It’s 2017, and Cat Grant has returned to the show. She gives Kara a lecture about how dare she even let Mon-El THINK he has a chance with her, and goes off about the entitlement of straight white men. Cat makes Kara see that Mon-El is an abusive little shit and doesn’t deserve her. The conversation lasts 44 real-world minutes (hours in show-time). It’s literally the entire episode. Cat has powerpoint presentations.
As a sister who doesn't see her brother often and therefore doesn't have many recent pictures of him and of us together, the things you said about Phoebe kind of hurt. I don't like the implication that not having recent pics or of us together would mean I'm not a sister, or that my brother isn't my brother. You know?