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I’m in tears right now, I can’t stop shaking:

Some racist hooligan assaulted a black couple who just came to Italy from Nigeria as war refugees. He killed the husband, Emmanuel Chidi Nnamdi , who was defending his wife, Chimiary, after that man started calling her racial slurs out of nowhere. He is dead, the hooligan killed him WITH A ROAD SIGN. He hit him again and again, in front of his wife.

This happened in Fermo, Italy, twenty minutes away from where I live. This has shocked me so much. Racism is a serious problem in Italy, fascism and intolerance are escalating, horrible politicians like Salvini (the Italian equivalent of Donald Trump) are encouraging racism and are actively trying to block the refugees from entering out country.

Please don’t let this go unnoticed: tumblr is pretty US-centric, but people need to know the names of all the victims of hate, from all over the world. Emmanuel needs to be remembered and mourned. Please, don’t let racism win. I’m still shocked, this happened so close to my hometown. Don’t let them win. Fight this horrible hate.

Things To Look Forward To

- movie releases
- your future favorite bands/artists you’ll discover
- dogs
- or cats
- any type of pets you’ll get to meet
- small adventures to the local park
- big adventures to places you haven’t been to
- local museum openings
- art exhibits
- cute candids
- amusement parks
- meeting new people
- eating new (yummy) foods
- rainy days
- sunny days
- drinking hot coco on a cold day
- making somebody laugh/smile
- hearing a funny joke/pun
feel free to add more to the list! these are just a few we thought of personally.

anonymous asked:

Hey I've never done an ask before so I don't know if I'm doing this right but I was wondering if anyone knew that fic where the Phil's from two different universes switch? I think in one universe they're in a band and Dan has an ed and the other is sort of true to life. Also Phil ends up painting Dan's nails and there's a shower scene? Thanks so much ((bleh I live on your blog))

Misplaced - (tw) Phil wakes up in an alternate universe. And then Phil… wakes up in an alternate universe. Both Phil’s try to navigate back to their own life while simultaneously trying to deal with each others’. (AKA YouTuber!Phil tries to deal with the fact that he’s in a band and he and Dan are enemies, and Band!Phil tries to understand how in any universe he and Dan could be lovers.)

- Tori

lydia martin doesn’t need parish to save everyone 

lydia martin doesn’t need parish to save everyone

lydia martin doesn’t need parish to save everyone

lydia martin doesn’t need parish to save everyone

lydia martin doesn’t need parish to save everyone

lydia martin doesn’t need parish to save everyone

lydia martin doesn’t need parish to save everyone

lydia martin doesn’t need parish to save everyone

lydia martin doesn’t need parish to save everyone

Let’s talk about the way this abuse works…

My undermining yourself esteem is “helping you.”  Your assertion of any independence of personality requires punishment.

“You know I don’t like when you use magic.”  This is not a single time even.  Cora does this often to keep Regina obedient.  When did Cora start hurting her daughter with magic.  In 5.17 she says she can’t heal Regina because her magic has hurt her so one can conclude that this physical abuse by magic has been going on since Regina was 10 years old or younger.  

More gaslighting.  Your freedom is not good for you.  I know better.  You aren’t good enough.Regina was already in her control.  What is the point of the restraints?  Either to cause pain or to remind her of how little control she has.  Notice how rigid Regina gets.  I wonder if Cora used restraints to teach her posture.

Now notice how Regina’s voice goes up and she sounds younger as she promises to be good.  She knows how to get her mother to stop hurting her.  Act like the doll that her mother always wanted instead of a child with her own will and desires.