(( OOC: So. I know how fond you are all of Fem!Remus. Me too, guys, me too.

And doing We’ll Be Ghosts made me think a lot about the latter part of her story within the Fem!AU.

What happens when Sirius dies? How does she deal with that? And what about… Tonks? Genderbent Tonks?

And then I thought… do we need to genderbend Tonks?

As @lizziebennetnotinjapan rightly pointed out, Tonks has never been one to conform to gender rules. And besides, half the reason I created the Fem!AU was to have more wlw. 

……….So why not stick with the theme?

Tonks: Merlin… chatty one, aren’t you?

(( OOC: ………I’m enjoying this idea. ))

nobody “allows” themselves to be abused, you think abusers are waiting for the fucking permission? they’re not waiting for anything they’ll jump at any chance to abuse and then fucking pretend nothing even happened! or that the victims deserved it by just existing! victims have a  lot of better things to do than to make sure that in their entire lives nobody gets the chance to abuse them, and it’s impossible too because abusers generate those chances, they make sure the chances are there, they make sure victims are unable to escape or even realize that abuse is going on! victims are victims precisely because they get no control over what’s going on! nobody sure as hell asks them for permission! It’s insane to blame victims for merely existing in a hostile environment where all their energy and time is spent on desperately trying to protect themselves! blame abusers for being predatory opportunist hateful narcissistic pieces of shit and generating that kind of inhumane environment!


You can ship Namjin because:

- they have a great dynamic as leader of the band and the oldest of the band. It’s interesting as korea as a whole is big on age deals where the oldest needs to be respected meanwhile Namjoon probably has the final say in almost everything.

- they are polar opposites in which Namjoon, especially during their debut days, was trying so hard to prove that he can surpass any limitation while Jin, as told by the lyrics in awake, understands his limitation and tries his best to work with it.

- Namjoon wrote awake. Imagine the heart to heart talk they had to get the lyrics done.

- Namjoon has called Jin cute in more than one occasion.

- Seokjin has laughed at Namjoon for being cute in more than one occasion.

- they have a cute dynamic of both being the wing dancers of bangtan.

- they look cute together.

You can ship Namjin without feminizing Jin, especially by calling him a princess or a mom.

You can ship them as equal men who simply adore and respect each other.

Namjin is still a great ship.

Originally posted by yovibeispretty

anonymous asked:

Do you think Jensen at the cockles panel is what alpha!Jen in rut(?) would be like?

Are you mostly refering to his need to show Misha his junk? ;3 (I haven’t actually seen all of the Cockles panels because I get embarrassed easily.)

I would actually love the idea that Jensen in rut behaves in ways that aren’t really usual for alphas. The focus on his junk and the need to tell people that it’s amazing, yes sure, that is normal. He has to show the omega he has his eyes on what he’s got after all (”Jensen, put that back where it belongs. We’re already mated” would mostly fall on deaf ears. Because Jensen has to show the world that he’s a good alpha. “Okay, alright, we get it. Cross your legs, Jensen.”)

But after some activities to take the edge off (”mistakes were made”, like having rut sex to take the edge off instead of just having Jensen take some pills and a cold shower and then some normal sex.), Jensen in rut is goofy, affectionate, emotional… etc.

During childhood, both Guren and Shinya were trained to not be vulnerable at any cost, because of their positions (with Guren being the next head of the Ichinose clan and Shinya literally fighting and killing to survive).

And considering that childhood is something that affects people the most and builds their foundation, I think the​y normalized having their physical and emotional defences up. It should be really tough for them to let their guard down.

So it’s very special and endearing that they let each other see them at their weakest points.
Guren cried, holding dying Shinya in his arms. Shinya also almost cried and lashed out at Guren during a couple of times.

It shows that they trust each other and let themselves be exposed, feeling safe enough to do so. ❤

littles are a LOT of work. my Daddy will be the first to tell anyone that being in charge of a little is no easy task. i often throw tantrums. i am extremely sensitive. i crave all of His attention. i need a lot of discipline, rules, and boundaries. There is nothing worse than being little and having to take on the world alone with no clear direction. With pre-set rules and boundaries, i feel safe and loved. i never have to question “should i” or “shouldn’t i”, because if there isn’t a rule for it, i just consult with Daddy and He takes care of it.

It sounds so easy and perfect, but what about when your Daddy doesn’t enforce pre-set rules? What if punishments should be given but your Daddy has gotten lazy? What if your Daddy doesn’t want to play with you or treat you like the little you are? What if your Daddy falls into a vanilla state of mind and forgets His job? Every Daddy gets distracted at some point and when He does a little feels lost and helpless and can act out in lots of different ways.

An easy option for a little  is to rebel and try and get your Daddy’s attention. you throw fits at random things that you really don’t care about. you do annoying things just to get Him to notice you. you act out and be naughty in public. you wear clothes you know your Daddy won’t like or approve of. you do just about anything to get His attention.

Another option is to shut down and hide your little side. you don’t let her out to play or laugh. you stop using your favorite special “little” things, like your stuffies, binky or blankie. you start being the one to protect her feelings and be the “adult” in the relationship. you start to pretend His attention isn’t needed or important . you start to think maybe if you ignore yourself and Him that He will get the hint.

Both options have their downfalls, with one you might end up with a stressed out Daddy who doesn’t want to be around his naughty little, which He then begins to shut her out and the other you hide a key part of yourself away and you begin feeling trapped and depressed and He could think you don’t want to be His or a little.

It is always the best option to just talk with your Daddy. It is highly recommended to NEVER try to talk to your Daddy about something important like this when He is tired, overly stressed from the day, busy with something important like work, angry at you, or having his relax time right after getting home. you should come to Him calmly and respectfully. He will appreciate it and be more open to hearing what you have to say. Try to be straight to the point and try not to drop hints. Daddies like to have things straight forward. It is also important not to expect an instant answer or fix. Give your Daddy time to problem solve and think through what you have talked about. i promise you will get a better result than if you try to pressure Him or attack Him into answering or fixing things in one conversation.

you should try to remember that Daddies have a lot of responsibilities. They get very busy problem solving everything in their day; work, bills, social issues, family, and you. They need your openness and honesty when there is an issue. Never try to hide it from them hoping They will see the error of their ways or that they are hurting you. They are much too busy to look for “hints”. Being honest and open should be at the top of every D/s relationship.

Now Daddies this is for You…

Please always give Your little clear rules, boundaries, and expectations. she desperately wants to please You. she is probably willing to do almost anything to make You happy. It is exhausting and intimidating for a little to try and come up with the rules herself. she is left wondering if she is doing things right, second guessing herself, and completely stressing out trying to make You proud of her. It is important to always give Your little room to grow, but if she misbehaves she needs, wants, and craves Your correction and punishment.

It isn’t easy being a little in a great big scary world. Knowing she is pleasing her Daddy will take loads of stress off of her and allow her to be her true self. she wants to submit and be Your “good girl”, but she also wants to know there are limits. Trust me she will test them, a lot and often. Just know that that is natural for her to do. she is just learning, growing, and making sure Daddy is going to be there for the good and the bad. That He is there to put her back in line. That He cares enough to teach her.

Be a persistent strong-minded Daddy and give  Your little rules. Have fun with it. Any desire or fantasy Your have for what You want from her is Yours for the taking. Tell her how to dress and what style pleases You. Tell her how to eat and exercise so she can stay beautiful for You. Pick her polish color and make sure she keeps manicured and clean shaven for You. (You should be sure to provide her with an allowance to buy the kind of clothing You like and to get her nails and hair done. Better yet take her to do those things! It will make her feel special having her Daddy tell the stylist what she wants!) Give her a bedtime, (even if she screams and moans) in the long run Your little will feel protected and loved. Always make sure to cuddle her and play with her hair while she falls asleep and don’t forget to read her a story. Give Your little chores around Your house. Make her wait to eat until You have taken the first bite. There are so many options i could go on forever.

Incentivize following Your rules (even though having rules is a gift in itself). Making it a game will show a deeper sense of love for her. You can give her stickers on a chart to fill up (100 stars gets a gift card). Or little gifts to make her squeal! Make sure You tell her it’s because she did x, y, or z. Giving her rules will show her how much You care and it will give her clear direction on how to please the most important person in her little world… her Daddy!

Daddies just don’t be lazy and get lost in the stress of everyday life. Having a little is a gift most men could only dream of owning. she is your perfect little property. Put in the work and show her how special she is. Give her lots of kisses, cuddles, hugs, and spankings. littles please obey your Daddies. They always know best and They are one of the people in your life (or the only one) that excepts you as you are. It is a gift to live life as a little.

to expand on the coffee shop au: paul always spells john’s name on his cup “jon” just to see his annoyed face. john wears a hoodie of the university he attends to the shop and paul finds out he goes there too, but their classes are on opposite sides of campus. john starts bringing stuart along as a studybuddy and paul gets jealous. one time john waits until the end of paul’s shift to question why paul wrote his number on john’s cup instead of his name. and paul’s hair smells like coffee beans in the morning.

I was not feeling 100% this morning, and I didn’t make it to CrossFit this morning. 😑😭 I’ll take some Tylenol when I get to the office, try to get through my work day and maybe go to an evening class. It’s test week (squat cleans), and I’d like to see if I can beat my current PR of 100 lbs.

3 day work week this week with a 5 day weekend ahead! This’ll put some pressure on me to get my poster presentation and performance evaluation done.

Lip color: Stila All Day Liquid Lipstick in Bacca