i just..... the fact that louis wrote the lyric "it's not over til your dying breath" in a song about his mom..... i've felt sick to my stomach all day
i know, love. but that’s so true.
as a person who also lost their mom because of cancer, i can tell you that there’s nothing like a woman fighting for her life until the last breath.
i hope she is resting in peace now.
Okay so here’s a good metaphor for what it’s like being misgendered as a trans person. Imagine that someone pokes you. Not too hard, just hard enough for it to maybe hurt a tiny bit. Now, if this happens every once in a while it’s no big deal, but imagine being poked like that in the same exact spot constantly ever since you were born. It would hurt a lot more, right? I think that’s why a lot of cis people don’t realize how much it sucks to be misgendered. They think ‘oh I’ve been misgendered before it wasn’t pleasant but it wasn’t really that bad’ but they don’t realize that when it happens constantly, it starts to just feel worse every time.
Here is yet another Louis talking audio. Again, I just put together shorter clips of Louis talking and added piano music. Louis’ voice helps me calm down and deal with pain, so I thought this might help someone else too. Enjoy. <3
Yo guys! I know i haven’t been around lately; that’s because I’m on finals and stuff at college and it’s driving me crazy! But i try to keep making some doodles and stuff i upload at Twitter :3
i just wanted to let you know that I’ll come back with many drawings, also i wanted to say thank you to all the people that have stick with me and also to the new followers 💘 it means a lot to me.
That’s all for now, see you soon my squibs!
I’ll be back Bl
(since today is the taylor swift day with “1989” and all that shit, I just wanted to remember this moment at the mtv vma 2013 lmao)
That awkward moment in which sequentially:
Harry Styles claps his hands trying not to laugh at her because *cameras* and so he smirks unabashedly
Niall Horan just claps, smiles and shrugs off because he’s a ball of sunshine who doesn’t give a fuck, but he looks pointedly at Louis
Zayn Malik just sips his drink and minds his own business probably thinking at the good fuck he will have with his bandmate Liam Payne
AND THEN THERE’S MY FAVE, SIR LOUIS FUCKING TOMLINSON WHO DOESN’T EVEN BOTHER TO HIDE HIS DISGUST AND HE’S JUST “NOPE. NOPE. I DON’T GIVE TWO FUCKS ABOUT THIS LITTLE BITCH, IF SHE DIES I DON’T EVEN BAT AN EYELASH”. I LOVE HIM AND I WANT TO KEEP HIM.
“If men got periods/got pregnant such and such would happen” no you’re wrong. You see, some men do get periods/get pregnant. Trans men exist and a lot of us have periods and can get pregnant. The thing is, society doesn’t care about us because even though we’re men, we’re still trans. I’m sure that if cishet white abled men got periods/could get pregnant, then yeah pads/tampons would probably be free, there would be no question about abortion rights, etc. but you can express those sentiments without implying that no men ever have periods/get pregnant.
Some advice to anyone out there who binds: if you are growing/gaining weight or might grow/gain weight in the future (like, if you have a tendency to gain weight or are attempting to gain weight) if you are able to, buy an extra binder a size up. Don’t wait until you’ve outgrown your binder and feel like it’s gonna break your ribs and then order one and have to wait another week until it gets delivered.