Differences in the dd/lg community

Hello, alot of people dont know all the branches of the dd/lg, md/lg ect community so i will be explaining the differences as simple as possible. Some of you may already be familiar but hopefully ill help a few people.


Dd/lg: daddy dom; little girl.

Dd/lb: daddy dom; little boy

Md/lg: mommy dom; little girl

Md/lb: mommy dom; little boy

Abdl: adult baby diaper lover

Cg/l: caregiver/little

Pet play: like age play only playing an animal

Owner/kitten: owner/kitten


Daddy dom: Daddy dom is short for daddy dominant. He is the person to take care of his little and depending on the age of the little will depend how depent they are on their daddy. He is the ‘father’ of the little meaning he will administrate punishments, rules and rewards he deems fit. Usually after some discussion from both the little in big person form and the daddy on punishments and what they would like to do. Consent is key

Mommy dom: mommy dom is short for mommy dominant and like the daddy she will give punishments, rewards, ect she deems fit to the situation. The only thing difference is that she is a woman and not a man.

Caregiver: A caregiver is what i have defined as someone that does not identify with the male or female gender. For example Agender. They would be a caregiver the exact same thing as a mommy or a daddy except is not male or female they are other. This term is also used in the kitten/owner branch as another term for an owner.

Babysitter: most littles probably dont have babysitters but babysitters are just like how they would be for childern. Usually younger littles like 1-3 will have a babysitter if they’re full time and theyre caregiver (daddy, mommy ect) isnt home. Babysitters are paid to look after the little and make sure their safe.

Owner: an owner is someone who takes care of a kitten, a pup, a bunny, ect. They are intrested in pet play rather than age play. For example instead of corner time they might administer spankings or a squirt bottle. Depending.

Littles: littles can rang in size, shape, age, and gender. They are defined as age players which means they enjoy acting younger. For example their real age is 20 but they play 5. So, they enjoy all the things a five year old would. Although some littles dont do it there is alot of little who engage in baby talk to feel more little. Little activities are usually coloring, watching cartoons or sucking on a bottle or pacifier. Littles usually have a mommy, a daddy, a caregiver or a babysitter.

Switches: i didnt inculde this in the branches because i didnt feel like it had a place but it is in definitions because it is important. Switches are people who are dominant and submissive. A person who is both can switch between little to mommy, daddy ect.

Part time little/kitten vs. Full time: littles (and/or kitten) can be part time (like myself) or full time. Part time means you engage in little space every once in awhile but Full time means you are always in little space 24/7. Full time littles sometimes dont have jobs and they usually have babysitters.

Abdl: Adult Baby Diaper Lover. The definition is in the name. Abdl participaters usually enjoy the look of a diaper, the feel, the smell ect. They even like when people use them to go to the bathroom. Its on this list because its a branch of Ddlg because the baby who is using the diaper is an age player.

Kitten: kitten is the most common form of pet play however people also are pups, bunnies and more. Pet play, like age play is the kink of pretending youre an animal. A pet. The person may purr or drink out of a bowl. Pet play to me would probably be put in another category kink called humiliation. There are some similarities like leashes, eating out of bowls, ect. However please remember that kittens are owned by owners who love them dearly (hopefully). They play with them and pet behind their ears as well as other nice stuff.

Well, i believe thats it. Remember that all the things i have named are out of full consent of both adults and is in no way shape or form abuse. If your partner is beating you and/or forcing you to do something in the bedroom that is not a kink it is abuse and you should go to someone. Also remember that these are not part of pedophilia or bestiality. They are both humans and adult just wanting to be loved,cherished, and treated like babys. Any questions feel free to ask me. As always no teasing or fighting and ill post more in a bit. My next post will be Rated R so just keep a look out for that it will have a disclaimer. 💖 remember you all are magical unicorns 💖

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you know when we were little and adults/people would ask, where do you see yourself at 30? i honestly can’t remember what i ever said, i only have a selective memory for random stuff, and that did not make the cut..

but i do know that i am completely content to be 30 right now. (it still sounds weird to say/type it out- just like saying 1986 was 30 years ago, so crazy)
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