hi uh please stop messaging people with asks like “can we be friends”
because let me tell u: that rarely works
u wanna be friends w a popular writer/artist? well first step back and look at why u wanna be friends w them because if ur doing it for the exposure or bc u wanna me friends w one persons More Popular friends - fuck off!
if u wanna be friends bc they seem cool or because u have things in common? cool! send them asks off anon or message them if they’re comfortable w it
but also if ur message/ask involves endless praise and self-deprecation, consider the following:
don’t send it