He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.
Let me tell you about the most amazing experience i ever had.
It all started back in 2006 when I bought Taylor Swift first CD and immediately felt this connection with her though her music.
Unfortunately, and since i was still at school it was not until 2013 that my dream of going to one of her shows became true.
There was this boy i met back on our school days (late 2008) we were friends for a long time and talked casually at school parties, nothing out of ordinary, until later when i was facing a difficult time of my life (2012), this boy appeared again all grown up now (since by that time we were already working and everything) and asked me out! I really wasn’t in the mood for dating but there was something different about him that made me feel secure and calm so I decided to be fearless and take my chances.
On may 25 2013 and after several dates, this boy asked me out into an special date OH YEAH he invited me to Taylor’s Red Tour at Dallas Texas, that night was flawless!! My first Taylor Swift concert after 7 years of listening to her music and being a huge fan!!! What was unexpected about that night was that he asked me to be his girlfriend at the concert and it really was a fairytale.
Through the months I realized I loved him for quite some time so I stayed I stayed stayed with him and unexpectedly on november 29th and with long live as musical background he popped the question!!!
I will skip until the part in which we got married!! March 13 2015 using Love Story as our wedding theme (#pjlovestory in case you’re wondering), sparks truly flew all over the place and it was the best night never would forget how we moved, the whole place was dressed to the nines, and we were dancing...
For our honey moon, he designed an special route for us, visited Taylor’s apartment in NYC and Begin Again locations at Paris, we even went on Wednesday to the caffe and watch it begin again!!!
After all of this awesomeness, we got into our Mr and Mrs Fox costumes and went to Taylor’s 1989 tour at LA (August 26 2015) and San Diego (August 29 2015). Also made some time and visited TS Grammy experience at LA. The whole experience was awesome, but even though we tried really hard making our posters and costumes we weren’t able to make it to Loft 89.
When we got back home, i found out about a contest and immediately enrolled into it, after a month of delivering flyers and with my husbands help we made it!!! I won a trip to 1989 Tour at Miami!!!! I was so sad since it was the first TS show i was going without my boy, but he was really happy for me and helped me with a new costume and also with a letter just in case I made it to the Loft this time.
It was until the day of the concert ( October 27th) that i was told i was going to meet Taylor Swift!!!!
My life stopped for a moment and i called my husband on that very moment, he was so excited, i was shocked in tears i didn’t even knew what i was going to told her!! I finally put myself together & it started with a long line of people at Loft 89 waiting for Taylor!! I was able to meet Mamma Swift!!!! She’s the sweetest mom on earth she was with a group of backstage fans and made time to come and say Hi to us waiting for Taylor Swift :)!!!
When I had my time with Taylor!! (Note i was truly shaking almost died on the process) I was able to quickly describe all of my #PJlovestory she looked so excited and happy she congratulated me for my marriage and also adored the costume my husband and I planned, i left her my letter (hopefully she saw it by now!!!). She gave me a huge hug!! And i was so nervous i didn’t even posed for the picture. I thanked her for her music and for being my biggest inspiration since 2006 when i first connected with her lyrics. She really is the person i always imagined!! I was enchanted to met her !!
I have this thing for looking at both of the facial expression of the people while they’re hugging in my efforts of realizing if it’s an honest hug, and guess what!!! while watching Taylor met other fans i really felt her happy for meting us and sincere about how she feels!!! This made me extremely happy!! You know as a fan there’s always a little fear of realizing your biggest inspiration is not who you think it is, but this WAS NOT the case. I left the Loft being more swiftie than ever!!!
I know this is a huge post, but i really wanted to share the before and after meeting Taylor Swift!!!
Now i’m back at home and the lesson for me and my husband it’s:
Don’t you dream impossible dreams (Starlight, Album: RED)
There’s really nothing you can’t achieve if you go for it, thank you @taylorswift@taylornationonline @taylornation for making me believe dreamswildest dreams do come true!