If a friend or loved one gets passionate about something you find trivial or just isn’t up your alley… don’t interrupt them to change the subject abruptly. Don’t cut off their excitement. They’re sharing it with you, and it’s a big deal in a little way. It’s something they love and they trust you to at least be open to hearing about it so you too can enjoy it, or at the very least be an audience to their enthusiasm.
I’m not saying humor them. I’m saying listen, enjoy their little geek outs, and be honest about your lack of care for the subject without crushing their care for it.
Me, a chick that feels strongly about trivial geeky things and just got railroaded by a loved one mid-share, who also already has a hard time not regretting sharing herself with others.
Next time you listen to I Will Survive just picture a salty Jason Todd passionately singing it and shooting Bruce A Look after every line:
“At first I was afraid, I was petrified kept thinking I could never live without you by my side, Bruce.“ “But then I spent so many nights thinking how you did me wrong and I grew strong,Bruce.” “Go on now, go, walk out that door! Just turn around now cause you’re not welcome anymore,Bruce.“ “Did you think I’d crumple? Did you think I’d lay down and die? Oh no, not I! I will survive,Bruce.”
ARIES: Open for trying almost anything. Passionate. Get bored easily of same thing - want to constantly try new things, don’t like to get stuck in a rut. Spontaneous. Can be a bit selfish. Intense. Get impatient with too much foreplay.
TAURUS: All about pleasing their lover. Sensual. Pay particular attention to the senses - in particular touch. Romance. High sex drives. Hate teasing.
GEMINI: Into dirty talk or a stimulating conversation that leads to sex. Laughter and playfulness. Great kissers. Open to role play and threesomes.
CANCER: They make love. Want to be close to their partner. Eye contact. Lots of cuddles. Emotional. Slow and romantic. Want to connect. Get attached easily.
LEO: Love to look good during sex. Pays attention to finer details - lingerie, candles etc. Passionate. Get lost in the moment. Devotion. Want to impress.
VIRGO: Wants to be perfect for their partner. Open minded, but their want for perfection can hinder them. Critical of themselves. Pure. Focusses on partner. Submissive.
LIBRA: Love compliments and flattery. Sweet talk. Suckers for romance. Want to be wined and dined. Playful. Want balance - give and take. Setting is important.
SCORPIO: Rulers of sex. Intense and passionate. Emotional connections. High sex drive. Know how to satisfy themselves. Dominant.
SAGITTARIUS: Want sex to be fun. Laughter. Can be selfish, focus on self. To the point. Sex on the beach. Open minded. Mile high club.
CAPRICORN: Missionary. Know what they want. Consistent. Cold and lack of passion when not in love. Private about what happens beneath the sheets.
AQUARIUS: Want to constantly try new things. Open minded. Hates routine. Experimentation. Lack of emotions. Sex is unlikely connected to love.
PISCES: Transcendence. Gets off on partner getting off. Emotional. Have a lot of fantasies. Open communication. Make love. High sex drive
[TRANS] non-no Magazine 2017 Aug Issue - THIS IS HIM
RAP MONSTER is…
from SUGA “One of my favorite people among all the people I’ve met in my life, our reliable leader. He’s an artist who has been doing music ever since he was young so I get a lot of positive influence from him as we work together.”
from JUNGKOOK “Someone who does what he has to do till the very end at where he is.. He’s a cool hyung with a lot to learn from. He knows I’m working hard on composing music so he teaches me many things very kindly.”
from RAP MONSTER “The members’ hyung who went to a cafe together with me before debut, talked with me for a long time and gave me advice. He keeps fooling around with dad jokes recently, but Jin-hyung’s really cool when he’s serious! (laughs)”
from JIMIN “We spend a lot of time together playing games. I still remember we bought each other’s game console about 1 hour before we headed to Japan and played in our free time even after arriving. His skill is… one level above me?(laughs)”
from JIN “Lamb skewers, furniture, goods… He’s interested in a lot of things but when he goes shopping, he only buys music equipments. This is an exclusive information only I, his roommate, knows.”
from V “Yoongi-hyung’s really interested in Japanese lately so I often see him studying hard. And I think the way and the things he talks about have become more interesting than before. (laughs)”
from SUGA “A kind guy that energizes me by my side when I’m tired. I once carried Hobi to the infirmary when he collapsed back in trainee days. He doesn’t like talking about it but… I talked about it already. (laughs)”
from JIN “He’s into shoes and slippers so Hobi has the most shoes in our dorm. Oh right, I gave him a cute pair of shoes for his birthday this year and he wore it to Japan, so I was very happy. (laughs)”
from J-hope “His broad back is attractive! And he has a special sleeping habit, he often makes sad sounds (whimpers) when sleeping. Even though when he wakes up and I ask “Did you have a nightmare?”, he says “I don’t remember”. (laughs)”
from V “He’s so shy when talking in Japanese or English that even I can feel it looking at him. He looks really cute like that. I don’t know if it’s because of the effect of makeup (laughs) but he became really cool!”
from RAP MONSTER “Good-looking face and skilled at performing. Furthermore, his passion for making good music is twice as strong as others. I think he doesn’t show it that much, but I hope many people would know he has that (passion for making music) inside.”
from JUNGKOOK “We fight sometimes but he’s like a friend who often fools around with me. Last time we promised to go to Jeju Island together but eventually couldn’t because of my personal matter… We’re close so we’ll plan again some time soon (laughs)!”
from J-HOPE “A member with stronger desire to improve for music and dancing than others, but sometimes he also has the cute maknae-like side like a spoilt baby. I have to use my strength when I hug him since he’s tall, so I can sleep well. (laughs)”
from JIMIN “The maknae who works harder since he was young than any of the members. He’s the same age as my real brother so I look after him well, but at some point he has started to feel like my real brother. Whatever he does, he’s cute.”