I was able to accept myself, & it saved my life, but now I’ve gotten to a new road block & I feel kind of lost. I gotta take the next step & actually embrace who I am, which is pretty exciting. Not faking shit anymore, not apologising for falling in love with people no matter their gender. I’ve become bored of being insecure, ashamed, scared… no one should feel like that about themselves, especially when there is so much good life to live. Ya know more & more I see so many young people being their best / truest selves, it’s fucking inspiring… so what have I been waiting for!? Who knows. Everyone in their own time. I hope we can all learn to embrace who we are & not judge people who aren’t exactly the same as us. The truth is we are all family, we’re all one. Just love. Keiy. ❤

Welcome to the family, Keiy. ❤ (via the Huffington Post)

if you don’t see how Lady Gaga sent a huge “fuck you” to the most overrated Cheeto in America, let me enlighten you
  • “God bless America” being the first words out of her mouth
  • Born This Way
  • telling every single person watching her performance that no matter who you are, your race, your sexual orientation, your gender identity, you’re perfect because god doesn’t make mistakes
  • pence sitting in the audience surrounded by people cheering her on
  • she literally used nothing but love and positivity to do this and even if you aren’t a fan, you should go watch her performance
  • THAT MIC DROP


please feel free to add to this

Protips

-Dont think too much about your decision
-dont let fear or other people’s actions /judgement around/about you change you.
-hug your friends
-BE SELFISH IF YOU NEED TO BE SELFISH
-BE KIND IF YOU WANT TO BE KIND
-pet every living thing except humans (with some exceptions).
-Do the things that make you happy.
-Try to find beauty around you.
- don’t be too hard on yourself.
- Appreciate every little achievement you make.
-get a little close to your family, try to get to know them.
-Get away from your family if they are not good for you. Just good vibes.
-cry every time you need to cry
-you are enough, embrace yourself.
-eat ice cream every time you want to eat ice cream.
-go to downtown and just get lost walking around.
-Pet All Dogs you see .
-take your pet to an adventure(If you don’t have a pet take your friend pet to an adventure)
-go on a date with yourself. DO SOMETHING NICE FOR YOURSELF.
-hug your friends.
-take all the “me time” you need.
-hold hands with your friends no matter what.
-Really.hold.hands.with.your.friends.
-Get dressed in fancy clothes with your friends and take a nice photo
-hug your friends just bc you can.
-smile .
- don’t be Alone when you can be with someone who loves you.
-go outside
-go inside
-go to big adventures
-go to small adventures
-dye your hair
-love yourself
-eat
-cosplay your favorite gay character
-cosplay your favorite straight character
-cosplay something of any gender/orientation
- bake some cookies
-bake some blue cookies
-run as fast as you can
-scream as loud as you can
-go to concerts from your favorite bands
-get to college and study something you love
-learn a different lenguage.
-Become a volunteer.
-Go to the supermarket with your friends just to hang out.
-Watch a romantic movie with your pet.
-read.
-read more.
-dont be afraid of being different.
- don’t be a jerk to people who look “normal”.
- don’t be a jerk.
- help someone.
-help someone, again and again but not bc I’m telling you bc u want!
- GO TO A WAFFLE’S FANCY RESTAURANT.

Why RuPaul’s Drag Race is one of the best tv shows

1. It teaches self love and self acceptance. RuPaul tells everyone to love themselves at the end of every episode.

2. You don’t have to be a size 0 to compete. No matter what size you are, you can still be beautiful.

3. 4/8 winners are people of color. The top three of Season 8 are all non-white.

4. Is very gender inclusive.

Trans contestants: Monica Beverly Hillz, Carmen Carrera, Jiggly Caliente, Sonquie, Gia Gunn, Stacy Lane Matthews, and Kenya Michaels

Genderfluid contestants: Violet Chachki and Courtney Act

Two-Spirted contestants: Raja Gemini

Genderless contestants: Jinkx Monsoon

5. Deals with HIV 

HIV Positive contestants: Ongina and Trinity K. Bonet

6. Sexuality

Pansexual contestants: Courtney Act

Bisexual contestants: Kelly Mantle, Jasmine Masters, Katya Zamo (is only bisexual in drag, out of drag is gay)


There are so many more reasons, please leave some that are important to you.

important/positive reminders

- you are valid

- you are good enough

- your mental health matters: make it your priority. make yourself a priority!

- your body, your choice!

- tell yourself you are worth of happiness!

- self-care isn’t selfish!

- you CAN do it

- it’s okay to ask for help

- put yourself first

- you are NOT your mistakes

- celebrate even your smallest accomplishments!

- you are capable of extraordinary things!

- learn to love yourself. be yourself for yourself!

- spread kindness!

- your weight doesn’t define you! acne is normal! stretch marks are normal! body hair is normal! don’t be ashamed of your body

- women need to support each other

- support people of color

- support the lgbt community

- trans women are women, trans men are men

- make up has no gender!

- men can be feminist!

- stop slut shaming!

- you are loved! you are BEAUTIFUL! you are NOT alone! you deserve to be happy! your opinion matters! your feelings matter! you matter