lols people are unfollowing me because of this

anonymous asked:

lol hey I started most of the discourse here. and I'm here to say that I will not do it again and i will likely unfollow you soon. I'm sorry for the shit ive caused and you will never hear from me again. hopefully no more shitty people such as myself ever go to your blog ever again. you are very sweet and i mostly started shit because i was unhappy w/ my life. again hopefully no other miserable discourse person comes along to bug you and i am truly very sorry.

aaaaaa i mean i appreciate the apology? the damage is still done but an apology is always nice

i’m legit surprised you either were or are still following me though omg

tbh i dont follow a lot of people in the ccs fandom, and had to unfollow a lot of people i DID follow because of the Syaoran is bi discourse that started (probs by me LOL) a while back. 

I feel like a lot of people in the fandom ship syaosaku so hard (trust me, i do too) that they REFUSE to believe that syaoran is bi because they believe it will get in the way of their precious ship. Nah, people who are bi date people of a diff gender and are still bi lmao. Clamp is known for making their characters queer. Syaoran canonically had a crush on yukito. a lot of people use the “but it was explained, he was attracted to his magic” but listen: syaoran didnt seem to have any problem being attracted to another guy. He spent the first arc of the series crushing on a guy!!! let syaoran be bi!!!

I wanted to participate to  #TonyswithThomas (thank you @thatsthat24​) because I love to sing and Broadway’s songs too and it’s just so nice to see everyone sharing their performance :)   So here we go////////

This is a short version of Not while I’m around from Sweeney Todd & a cappela, I always loved this song, and I think that those days, it’s important to protect the people we care about <3

Also forgive my face and my super french accent *die of embarrassment*

💕 Thank You 💕

Thank you for sticking with me so far ;v;! I know a lot of you followed me because of Kylux and Techienician. (It’s not that i don’t love them but my interest do change from time to time. I know once Episode 8 come back in December i’ll probably draw them more.)

But right now my ships are simply rare? Lol and more toward Star Wars Rebels characters..(Lyste, Zeb, Kallus, Thrawn..etc). So i won’t get offend if you need to unfollow me because of that. But for those who stay, thank you. Thank you for the reblogs, likes, and simple talking to me ;v;. (I’m very timid and get anxious a lot but i really do like talking to people.)

What can i say…Thrawn is a big fan too. Veers hold him back!


New blogs to follow?

Yoooo I really need new people to follow but am truly afraid of just following on a whim because like, there’s just so much shit on my dash nowadays that leads me to ultimately unfollowing people


If you post 2 or more of the following:

Dragon Age (specifically Cullen, Dorian, Fenris and Sera)
Elder Scrolls (specifically Skyrim/Oblivion)
Mass Effect: Andromeda
Disney (Just…anything really lol)
Dreamworks (I love HTTYD and Prince of Egypt :D)
LotR/The Hobbit
Star Wars
Cute animals (i.e. hedgehogs and dogs, possibly baby hippos)
Positivity posts for life/positivity in general

Maybe give this a like or reblog and I’ll check you out? :3

HOWEVER if you’re a person that constantly reblogs or makes character/game/ship critical posts or negative shit or politics or anything questionable DO NOT BOTHER. Seriously. Stay under your bridge.

anonymous asked:

Hello! I honestly love the memes that you post, but your blog is filled with just asks all the time, it makes it kind of boring to go through all those asks to get to a meme :/ and my dashboard gets filled with your answers to your asks all the time So I'm going to have to unfollow you sorry... maybe you shouldn't answer all of them? Like skip at least the ones that only say "hey" and reply privately to those that aren't anon

I mean this reply in the nicest way but it low key triggers me

1. you can click the tag btsmeme on a post on my blog or go to the seach option on my blog and it will separate all the meme post from the ask

2. telling me you are going to “have to unfollow me” is a little un-necessary like you don’t have to tell me lol just do it  

3. it’s kinda my account… if I want to answer the ones that say hi to talk to the people who want to talk to me I will and if that bothers you so much than dang unfollow me 

I am sorry my asks take over your feed and trust me you are not the first one to unfollow me for it but a lot of people actually really like them and like that i reply and I am not going to change that because of a follow loss 

Originally posted by yoongis--babygirl

anonymous asked:

Your thoughts on negativity in fandom?

Hello nonnie 😊 Soooo… You probably sent this message thinking you’d get a nice quick “it’s bad” answer, but what you didnt know is that I have a tendency to rant, and I have a lot of thoughts about this….. So buckle your seatbelts kiddos here comes a tangent! (Also this on mobile lol what is formatting) 1. The thing with fandom that is both awesome and hard is that everyone has different opinions on stuff. If a portion of the fandom reads a certain book in a series and hates it, then that is fine! And I think they should be able to be vocal about that for the purpose being able to talk to other people about it. But. I prefer people tag things, and maybe put it under the cut, or maybe say something like “hey I hated the book/ this part, if you didn’t then maybe unfollow me” because you don’t want to be that person that shits on someone’s birthday cake you know? 2. With all that being said… Negativity is a poison. Lord knows I can be salty, and I am of the opinion that you can criticize and poke at things you love and still love them. But negativity begets negativity. So when thats all you focus on and all you spread around… That’s just not my vibe man. 3. I have realized that I read acowar differently than… Any other book I’ve read? I read all of tog before joining the fandom and so therefore missed all the drama. Then I read Acotar, again without fandom interpretation beside “Tamlin=bad”. But with acowar… I let the fact that we had so many headcanons (which is NOT a bad thing) and the fact that the prereleased copies sent up a fandom shit storm (a super annoying thing) taint my entire reading. I was subconsciously looking for things to be wrong/bad the entire time. And the fact that I let fandom very obviously hurt my reading experience… Sucks? But it’s hard because how much of that is fandom and how much of that is up to me to just ignore the negative vibes? I don’t know. 4. I think there comes a point when you need to decide to either wash you hands… Or just tone it down maybe. You either read the books for the fun distraction of Hot Fae Drama™ or you are looking for Dickinson level literary genius… In which case you may be disappointed, that’s life man. And it’s totally your prerogative, just be mindful that fandom means… You know… You’re a fan. 5. I will say this, there have been waves of negativity for sure… But I’ve been in fandoms before that… You guys… Just- bad. Real bad. So I learned how to scroll past, how to officially decide to unfollow a bunch of people, etc. So I will say that I am proud of this fandom for taking up the cause (somewhat, relatively) quickly to take a step back and reevaluate. Obviously we aren’t quite there yet but, you know. 6. Lastly (lol you made it this far, congrats) the most harmful is obviously anon hate. Which… there isn’t any way to slice it. If you are the type of immature 9 year old that spends their day being a cunt to real life people on the internet over fictional characters…. Especially a ship??? No. You and I are not friends. Frankly I think you have a laughable lack of social intelligence and I dont feel bad saying so. come at me. That is the biggest source of negativity I have seen and I’m actually fully in favor of the toddler rule. When a toddler throws a tantrum, don’t indulge them. They just want attention. Don’t feed the trolls. Or you know… Some other metaphor

simsomedia  asked:

I DON'T UNDERSTAND! Sunshine, how do you do these things? How do you make such beautiful posts that attract you in like a moth to a flame? How? HOW?! Share your secrets! I swear everything you post just makes me dying to read more.

Ohhhh Mel, sweetie, you think so just because you love me, not because I’m perfect or magical or something because I’m definitely not. No but deep down inside I find myself being absolute perfection but on the outside I also have my brain working and it says that my insides get it all wrong girlllll LOL I mean I even had kind of friend?? unfollowing me because I was too sugary for them?? When I had my anon messages on I received hate messages too. I mean there’s quite a lot of people that are not happy with me or what I’m doing. So considering all this it’s absolute awesome to have friends like you ♥ and some other peeps that are all the way lovely but are no good in polls :p

Casual Reminder: this blog is 18+/contains NSFW

I just :’-))) A few of you guys are letting me know how young you are and it makes me a bit uncomfortable mostly because idk how to respond to that or idk what you want me to say? :’-( I don’t think I could’ve done a better job of warning everyone tbh,,,,, I literally spammed my embarrassment and even left a note for morning people LOL my blog description also says 18+

I can’t control your decision to read it but I do my best to warn. So please please please if you’re uncomfortable in any way unfollow me or block #nsfw. I want to be able to post as freely and guiltlessly as I can on this blog as I want to share as much art as possible aaaand that’s going to include some sexy times since I want to be more open about that area.

But yeah! I’ll be separating my main storyline tag and NSFW tag on my description when I get home! Thank you for reading and freaking out w me!!! ILY ALL 💖💘💯💗💖💘👌💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥

Well well well this is embarrassing... (hmm I can’t remember how that word is written and i’m lazy today)

Hello folks! Well tbh, I can’t really remember how long I’ve been away. Life is ups and downs and well, this was my down. But I made a promise to myself that I would never leave tumblr while I still had something stupid to say to the world, so here I am!

I just want to apologize to all the people I left unanswered again, I love you all and you are all amazing, I wasn’t ignoring you on purpose hahaha (L)

To the people who followed me these months, THANK YOU!! I’ll check you outas soon as I can, and I think I’m gonna follow you all just for being patient and not unfollowing me despise being invisible here hahaha (well maybe not the porn bots lol)

About this blog, don’t worry, I’ll get my crap together. Just maybe not until summer, because my grades need a really ahrd push, and I get stressed if I do all at a time, Idk how the rest of the people do it, but you are all my superheroes!!

But, I am gonna do something

Maybe you don’t know (though I hope you do, you HAVE to know), that last week our sweet Chris released the Official Erago nColoring Book. Well, as I am a needy geek obsessed with Eragon and dragons, I had ordered that book in January. And. It arrived to my house YESTERDAY

So, as a present, I’m showing you guys some of my favourite pictures:) They are all amazing, so picking up among them is difficult. I’ll eventually post them all as I color, but I guess some of you guys (well if I’m tallking to myself then yey meee) wanted to see them So here it goes:

As it couldn’t be any other way, this is the first drawing of all, and the only one I have colored (because, as I said, it arrived yesterday lol).


Aaaaah, that boat… (L)

!!!!!!!!!!! Nïdhwal!!!!!

….. I cried. I literally cried. And you know freaking why


and yes, I cried again… what a tribute. What a tribute…

And well, that’s it! To see the rest, buy the book or wait a bit!!

I hope you all forgive me again for being away, but may your swords stay sharp! (L)

anonymous asked:

There was something fishy about the whole ig thing because L had liked a comment that acknowledge she was aware of it so it was most likely not a glitch after the first unfollow. Looks more like she was having an internal battle with herself to keep following C lol but who wouldn't want to see that gorgeous girl on their timeline 😢totally not worth it to throw off cs if it were up to me.

Didn’t she liked a comment that basically said people should mind their own business or something like that? (correct my if I’m wrong, my memory isn’t what it used to be sweets😂 ), if she did it, it doesn’t mean that it wasn’t a glitch in the first place, but that it’s just people’s reaction that pissed her off - and anyway back then she could see that gorgeous girl in her bed, so I guess it wasn’t that bad…

anonymous asked:

Get the fuck over yourself. You pretend to be this nice open person but really you just shit on people who don't agree with you and are such an attention seeker. Maybe you don't get tons of likes on your fan fics because they aren't as good as you think they are. I am so tired of seeing you pop up in my dash. I've had to unfollow some who reblog your shit bc its so annoying at this point.

Sorry I keep appearing on your dash. Block me. It’s what I do with people I don’t like. It’s pretty easy. I could make you some screenshots on how to do it. And lol, attention seeker. Why are any of us here? To hide?

And yeah, shitting on people… Me having an opinion that’s different than someone else’s is not me shitting on them. I always state that people I disagree with are free to their opinion. And I’ve never sent anon hate - I never even send anons unless it’s to my friends and I’m drunk and they know it’s me. So… which one of us is the real asshole?

Originally posted by yourreactiongifs

anonymous asked:

You know... it shocks me that, not only in general, but that there's people out there that ship otayu-ri more than Victu-uri.... how???? what???? And I also saw someone on my dash that shipped victu-rio and I unfollowed so fast lol. Instead of the one healthy, loving relationship people want the creepy, underage ones... what??? And I'm sorry if I bring some hate here, I'm not trying too ^^" i'm just... it bugs me because i see people like this.

‘Instead of the one healthy, loving relationship people want the creepy, underage ones’ a perfect summary of the yoi fandom tbh

anonymous asked:

Oh, you're one of those people that makes fun of people with ptsd for being triggered by stuff. I ger your point of not wanting to tag stuff bc it IS hard to remember and because it would ruin your minimalist aesthetic, but you don't have to be so rude to people about it. I agree with you wholeheartedly but you sound like one of those "omg the trigglypuffs are here" types lol. Just tell them to unfollow and move on.

First, I never made fun of anyone. Second, it is not about my minimalist aesthetic that I don’t tag things, I simply don’t tag them because it is easier to just hit reblog. Third, I actually told them to just unfollow me if it triggers them. And lastly, I am triggered by stuff as well but I look out for myself and don’t depend on other people. That’s what I’m saying. Depend on yourself. So stop trying to put words in my mouth or say I made fun of them when I never said that.

Salty ask meme

Because I was asked by @luckydragon10. Here goes a dragons response. And why can’t I format anything on my phone?

What OTP in your fandom do you just not get?
Huh. That’s actually a hard question because I honestly don’t care what other people ship. I personally ship only characters I find attractive. I don’t have time to wonder about other people’s likes and dislikes. Those are fictional characters. I only ship the pairings I like. I do tend to try on pairings for size from time to time. Can even be convinced if the writing is hot enough. it’s mostly about how attractively they are written.

Are there any popular fandom OTPs you only BroTP?
Lol no. It’s all about hot, filthy, dark, sensual desire for me.

Have you ever unfollowed someone over a fandom opinion?
Because they like something? Never. I DO NOT CARE what anybody likes. Like, could not give a single fuck about it. However if someone tries to force their opinion on me? Oh, then I block them and probably most of their followers. Have no time for assholes.

Do you have a NoTP in your fandom. Are they popular OTP?
OMG those questions are hard as hell. Considering I ship/read/write for over 30 fandoms this is impossible. Probably? I sometimes find the main ships boring - not even because they don’t make sense or look good - but because I oversaturated on them.

Has fandom ever ruined a pairing for you?
Only in a sense I have read too much about them :D But even then I eventually come back a year or two later. But that’s a case of boredom not ruining a pairing. Unlike the general trend I observed the recent years i do understand those a fictional characters and fics are fiction, so what if somebody writes a character as a dumb asshole or an evil mastermind? If i like the theme I will read it, if I don’t I will just not read it.

Has fandom ever made you enjoy a pairing you previously hated?
I don’t hate pairining. I don’t enjoy some of them. But yes, definitely. Some fics are just so brilliant they sold me on a pairing. I am easy like that :D

Is there anything you used to like but can’t stand now?
Not really. There are things that I feel have been overly often used, like bucky or Steve using the forties slang a lot. First I just disagree with language working this way. That you speak 99,9% modern language and then out of nowhere use words from old times. But that is also a case of seeing it too often and it just lost it’s shine.

Have you received anon hate? What about?
Hm, not much but yes. Mostly about an writer that claimed she had the right to tell me what I can and can not think, and what I can and can not write. You can not own an idea. Deal with it and get lost. And looking back I am convinced it was just a publicity stunt.

Most disliked character(s)? Why?
… small Steve. Can’t forget the strange proportions given him in the movie and the fact he would probably reach my elbow? But that’s purely aesthetic thinking. I have nothing against him as a character. But that was the reason I pretend Captain America movie started at the point of transformation, or was a radio drama before.

Most disliked arc? Why?
Civil War. I just hate the breaking apart of my fantasy team. And I also hate all the things that were implied about Tony in his actions. In my mind he is not a violent man, not towards others. That moment he attacked Bucky - that was like throwing away all three iron movies for me. So I wasn’t all that pleased with it.

Is there an unpopular character you like that the fandom doesn’t? Why?
So, I sometimes enjoy het and women seem to be generally vilified in fandom. Anything that has a vagina and is not an old grandma is considered evil in some way. I love her and I refuse to vilify women in fiction just because.We have enough problems in real life than bringing the RL problems into fiction just because everybody else does it. If everybody else jumped off a cliff, would you too? I wouldn’t so don’t even start this shit with me. Everybody = nobody in my book. So if anybody else wants to write her as a bitch, fine, but don’t expect me to do it just because.

Is there an unpopular arc that you like that the fandom doesn’t? Why?
Not really. probably because I don’t read Marvel or DC comics, and my other fandoms don’t seem to have as much problems as the predominantly american ones. Maybe because smaller fandoms are calmer, less people make the fandom their whole life and are generally more distanced from it.

Unpopular opinion about XXX character?
Hmm, I don’t like sub Bucky when it’s after Winter Soldier? I think a large part of it is that a lot of sub fics I read at first were not very well written or just ignored his issues altogether. And my personal opinion. I have no beef with those fics existing, I just don’t read them.

Unpopular opinion about your fandom?
Too many people unable to distinguish reality from fiction. I’m in different fandoms for a very long time. It was never this bad before. People acting as if a fictional character is real and has right or feelings. It doesn’t. It’s a thought. It does not exist. It is not hurting anyone or anything. People claiming fictional characters are protected by consent laws and what else. All those pseudo ‘social justice warriors’ that try to convince authors that writing underage is in any way bad or affects real life. It doesn’t.

If you could change anything in the show, what would you change?
I would let Steve have more time. Show more of his feelings. I think in Civil War his struggle was cut off in favor of action and okay, I like action. But if I could, I would make him a focus, give him time to process the emotions on screen.

Instead of XYZ happening, I would have made ABC happen…
I know it’s never going to happen but I would either have Steve and Bucky fuck (on screen preferably!) or in Civil War Bucky being more of a badass. I know he wasn’t the main character, and had very little screen time but I would love him kicking ass left and right. And I would give him a better arm. The one he had seemed to break in EVERY FREAKING SCENE he had. I have ranted and ranted and ranted about the supposedly destructive arm breaking every time he used it :(

Does not shipping something ‘popular’ mean you’re in denial and/or biased?
Again, my firm opinion is everybody = nobody. Just because someone does it, it doesn’t mean I have to do it too. I’m unmovable on this point and have very, very firm stance on the ‘thought police’.

What is the one thing you hate most about your fandom?
Lack of distance. Too many people take it personally and make it a war, what should only be done in fun. We don’t go to war over books in bookstores. Why the double standard for fic authors? Before the era of social media - this wasn’t something that happened before. Sad to see it develop now.

What is the purest ship in the fandom?
Whatever one you enjoy the most.

Popular character you hate?
No such thing :D Well, maybe my preference that skinny Steve should be a radio drama. I can deal better with the way artists draw him - more proportional, more like an actual human male. But in general - nope. Oh, and I love to hate Brock Rumlow.

Unpopular character you love?
Don’t have any specific one.

Would you recommend XXX to a friend? Why or why not?
Fics? oh I recommend plenty. Movies? I tend to drag all my friends to all marvel movies whether they like them or not, so I’m the last person to ask the question. Because if I enjoy it I will find a way to make my friend go see it with me, if only for pure enjoyment. Granted, I did have to literally sit on two of them to watch the new Star Wars and listen to them moaning about how much they hated it, but they DID watch it with me :D I do have a feeling making them watch the last one is going to be so much harder, but I will find a way. Eventually.

How would you end XXX/Would you change the ending of XXX?
Civil War. That is the movie that I would change for the reasons I mentioned before. Oddly enough it’s Tony i feel protective about and the disassembly of the values he represented to me before. I can very much see him beating some on Bucky (he can take a beating, no problem) but the outright attempt at murder… no. I disagree. And I would change it.

Most shippable character?
All of them. If i find them hot I am perfectly willing to make them a fandom bicycle and have everybody ride them. I am a Bucky girl though - but not the broken, fragile Bucky that is popular but the strong, dangerous one. The badass.

anonymous asked:

Hi! Salty ask list numbers 1, 3, 5, 14, 19, and 20. Thanks xD

1. What OTPs in your fandom(s) do you just not get?*

VK: I don’t understand Takuma x Ai. Like….why? I don’t really see the appeal. I think it’s because when Ai was a child, Takuma is a full-grown adult and I get reminded of another ship that shall not be named.

The 100: This Becho stuff confuses me. I know a lot of it is just crack but the people who actually ship it seriously have me scratching my head. Bellamy almost killed Echo with his own two hands for trying to kill his sister if he wasn’t stopped. I guess this is a kink? I just can’t see them together.

3. Have you ever unfollowed someone over a fandom opinion?

Yes LOL. Only because I thought they liked the same ship I did but then realized I was mistaken. It wasn’t personal, it’s just that I like to keep my dash a certain way :P

5. Has a fandom ever ruined a pairing for you?*

Almost, but I’ve always tried to remember that the fans should not totally define the ship or even the fandom. There will always be people out there that give something a bad name, but you shouldn’t let them ruin it for you and what you like.

14. Unpopular opinion about your fandom?

VK: I actually don’t dislike or hate on Yuuki as much as I think a large part of the fandom does. I do get frustrated with her at times, but my feelings about her haven’t really changed.

The 100: I’m not that into Kabby :/ I love the Bellarke parallels but I personally can’t get into them as a ship. That’s just me.

19. What is the one thing you hate most about your fandom?

I think I can say this for both fandoms, but there are just some things people say to each other that are down right nasty, usually because of a ship. And I’m not talking about the usual harmless banter, but the personal attacks toward the individual. Crazy.

20. What is the purest ship in the fandom?

VK: My ride or die Zeki babies ofc.

The 100: My cinnamon-I will go down with this ship-Bellarke dork rolls.