Loss tastes like barbed wire threaded between your teeth: Sour. Jagged. Obstructive. Bloody.

The worst part, however, is that it never stops cutting you up; it never scrapes off your splintering shards or fills in the dank holes its dug inside you.

Like a nail, Loss hammers itself a steel crevasse in your heart—and remains.

—  Ashlee Bree, The Tang of Loss
Video On Interpersonal Comforting And My Review; From Conversation

…I feel so empathetic toward her

It really really isn’t about the nail

Like, removing the nail might remove that particular problem, but the problems will expand to fill the emotional energy allotted.

What matters is being cared about, and trying to resolve someone’s problem so you don’t have to think about it anymore… Doesn’t make them feel cared about.

It feels like you want to get rid of them.

tagged by my gf whom i LOVE @carriecomehome !!!! ♥♥♥ rules are to Poast 11 facts about yourself!!!

1. i love blankets a lot?? i sleep with like 5 i don’t even care if it’s summer lmao catch me toasty year-round!

2. i have really really bad social anxiety and holding conversations is a Struggle which is,, super inconvenient because i want to do hair for a living >:(

3. i really really want to move somewhere like england or europe!! preferably somewhere where the winters arent too bad.. kinda sick of how cold canada is :(  &  also i would love to learn a new language :0

4. really bad at painting my own nails. like really bad

5. i have a cat called Whitman and i love him so much but my sister is taking him when she moves out next month :(

6. i also love my girlfriend a WHOLE LOT, and she makes me feel some type of way every single day & im so excited for the future

7.  music is a huge part of me and i really really want to go to as many live shows as possible or i might just die & i also want to learn an instrument like guitar or piano

8. i wanna do something new w/ my hair!! im thinking of just straight up chopping it all off again or just going blonde and keeping it long?? maybe a dark purple?? i cant make decisions 

9. i love my friends more than i love living

10. i love makeup!!! even tho it’s a pain in the ass to put on sometimes aakjhf

11. i wear glasses but i always forget to……actually wear them then i wonder why im so gd blind and can’t see anything lmao

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astrostride  asked:


  • originally his long hair was completely accidental. he had just let it grow too long?? bc he was too lazy to get a haircut. and then he started putting it in a ponytail, and eventually learned to braid it himself, and it just kind of become… his thing and he stuck with it
  • always has well manicured and painted nails. he likes that he can actually keep up with their looking nice
  • everyone taller than it automatically intimidates it bc it’s so used to being the tallest person it knows. it also won’t sleep with people taller than it.

in which gabe is a Good Dad ™ and backgrounds are not real

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ok so as i said regarding this excerpt from the winter soldier novel, i have realized that Official Movie Novelizer is my true calling and would like to apply for that position immediately. to prove i am prepared for this responsibility, i have used the passage in question as a jumping off point and written the rest of the scene. as u know, the official novelization goes like this:

Then Steve decided to open up as well. “I grew up with a guy. We grew up together.”

Sam knew by the tone in Steve’s voice it was someone who had served with him. “He make it back?” Sam asked.

Steve sighed and looked to the floor, pain in his eyes. “Killed in action.” There was a silence between them for a few seconds before Steve continued, “I’ve been through a lot of changes. I don’t know if anything hit me as hard as losing Bucky.”

“We fight for our guys, ya know?” Sam said.

now i have not actually read this book but i am reasonably sure that the next few paragraphs should go like this:

“I do know,” said Steve, looking deep into Sam’s eyes. “Nothing’s ever been more important to me than my guys.”

“Right?” Sam was getting a certain vibe from Steve but he didn’t want to jump to any conclusions. Maybe this was just the way guys acted back in 1943. Still, nothing ventured, nothing gained. “Like if I had a guy right now, I would definitely treat him right.”

Steve looked in both directions like he was making sure they were alone and stepped closer to Sam. “This is amazing. No one I’ve met since I woke up understands me the way you do.”

Sam was sad to think of Steve alienated and suffering. “Oh, hey man…I’m here for you.”

Steve’s face lit up. “Really? Do you wanna leave your fulfilling and socially useful job to risk your life defying the American government at my side?”

Sam wanted to explain to this hot sweet hunk of dumbass that you can’t be so open and trusting with someone you basically met five minutes ago. On the other hand, Steve had assessed him correctly. Sam knew himself to be intrepid and loyal, a brilliant fighter with a built-in skepticism about the American government’s commitment to civil liberties. Plus, Steve looked so excited and happy Sam didn’t have the heart to say no. There was just one potential problem.

“Steve, what if your guy turns up alive with a bunch of assault rifles and starts shooting everybody?”

Steve bit his lip, clearly giving the matter some thought. Then he put his hand on Sam’s arm. “That wouldn’t be a problem for us, Sam. Of course I’d still love him…but I have so much love to give.”

Sam felt ambivalent about the possibility of having to share Steve with a brainwashed cyborg assassin, but after all it was only a hypothetical. “Okay,” he said at last.

“So you’ll do it?” Steve dropped to one knee, overcome with joy. “Really, Sam?”

“Yes, Steve,” Sam said, taking Steve’s hand. “I’ll marry you.”

marvel pls contact me for an interview at your earliest convenience


Glenn Howerton, Charlie Day, Kaitlin Olson, & Rob McElhenney practice their choreography for season 12 of It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia (x)