lots of pink hair

So last night, myself and another girl were asked to leave a D&D game, before it even started, because the DM (another woman) didn’t like how we looked. Both of us were made up, hair done, cute outfits, with a lot of pink D&D accessories. She assumed we were very “feminine” so that we could flirt with all the guy players, and try to get advantages, or distract them. We were told we had to change into “normal” clothes (t-shirts or sweatshirts), and “uncake our faces”. We both left but became really good friends really quickly afterward.

I talked about this in a few select social media places after it happened, and something unexpected started when I woke up this morning. A lot of women had contacted me with stories of similar things, from both male and female DMs. It’s now 1:30PM here, and I’ve talked to 29 women, all with their own experiences that all fell under this particular umbrella.

Their experiences included:

- Being talked to like they’re a bimbo by everyone at the table.
- Having one or more guys at a table want to “help them” play, despite having even more game experience than they did.
- Being blatantly ignored by other female players.
- Having their character hit on endlessly by most of a table.
- Being hit on themselves, despite saying “no thank you” or showing obvious disinterest.
- Being touched a lot, either on the arm, shoulder, back, or in more inappropriate places by male gamers.
- Being told they’re “trying too hard to be a woman”, included trans women being told this by other women.
- Having the DM solely target their character in battles and with traps, after turning the DM down for a date or affection, and not stopping until the character is dead.
- Having it insisted upon them that they have to change their “girly” dice, bags, binders, clothing, etc to “fit in”.
- Being told they aren’t a “real nerd”, “real gamer”, “real geek”, “real fan” because they don’t fit the “look” — this is the most common one I heard.
- Being told by a table full of guys that their below-10 roll was in fact “rolling like a girl”.
- And of course, the “gold digger” argument. That a woman who glams herself up before a game is clearly only hunting for the nerdy guy who also makes a lot of money, and who is pretending to like these things to get at his bank account. 12 separate women told me this one, each of them were kicked out of their games with this being the explanation. None of them dated or flirted with anyone at the table at any point.

The common theme here was that all of these were public play games, either at gaming stores, or at conventions. You have to sit at a table with people you don’t know, and one would expect at least common human decency here, but instead this sort of thing happens. It’s not okay for people to be treated this way by anyone, for any reason, and I was mortified by the sheer amount of women coming forward to share in such a short period of time.

So I worked away at this picture, as I express myself in really dumb fashion sketches. 

It’s the club jacket for our Glam Girl Gamer Gang. 

Girls of all types, from all backgrounds, all sizes, all places in life deserve to be respected as a fellow player. THIS INCLUDES ALL GIRLS WHO LIKE “STEREOTYPICALLY FEMININE” THINGS.

IT IS FUCKING 2017 WHY IS THIS STILL AN ISSUE YOU DINGBATS

All of the things I feel inside my beating heart feed my head lies…  

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John Constantine in every Legends episode: The Good, The Bad and The Cuddly (3x18)

“Oh, I need a word with you sorry lot. Now whose brilliant idea was it to let an ancient demon out of his bloody cage? Sara’s. Well, you opened a door, love. And Mallus wasn’t the only thing that got out.’”

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BTS Jimin Pink/Magenta Hair Wallpapers💕

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Pictures NOT mine | Cr: rightful owners of photos

Note: sorry for taking a while on the requests. I decided to do this first since lots of people were requesting jimin with pink hair. I hope I can start doing requests quicker soon :)

new hairstyles!

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180701; #HappyEunwooDay

Merle's  inspired by @selkie-elf’s cosplay, this sock  bothered me to draw it since i saw it!
  [ID:  Merle, Taako and Angus. Merle is a fat dwarf wearing colorful clothing and pink glasses. He has a lot of flowers in his hair and flower-attracted bugs flying around. Behind him, Taako, elf with green skin is shielding Angus’s eyes. Angus is a small boy with dark skin and fancy clothes. Taako is wearing even fancier clothes and a fanny pack. Taako’s face is full of disgust as he tries to spray the bugs with a can of bug spray . end id]
thanks for id to kuutti as well!