look at these tags i am a terrible person

Dear fellow Shance shippers

First and foremost, I love you all so much. the fan art is absolutely beautiful, as well as the wonderful stories and headcanons that you all share. I love our fandom so much. You are all so talented and so very kind.

But I can’t help but feel terrible because of how underrated this wonderful ship is. It honestly hurts to think about. The whole fandom knows that Klance is “the favorite”, as Tyler Labine said in one of the panels, or whatever. And Sheith is the second most favorite… I am personally so tired of seeing those two while I scroll through the Voltron tag.

I am also tired from Klance and Sheith shippers asking why we ship Shance since “they don’t even interact much in the show.” Maybe so, but so what? The whole concept of Lance looking up to his hero is something I find very intriguing and just very significant, and I want to know more about why he says so. Also in the first episode of season one, when they shook hands Shiro said, “Lance, right?” Did anyone ever stop and think, “Wait, how did he remember Lance’s name when Pidge introduced “himself” (at the time) and Hunk to Shiro?“

Shipping Shance is honestly such a struggle because all we can do is hope that they can interact some more in upcoming seasons. I know it sounds like I’m complaining, but really, if they could just interact some more, I would be so freaking happy. Just give me some new content. Let Shiro witness a more serious side of Lance, and praise him for it.

Lance is a very insecure person, as we all know, but if Shiro gave him the slightest bit of encouragement, he would feel more determined and ready to accomplish anything. I have a headcanon that Lance goes to Shiro to talk about whatever concerns he has, whether it’s about missing his family or not feeling important to the team, Shiro knows what to say. And in the episode “Crystal Venom” from season one, Lance was very concerned for Shiro spacing out for a moment before he left to help Coran clean the cryopods. And let us not forget about that iconic episode in season one when Shiro was tending to an unconscious Lance and placed him gently to the side as he was soon facing Sendak to fight him hand-to-hand before Haxus made Shiro submit when he revealed that Lance was within his grasp. Shiro’s worried expression says it all.

They really care about each other. Yes, they may not interact very much, but it’s the little things; their actions. Their facial expressions.

All I’m saying is, Shance deserves a chance.

anonymous asked:

Hello! I've started to really fall in love with the RickMorty ship, but the more I look through the tags, the more negative content I see about being a terrible person for liking it and saying that I'm a pedophile and fan of child porn IRL... this really hurts, and I would never be a part of those things, considering fiction to being different to real life. Like I wouldn't actually date a forbidden lover in real life even if it wasn't incest or shit like that, so am I still bad? Please help me.

Hi, anon! Thanks for the message.

No, you’re absolutely not bad for just liking a ship!

Shipping in general, in my opinion, is just a safe and harmless way to explore feelings, themes or scenarios through FICTIONAL characters – and these sometimes include things, which I would NEVER want to see, or experience, or condone in real life!! These are simply hypothetical scenarios, which make us think and see the world around us from a different point of view, but which we would never act out in real life.

I do not, never ever, support things like child abuse; just the mere thought of it makes me sick to my stomach. Which is also the case with you, anon; We can distinguish reality from fiction, just like everybody should.

This ship in particular is extremely problematic; I don’t try to deny that, or even want to deny it. There are many aspects of this ship, and depictions of situations in the fandom, that I personally am not at all comfortable with (like underage stuff; I prefer all characters as 18+) – but I have the maturity to know my own boundaries: I can choose what I see, and the content I consume. And I expect the same from other people; everyone is responsible for their OWN media experience on this site!

EVERYBODY is entitled to their own opinion. People have the right to dislike and hate a ship, just as much as other people who love it have the right to continue liking it! (But if someone threatens / suicide baits others simply because they dislike a fictional ship – that is absolutely condemnable and disgusting behaviour.) Just block the things you don’t want to see, and get on with your life. That’s what I do!

Here are some posts that explain these things so much better than I ever can: [X], [X], [X], [X], [X]. I totally agree with all of them!

I hope I could ease your mind at least a little bit, anon! :) Continue to do what you love, and welcome to the fandom! <3

sorry about the awful messiness of this but i had a bad night and needed to draw something before i vibrated out of my skin :)

will as sally from the nightmare before christmas, i guess?? with a cheerful skeleton dog?? i tried to draw something happy but it ended up spooky bc that is who i am as a person (also i’m too lazy to look at pose refs sorry for the bad anatomy is that what dog skeletons look like ;__;)

Mal’s Post-Con Writeup

Welp, BronyCon’s behind us now and about a year till it rolls back around again. I had good times, spent time with good people, and ate too much good food. All in all, pretty fantastic.

This was the first year I drove up. I had a pal with me so that was pretty great. We talked a ton on the way up and the way back. It took longer to get back home than it did to get up there; gotta love construction! Whee. I’ll probably try and drive in the future, too. It’s over all cheaper plus I can be available to offer car services to pals that need it. Win win and all that.

I spent the majority of my time at the con helping out with @dshou and @kawaiipony2 at their vending table. I really hope I was of some use. I tore up my throat a good bit trying to hail people on over to the booth and sell as much as possible. Tried to envision myself as Recette from Recettear I suppose. Capitalism ho! I got a slightly discounted badge for my efforts so that was nice. I hope they did well over all and I enjoyed the experience of trying to sell merchandise. Maybe I can try and sell some of my own someday. It’s not as terrifying as I had worried it might be.

It was super to spend time with a number of people from here and/or Discord. Some merely in passing and others a bit more. It was great seeing you all! And thank ya to @piratedashmod, @phoenixswift, @raeligath, @whatsapokemon, @tallaferroxiv, @pich-un, @minimummums, @runestrokedraws, @input-command@ciy-e, @xbndx, @dshou, @kawaiipony2, and anyone else I’m forgetting for spending some time with me and chatting and such. I really do appreciate it more than I can perhaps get across here. I also got to briefly re-meet @tambelon and meet @askscribbly. We didn’t really interact much but ya seem to be pretty okay people. There was another person in your group that I don’t think I even caught the name of. Apologies for not being more personable! I tried to stay more outgoing but am far from perfect in that regard. And I’m terrible with names, so there’s that too.

Anyhoo, it was a great time and I hope I wasn’t too odious or obnoxious to those I got to meet. I tried to not be at least if that counts! I’m sad to have it behind me, just like every year, but I’m very much looking forward to the next and hope to see more of you there!

thanks to @trashlordess

Rule 1: Tag 9 people you would like to know

Rule 2: Bold the statements that are true.

I am 5’ 7" or taller
I wear glasses
I have at least one tattoo
I have at least one piercing ( I have my ears pierced. )
I have blonde hair ( I want black. )
I have brown eyes
I have short hair ( It depends honestly, I mostly have long. )
My abs are at least somewhat defined
I have or have had braces

I love meeting new people ( I’m just pretty cold at first offline. Otherwise I’m a potato. )
People tell me that I’m funny ( People laugh at my tags all the time. )
Helping others with their problems is a big priority for me ( I’m told I’m like a therapist. )
I enjoy physical challenges
I enjoy mental challenges
I’m playfully rude with people I know well ( HELLA! )
There is something I would change about my personality ( I’d change a lot honestly. )

I can sing well 
I can play an instrument  ( The piano. )
I can do over 30 pushups without stopping
I’m a fast runner
I can draw well ( I’d say decent. )
I have a good memory ( I freaking remember things from when I was like a year old. )
I’m good at doing math in my head
I can hold my breath underwater for over a minute
I have beaten at least 2 people in arm wrestling ( Back when I was in school. )
I know how to cook at least 3 meals from scratch
I know how to throw a proper punch ( Believe it or not, I fight people pretty often where I live. )

I enjoy playing sports
I enjoy arts ( Drawing and such is pretty fun for me. )
I’m on a sports team at my school or somewhere else
I’m in an orchestra or choir at my school or somewhere else
I have learned a new song in the past week
I work out at least once a week
I have drawn something in the past month ( I drew a picture of Shinya. )
I do or have done martial arts ( Pow pow, Imma fight! )

I have had my first kiss
I have had alcohol
I have scored the winning goal in a sports game
I have watched an entire season of a TV show in one sitting ( Not a TV show but an anime. I actually don’t watch TV. )
I have been at an overnight event
I have been in a taxi
I have been in the hospital or ER in the past year ( Sadly yes, because I have so many illnesses that you wouldn’t believe me if I named them all. )
I have beaten a video game in one day ( Lollipop Chainsaw! )
I have visited another country
I have been to one of my favorite band’s concerts

I’m in a relationship
I have a crush on a celebrity
I have a crush on someone ( They know who they are too. )
I have never been in a relationship 
I have asked someone out or admitted my feelings to them ( More than once. )
I get crushes easily ( Heck yes. )
I have had a crush on someone for over a year ( I still have that crush and it’s been two years. )
I have been in a relationship for at least a year ( Almost twice but that last one didn’t work out very well. )
I have had feelings for a friend ( Almost always. )

I have at least one person I consider a best friend ( Yes, thank god. )
I live close to my school ( My old school anyway. )
I have at least one sibling ( Bro, I have two. )
I live in the United States ( Where else would I be? This is the only place I’ve ever been. )
There is snow right now where I live
I have hung out with a friend in the past month
I have a smartphone
I have at least 15 CDs ( I have more that fifteen. )
I share my room with someone ( My little sister and her dog Morgan. Sometimes my dog Shelby joins us. )

I have break-danced
I know a person named Jamie ( TEDDY WHERE YOU AT?! )
I have dyed my hair ( Red, Auburn, Purple, Bleach Blond, too many freaking times. )
I’m listening to one song on repeat right now ( I almost always do this. )
I have punched someone in the past week ( Shout out to that chick down on Austin who wanted to start a fight with me. )
I know someone who has gone to jail ( Hello almost all of my family. Hello from outside the bars~ That was terrible, please slap me. )
I have broken a bone ( Hello toes on both feet, excluding my big toes. )
I have eaten a waffle today
I know what I want to do with my life

I’m gonna tag: @ichinose-yuki, @tatsu-rose-bathory, @luminosita, @elyon-kurae, @childoflegend, @saigo-no-utahime, @korosukoto, @laneeyatheredroyal

I was tagged by @coldbears forever ago but i am a Terrible person and didnt,,, better late than never ;) ((thanks for tagging me tho dude :D))

rules: tag 20 followers you want to get to know better

name: Ellie,,, which is technically short for Elinor but only my mother calls me that ((and my flatmate when im being an arse))
nickname: Oh theres so many,,, technically ellie is one - i rly like Harry as nicknames go….. also known as Eli, You, Smellie (ik original right) and Aspie….thanks mum
gender: see im fairly sure this isnt meant to be a trick question but…. if anyone does kno the answer pls gimme a shout id love to know
star sign: Pisces, AKA, the fish one
height: 5″7andahalf′,, that half an inch means a lOt to me. ((171cm))
sexuality: also a very good question,, let me work out the gender thing first n ill get back to you on this one
hogwarts house: Slyyythhheerrrin, fight me
favorite animal: giraffes! i love those long-necked bastards
average hours of sleep: Many (i sleep to avoid my problems)
dogs or cats: BOTH
blankets you sleep with: I recently got a new BB8 duvet cover to prove im an adult now. also: a massive purple blanket,,, but thats shoved to the side because radiate a ridiculous amount of heat at all times
dream trip: I am gunna go bouncing around europe with @therealmoni at some point ((hopefully over summer)) and then maybe one day we’ll go to the americas
dream job: im gunna be a comedian,, or i want to be….the ultimate goal is to set up a daily show-esque programme here in the UK,,,,, i feel like we could really do with one
when I made my blog: which one?? well,, this one i suppose….forever and ever ago god its been years,,,, i feel like it was probably 2012
followers: 851 holy shit,,,i shud check that more often…. shout out to everyone who puts up with me
why I made my tumblr: im gunna pin this on a friend who talked me into it i reckon
reason for my url: i was bored of the last one? i was originally owls-in-a-submarine which was a john finnemore reference but,,, idrk tbh….. i know the vampire bit is bcus mum always compared me to one but the submerged??? maybe it was a throwback to my original one…

i’d like to tag: some people,,, uh, obviously @therealmoni and then @demigod-sherlock-jr @clusterfuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck @getschwfty because they Know Me …. as does @findingfranmo, @toumeya @weallinthistogether ,, my lil sis @waverlyrp because im sure she doesnt want to…… how manys that? 8? and i need 20?? bloody hell ok,,,, um @mrs-don-draper @nahrky @ellayouneedtostudy @aestheticbywesanderson @flymeontoneverland @kingscunt @stoic-by-nature @holistic-cinnamon-roll …..ok fuck it 16 is enough… god i need to make more friends….

anonymous asked:

When you get this, respond with five things that make you happy. Then send to the last ten people in your notifications anonymously

@transcoranic @codell @spared-sans @pacifistanomaly @whimsicalitywheee @ask-contrastsans @horror-bear @underfellfellasblog @doragon-san @notyourmemily @softspoken-healer @sweetsaltysimper  @bonelypandabuns @hard-bittcn @gurrent200  @mushroomxlord @smolternity @slagginbitch @instantlysassytastemaker @thestarsareinfinite @talkcummingtome @loki-stole-my-pony @spangefuckr @floatingspaceflower @pinkie-toe @never-run-when-you-are-scared @catfoxfurry  @fhetabulous-fumbduck @thetomface @sadistic-stylist @taleasoldastime-andspace  @jupiter235 @gettingwhatigive @ankewehner @gleefully-macabre @thycora @moss-flowers-trees @le0lestrange @pascal-sole @ondayslikethesefuku @humanityinahandbag @yes-going-on-an-adventure @aceoverlord @skirlillo @dontdreamit-behim @dainesanddaffodils @hearses-and-heresy @librarydrone @felitheemoitaliannation @the-amalgamaker @levele3 @pereprinthings @tellcosy  @magically-strange @euphonium-heartbreaker  @pastapap-archived @thatfencerdude @cbiscuitblog @suckmylit @knights-of-ben-solo @smallybells @jaegereska  @asexualallura @sophaoat  @mtndewangel @erikstrueangel @dancesonmoonlight @swan-creek @my-badgerpride @frootilla @endorathewitchwriter  @abutterflyobsession @ammazolie @firemama @instantlysassytastemaker @blaiddsumu @freakwithsharpies @floatingspaceflower @bonelypandabuns @suzie-guru @blucbcrry @sansationalmoves @ketchupguzzler @k-o-y-o-l-archived @saxabones  @mobfellpapy @inthesequietmoments @underfellfellasblog @doragon-san @sweetsaltysimper  @freyamaat  @tdutchartist @pastapap-archived @willmod4munny @sadisticsentry66  @cerinthesilversoul  @the-wanderers-tales @cruelskeleton95  @crazymuff1n @dogrude-sansstorm  @ladyknightlost @le0lestrange @smolternity @mr-matches-malone @tea-sans @slagginbitch @ammazolie @thestarsareinfinite @thegrinningkitten @purpleundertalemom  @muskka @rainbowchibbit  @bunny-king @missauthorette @zufpapyrus  @poubelle-squelette @hiimtryingtounderfell  @autumn-leaves-falling @kell0x  @horrortale @fitofpaige @knights-of-ben-solo  @randomfandomtrashheap  @ondayslikethesefuku @librarydrone @levele3  @pikuna @violatheviolinist @tellcosy  @euphonium-heartbreaker @magically-strange  @capnhanbers @firemama-archived @smallybells @gettingwhatigive  @not-poignant @sansoftimeandspace  @mifs-chan @mtndewangel  @tevlek @ive-been-mistreated @deluxetrashqueen @iwanttomeetdavidbowie @sauntervaguelydown @joons @humanityinahandbag @pereprinthings  @todisturbtheuniverse @dancesonmoonlight  @thealeksdemon @sophaoat  @rosewaterwitch @goldwerewolf  @my-badgerpride @frootilla @chronic-altitis  @bifacialler @whimsicalitywheee

The reason you’ve all been tagged is because no lie is because you make me happy. I’m really sorry to bug but its the truth.

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Okay so I’m the pickiest person ever I went through like 3 or 4 different pairs and didn’t like any of them so I gave up. Here, have a throwback of when I discovered that my hair looks somewhat fluffy with this filter.

i was tagged by @festiveromanoff to post 2 selfies and tag 10 people….ty babes<3

i tag: @thenightmarebeforebucky @fvckingavengers @downfallofusall @justareader @jollybarnes @jollytomholland @claraoswan @wintergodesskisa @lucekage @byerwill

I am so pissed off now. That just pisses me off. okay my friend was looking at the san japan tag and there is this blog who took pictures of peoplein the cosplay, and they looks amazing, but this people wrote SOME VERY MEAN THINGS! like no! you don’t say those things about people and their cosplay! Their blog is nastycosplay.tumblr.com/ You don’t fucking do that. that fucking make me mad and pissed off. why would someone think that is funny because it is not. All those cosplayrs looks amazing in their cosplays. If that person said anything about you or someone you know cosplays, please do not let them make you feel bad, they are a terrible person and i am so sorry that that person has a sick mind to do that.

So, just like I’ve been telling everyone, I met Billie Piper. And now, seen that I can’t stop staring thinking about it, I’m gonna write everything here because I’m still not over it.

I bought the day ticket for Great Britain because the normal ones costed too much for me and I didn’t even know when I would be able to go to theatre during that week.

So I watched the show, freaked out in silence, and basically got out of the theatre trying not to cry because, you know, I’d seen Billie Piper. (And Great Britain is amazing.)

We went to the stage door and stayed there for more than an hour, even if after a while I thought she was already gone. 

It was late, and we didn’t know when the last train for our house was, so we went away. I asked my dad if we could go to the front of the theatre cause he’d said that side of the Thames was beautiful at night (and I still hoped for a miracle if we could wait just a few more minutes).

And the miracle happened. We were walking towards the station when I saw Billie on the other side of the street. Well, I actually saw this blonde woman who wore a pair of shorts I remembered from a picture. And I was like “Is she her?” and my dad obviously couldn’t tell. And then she turned. 

“Oh my god, it’s her.”

And this is the story of how i invaded Billie Piper’s personal space before realizing it. (But she laughed and hugged me and asked if I’d had a good time and where I am from and she even let me take a picture with my phone too I’m just dead.)

And I know I look terrible in the picture but ughh I don’t care.

Unfriendly environments

(long post, I apologize for the incoherence)

This is a plead to those who insist on calling Amedot abusive. But also to the Amedot shippers I see as well, who retaliate and call other ships abusive with recklessness and try to undermine others’ ships. 

If you are going to criticize a ship, before you call it abusive and give it the blanket condemnation you feel it deserves, please consider: are you trying to raise awareness of dangerous behaviors? Seek prevention? Looking out for the best interest of everyone, for a sort of public health? Seeking to ultimately promote and create healthy relationships? 

I would like to think that everyone who is against a ship and will call it ‘abusive’, that they have at least good intentions at heart. They want others to be aware, to be safe, to be happy. They are worried about depictions and influence of negative behaviors.

So that if one truly believes that, they would also not try to create a stressful environment through relentless posts about how a ship is bad, or disgusting, or abusive, insulting the shippers, posting in the tag, and in general being a bit of a menace. An unfriendly environment that can be hurtful. 

I started this Amedot blog in October 2015, after Too Far premiered. It was supposed to be a simple side-blog for me to reblog Amedot posts, but then I grew invested in it. 

2015 was a weird year for me, as I wallowed in clinical depression and anxiety, trying to find a way to recover. Having something to focus on, something to look forward to, even if it was a silly shipping blog, helped a lot. For once I had purpose, I had ideas, I eventually mustered up energy. So this blog, this ship, the show Steven Universe, means a lot to me. 

It’s not really fun to log into tumblr and be scared of receiving hate messages, dread looking in the tags, wary of checking notes for fear that someone decided to make fun of your post. It’s actually very stressful. 

In having Generalized Anxiety Disorder, I worry about everything, regardless of whether it’s important or rational, and the worry is uncontrollable. Things I like, things I don’t like, I would ruminate on and on, all the time, unable to stop, my heart and lungs and thoughts in a frenzy, and I drive myself into exhaustion. 

Whenever people continuously send asks and tags posts about why it’s a terrible ship, that it’s ‘abusive’, with the implication that the shippers are terrible/pathetic people, with taunts that we’re kidding ourselves about it having any basis in canon, it only adds to the never-ending thoughts. 

Amedot and this blog, which I had found comfort and healing in, can become an anxiety-inducing hell: Is it abusive? Am I condoning toxic behavior? Am I a bad person? Am I looking too much into things? Looking not enough? If it can’t be canon, am I wasting my time? If I think it has a chance of being canon, am I deluding myself? What else have I been deluding myself with?

As someone who is going into public health and the medical field, this is relevant to me.

There is always room for criticism and discussion of mistakes or negative behavior. But that should come from a place of compassion and the desire to help. There is nothing about Amedot or other Steven Universe ships that warrants accusations of abuse, that warrants insults and vilification and hate. When you contribute to that, even if you had start from a place of caring, you contribute to a hostile environment that can be extremely stressful to others, and harmful to their health.

In being shippers, that means we hope for love. That means we care. And I hope that we care enough to extend that care to others. 


@amedotisdisgusting, I extend the olive branch. I apologize for anytime I had inadvertently hurt you and shitted on your ships.