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After med school, I came home to Mystic Falls. It felt right. It’s where I wanted to grow old and I did. And that’s my life: weird, messy, complicated, sad, wonderful, amazing, and above all epic. And I owe it all to Stefan. When I met him, I had lost my parents and I was dead inside, but he brought me back to life and I’m going to live it as best I can for as long as I can. Even after our long and happy life together, Damon is still worried he’ll never see Stefan again, that he’ll never find peace. But I know he’s wrong because peace exists. It lives in everything we hold dear. That is the promise of peace, that one day after a long life, we find each other again.
—  Elena Gilbert’s last words
What I’ve learned from the TVD series finale..

boys and girls,

the moral of this story is that you don’t really have to be an ACTUAL good person to get what you want in life. (I mean sure we can talk about the good little deeds you do here and there but in reality you should do them anyway as a good person, but I’m not even talking about that. I’m talking about the fact that you can be a rapist, a murderer, go out and seek revenge, force yourself on others - against their will, kill your “loved ones”, or your “loved ones” love ones (all by your own choices and temper tantrums) - it’s okay!!!) You can be forgiven for every terrible thing you have ever done and get everything you want - no matter how many people you have hurt. You are somehow the “better man”. Maybe someone saw a tiny glimpse of hope in you - which magically erases all the bad you ever did. (Forget the dude that has struggled and fought and tried to be the better man the entire time - that doesn’t matter - no one gives a fuck about you. you will end up sacrificing yourself anyway just proving how much of the better man you are and have always been - but no really - no one gives a fuck)

You can steal your brothers girlfriend and make it your mission in life to cause him pain - it’s OKAY - you will get the girl! No seriously. Let’s play a game: If you have a sibling and you are into their boyfriend/girlfriend - by all means - force yourself in between their relationship, cause some friction and drama, kiss her/him against their will. Flirt with her, seduce her, Grab her by the pussy. you can do anything - she will overlook it anyway. She/he will come for you and choose you in the end! We don’t even truly know WHY this happens - sometimes you HAVE to get sired first because when you actually have a brain, you will see abuse a mile away and actually call them out on their bullshit. After getting sired, when you’re together though, even if all you did was talk about how toxic you are (which is not okay???). It’s okay!!!! Unhealthy and Toxic relationships are IN. It’s 2017! Let’s sexualize abusive and toxic behaviors that people think are okay…but really are not…but it’s fandom popular it must be okay! 

Also…Please keep in mind. If you break a guys heart - it’s okay for him to throw a tantrum - but just so you know, he might kill your friends/family and you need to accept and forgive him for that. You just can’t help yourself - it’s like you have no control over your own thoughts and everything that you once were and how you used to react won’t matter. you’re a different person now. you’re more alive - even though you are dead….but you feel so alive for being such a douche bag with no morals or heart. you’re WILD, girlfriend! 

I just don’t understand how someone can honestly not see how toxic and gross it all is?!?! Why the fuck are these things okay? Would people honestly want their sons or daughters in this type of relationship? I’m not even speaking about yourself - I’m say for someone you love and care about. Fiction or not…this shit happens in real life. All these red flags…it’s terrifying.

Also no man or woman should have the responsibility to make you be the good person..only you can make your own choices. YOU have to be the good person on your own. I mean sure they can inspire you and push you to find the best version of yourself. The right people in your life are there to support and lift you. NOT excuse you of your bad behavior and enable your toxic ways. you have to find the best version of yourself all on your own and take some accountability for your actions and not get away with every terrible thing you have ever done.

good fucking riddance. 

KLAUS'S LETTER TO CAROLINE

Dearest Caroline,
I have often imagined the paths your life might take, but your chosen future is more noble than I ever fathomed. Please accept this contribution to your virtuous cause. I do look forward to thanking you in person someday…

However long it takes.

Yours,
Klaus


HOWEVER LONG IT TAKES. HOWEVER. LONG. IT. TAKES.

AND RIC TALKING AS CAROLINE READS THE LETTER: ’…SHE GOT A MOST IMPRESSIVE DONOR. BUT THAT IS THE BEGINNING OF ANOTHER STORY.’

BEGINNING OF ANOTHER STORY!!!!!

TVD MIGHT BE OVER BUT KLAROLINE LIVES FOREVER AND ALWAYS