i just don’t fucking understand people who hate on fans and/or actors just because they don’t like someone’s ship? like what the actual fuck man? you aren’t superior to other fans unless they’re being an asshole, in which case be the bigger fucking person?!!
if there can’t be peace in something like a fandom how the hell do we expect to appreciate and respect eachother irl? like, i’ve seen actually super harsh derogatory insults thrown around and it just makes me feel like shit, i wish people could stop being hateful and selfish, nobody deserves to feel inferior for something that makes their fandom experience better
and saying all this actually makes me feel like a fucking idiot, because who would expect such mean shit to come out of something as seemingly innocent as fangirling/boying
another thing that makes me mad is that some assholes would probably reblog this dissing some ship/shippers saying “this is you” like no man, let’s not start pointing blame and just move forward being positive and empathetic towards eachother yea?