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anonymous asked:

What was your first time ever wearing Lolita out side? Did you have a peculiarly hard time with wearing it in public? Just wondering your thought process and the general reaction of those around you. Some times people mind there own business it was quite traumatic for me . A lot of people know me in my area so naturally it did not go well for me my first time. It doesn't help that most whom saw me where those who bullied me.

I have very thick skin. I don’t really remember what it was like wearing it out in public for the first time. I’ve always been made fun of & bullied a lot in my life. I get over things very quickly. I think it’s important to be able to laugh at yourself and brush things off :) 

I’m very sorry that this experience was traumatic for you! I’m very sorry people bullied you. I don’t know what else to say other than just don’t take it to heart. As long as you are happy with yourself, nothing else matters. It has to come from you, tell yourself “I think I’m pretty and this is what I like. People don’t have to accept or understand it because I get it.” 

It sounds like you know these people who made fun of you. Maybe they didn’t mean to be so hurtful and just didn’t know how to react because they don’t understand. Maybe try talking to them about it.

I hope this helps, if there is anything else I can do for you please let me know. If you ever need support, I’m here for you <3