like your life depends on it

PSA to all kids and adults who feel like bad people or who are questioning themselves because of the manipulative shit they see on this site on a daily basis

go outside. seriously just go outside. that’s all it takes. take a break from this site. they don’t control you. they are faceless assholes on the internet screaming at you from behind a computer screen to try and make you live YOUR life THEIR way, and then try to convince you you’re a bad person if you don’t. doesn’t it sound ridiculous when you put it like that? well that’s exactly what it is, ridiculous.

it’s easy to become dependent on something like this site. but don’t let that stop you from getting away from it. even if you feel alone and don’t have friends and are by yourself, just go out and find something to do, surround yourself with other things. or if you aren’t confident enough to do that, just do something other than this site. there are other, happier, nicer options. get out of this world. stay out of the discourse. stay away from the poison, at least until you’re feeling detoxed enough to come back to it. it’s not worth it. you’re still a good person, even if you decide to scroll past that post that says “IF YOU SUPPORT (BASIC HUMAN RIGHT HERE) STOP SCROLLING!!!! THIS IS IMPORTANT!!!!” or the one that says “all my followers better reblog this because x/y/z or else unfollow” because, yes, even if you choose to ignore those types of posts, you can still be a good person.

they don’t control you.

Mafia AU Character Sheet

What’s up guys, so this is what I’ve been working on since yesterday. This is a character sheet of what each Got7 member will be like in my Mafia AU choose your own adventure type of story. I still don’t know what I’ll title this story so if you have any suggestions just send me a message since I already have some ideas of what I want the first chapter to be so I’ll start writing that. The character sheet might change depending on how the story goes but this is what I want them to be like for now. I hope you like it!


A young Mafia legend fleeing from her past life style, ends up in the same place.

  • Main Character(Y/N): Daughter of a Mafia boss in America.
  1. Mafia name: Lumberjane
  2. Backstory: At a young age she is taught how to fight and use various weapons ranging from guns, knives, and axes. In high school she begins noticing the effect her family’s actions were really has on her hometown, and decides that when she’s older she will distance herself from her them. She then studies in an art college in another state away from her family finding true freedom and realizing that she can be a normal girl. After graduating college, she moves to South Korea to try to start a new life from scratch in a new location without anyone who knows her. But she forgot she had been there as a child when her family made an international association with the GOT family.
  3. Weapons of choice: Shotgun, Ax, Hand Gun
  4. Perspective on love: “Would anyone love me… if they knew who I really am?”


  • Jaebum: Leader/Blackmailer
  1. Mafia Name: Father
  2. Backstory: His father died five years ago and since then he has been the new father of the GOT family. He trusts very few in his family mostly just the six orphans he befriended as a child and welcomed into his family as brothers. He protects them and treats them as if they are his own children. He’s in charge of all of his family’s illegal acts but is smart enough to keep everything under the government’s radar. When another mafia gang tries to interfere with them he puts his best skill at work, taking pictures and videos of his enemies in very compromising situations.  He then uses these to blackmail them into submission.
  3. Weapons of choice: Camera, Shotgun, Handgun
  4. Perspective on love: “Every woman who has approached me only wants my power; they’ve never loved me they’ve only feared me.”

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Introduction Instructions

Ok, guys, gonna aim to prevent a thing I see a LOT in the rescue community.

“My single male dove coos and courts me all the time. He must be so lonely!”

He could very well be, depending on how much time you are able to spend with him.

But if he’s been single long term, he is more likely be reminding you that he loves you or declaring your house to be HIS for all who may hear.

Please be VERY careful about introducing any birds to a male dove.

Single columbids tend to sight mate to their owners, and because they mate for life, they are not likely to leave you for some strange bird willingly.

But if time has changed, and you can’t be with your cock for as long as you were able to begin with, it will benefit him to have a mate.

Pigeon cocks, being very social and flirtatious, are more easily swayed to accept a pigeon hen as his mate.

But Ringneck Cocks are VICIOUSLY territorial!

If introduced in space that belongs to him, any new bird, regardless of sex, will be seen as an intruder and attacked until she either disappears, or the combination of stress and food guarding kills her.

Yes, he will do this to hens, just the same as he would to an invading cock, because Ringneck hens do not come to cocks to seek out mates. Cocks go to hens. Thus, he will assume any bird entering his space to be male and will react accordingly

In order to safely introduce a cock to a hen, you must introduce him to her in HER space, which is going to be very difficult if he considers the entire house to be his.

Put her in which ever cage you want them to permanently share, and put him into the temporary cage in another room for the duration of her quarantine. (4 week minimum, you don’t know where she’s been, and even if you do, moves are stressful and courtship is very hard on dove hens, so she will need as much time as possible to bulk up and get ready for him.)

After quarantine, you can move his temporary cage into her room, where he can see her, but do not let them interact for at least a week.

You can let them have separate flight time, but only try to introduce them during free flight after that week is up.

If they seem interested (by which I mean he does the bow-coo march in place at her), then you can put hem in the same enclosure.

He will immediately attack her, but please do not interfere! Chasing her after expressing sexual interest is part of their courtship called Driving.

If you remove her, you will confirm her to be an intruder, and he will no longer try to romantically drive her. The next time he has contact with her, he really will be trying to hurt her because clearly she didn’t get the message the first time and is trying to invade again!

Please take this into careful consideration and don’t just toss a Ringneck Hen in with a lonely cock and hope for the best.

The best is NOT what will happen with out these steps!

If your lonely Dove is a HEN, however, pretty much anyone, male or female, can be safely introduced to her, after they have come through quarantine.

Expect a squabble if the new bird is a cock. He will immediately want to drive her. Giving them a nest will help things settle faster.

Your lady may be annoyed by another hen, and hens are also territorial, but they don’t generally attack eachother out right. Instead, they both settle in a nest and each tries to quietly elbow the other out. First one to leave loses.

This is why there should not be a nest present when two hens are introduced. They can and often will go hungry trying to outlast eachother to win the rights to it.

When they begin amicably preening, and you are certain both are eating, you can give them a nest and they will usually share it.

Ringneck doves must be kept in PAIRS ONLY! NEVER keep ringnecks in a permanent flock! They are NOT social! 
Adults will attack their own babies to drive them out around 4 weeks old, regardless of how big the cage is.

The Flock in my aviary ONLY works because the population is unstable and mostly comprised of babies.

Most are sold before 6 months of age and those who are not are usually my keep backs for breeding that get paired around then. So very few are around long enough to mature and start fighting.

such a huge relief that hillary’s so ahead in the polls and trump has such a small chance of winning, right? WRONG. DO NOT GET APATHETIC OR COMFORTABLE. DO NOT DECIDE YOU DON’T NEED TO VOTE BECAUSE YOU’RE SURE HILLARY WILL WIN. the only way trump can win now is if so many people expected to vote for hillary don’t show up to the polls. because you BETTER believe ALL of his supporters will be at the polls.

brexit passed in the UK because young people grew apathetic because they were sure it wasn’t going to pass. and it did, because old racists and xenophobes showed up in DROVES to vote.

tl;dr: VOTE, PEOPLE. VOTE LIKE YOUR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT. IT MIGHT.

rant about thai k-idols

okay so,,, i’ve seen A LOT of ppl using a thai idol’s real name as if it’s normal (esp in fanfics) and as a person who grew up in thailand and is thai,,, that is actually very awkward. a thai person is born w a first name, last name, and nick name. the nick name is the name you will be called by throughout your whole life and many of your friends would prob never know your full name tbh. your full name is only used in official papers and business type situations. for example, in school, the teacher would call you by your first name and your nickname (it depends what they’re saying,, if it’s roll call or smth like that it’s your first name!!) i’m going to use ten as an example, so bare with me. if you’re friends w ten, you would never call him ‘chittaphon’. not even his family would call him ‘chittaphon’. it’s really just used for MAINLY official papers. please just call your thai idol by their nickname (which is most likely their stage name). i’m sure this is hard to understand bc different culture,, but i’m honestly rly uncomfortable w it??? it’s okay that you’ve been ignorant to this, but i hope you guys learned something new!! feel free to msg me for any questions!

Honestly like the most unrealistic part of Supergirl is that Kara doesn’t have an entire gaggle of female friends because she is TOTALLY that friend who always has a hair tie and texts you on Friday night to see if you want to come over and bake cookies and will bring you chocolate and give you a back rub when you’re on your period and writes heartfelt happy birthdays on facebook like basically Kara is the sweetest girl ever and literally any girl who ever met her would cling to that friendship like her life depended on it

Words from Lilith, the Dark Moon

Inspired by a conversation with @wizkhalibra

Lilith in Aries:

Words of fierce determination and competitive jealousy

“It’s now or never”

“Life is an adventure”

“Why don’t you just be like me?”

Lilith in Taurus:

Words of lust for sex, money, or power

“This is why I work, so I can buy what I want,”

“I deserve to have this,”

“I feel safe in your arms”

Lilith in Gemini:

Words of cunning manipulation and hope for approval

“Do you like the way my words make you feel”

“I would never be that selfish,”

“Well you’re mine and I’m single”

Lilith in Cancer:

Words of support and dependency

“I do so much for you,”

“I want to make a family with you,”

“It’s like I’ve loved you once before,”

Lilith in Leo:

Words of attention and ego-stroking fun

“Let’s play the game of love,”

“you’re mine do you hear me, I don’t share,”

“Do you like the way I move,”

Lilith in Virgo:

Words of innocent seduction and dissatisfaction

“I love to please you”

“I can make you better,”

“Let’s not talk about faults shall we,”

Lilith in Libra:

Words of charming seduction

“You make me stronger,”

“I’m what you want and need,”

“Aren’t you happy we found each other,”

Lilith in Scorpio:

Words of true seduction and obsession

“you couldn’t handle me”

“I own you,”

“Sex is a means to an end,“

Lilith in Sagittarius:

Words of honesty and a need to win

“Let’s get a hotel for the weekend,”

“Let’s try this next, I’m bored,”

“All eyes are on us where they belong”

Lilith in Capricorn:

Words of modesty and class

“Consider yourself lucky,”

“I’m willing to invest my time in you,”

“Let’s just be real about this,”

Lilith in Aquarius:

Words of experimentation and rebellion

“You’ve never met anyone like me”

“I bet you’ve never tried this,”

“It’s lonely when you’re a little bit strange”

Lilith in Pisces:

Words of transcending bliss and quick exits

“How about in the shower,”

“I want to feel like we’re one,”

“You’re always in my thoughts,”

How to adult on a budget for the lazy and new adulting people (by a not-so-adulty-adult)
  • learn how to cut your own hair. If it’s something easy like an undercut or just trimming your ends every month, you’ll look clean and put together without shelling out $20 every month. (my hair cutting stuff cost like $20 total)
  • if you have to go to a laundromat, make your own detergent. Or just in general. It’s about $15 for everything you’ll need and it’ll make you a solid 6-10 batches depending on how many soap bars you get. 1 bar ivory soap or fels-naptha (ivory works just fine tbh. Cheaper and easier to find) Grate that shit. 1 cup borax and 1 cup washing powder. Mix that shit. 1 tablespoon in the wash. Boom. Add essential oils if you so choose. 
  • On the topic of laundry, throw all your clothes in the same load. Use the cold-cold setting and you can put those red shirts in with your whites with no bleeding whatsoever. (read those tags tho. unless it needs special care, most shirts/pants/socks/underwear can all be thrown together)
  • When money is tight for food, rice, 2 pounds of chicken, some kind of stock or bouillon cubes, and frozen veggies make about 2-3 different meals. 
  • Keep a few bouillon cubes handy tbh. Cook rice in it. Make soup. They’re so much cheaper than stock itself.
  • Coconut oil for everything from actual oil to chapstick to cracked skin. 
  • Baby powder makes a fairly good dry shampoo. Put it on your roots, scrub around, brush out. Boom. 
  • Make scripts for all phone calls you ever have to make to make them go smoother. (bills, doctors, work, etc)
  • Fill 1 side of the sink with water to do your dishes and then rinse with the smallest amount of water possible so you dont end up using a lot of water. 
  • Gasbuddy.com helps you find the cheapest gas near you!
  • Aldi has great cheap groceries
  • If you live alone or with 1 roommate, you don’t really need more than 12 megabyte internet speed. By yourself? Don’t get more than 6 tbh. You won’t need it. 
  • Freeze all meats and veggies! Let’s be honest. You wont be eating carrots every day or that ground beef often enough for it to not go bad, Throw it in the freezer. 
  • Dollar store cleaning supplies save the world. Everything there besides liquid soap is basically just as good. (glass cleaner, bleach, magic erasers, so on and so forth)
  • Dollar stores in general. Most things there will do in a pinch. (earbuds and most electronic/battery powered things are a no-no however)
  • Nail polish remover gets hair dye stains. Hydrogen peroxide gets up blood. Milk for ink. Chalk for oil. 
  • Once you finish using a pot or pan, put hot water in it until you’re ready to clean it. Stuff will just wipe off.
Your mind is like a magnet. Depending on what you think, you will then attract into your life. Be mindful of what thoughts go through your head, for you never know what they’re drawing towards you.
reasons to read Siren’s Lament:

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ABS PARTIALLY OBSCURED BY TEXT BUBBLES GDI

ABS IN PROXIMITY TO OTHER ABS

and mORE ABS

Bonus: Some butt cleavage

What The Signs Need To Focus On
  • Check Sun & Moon Sign.
  • Reblog to remind yourself.
  • Aries: Finishing things they've put off. *You've procrastinated for far too long.
  • Taurus: What they want to do in school/work/life. *You can't keep living without a clear goal.
  • Gemini: Being honest with their true selves. *Stop trying to change yourself for your friends or family.
  • Cancer: Not depending on others for their personal happiness. *Sometimes those you count on most will fail you.
  • Leo: Being okay with being alone and independent. *You don't always need someone to feel secure.
  • Virgo: Understanding not everyone thinks like them. *You don't need to convince everyone of your beliefs.
  • Libra: There are better things to concern yourself with than superficial things. *Looks and status don't define you or anybody else, so stop thinking that it does.
  • Scorpio: Starting a healthy eating/ fitness regimen. *You keep telling yourself "someday" - the time is now and the longer you wait the more time you're wasting.
  • Sagittarius: Being real and genuine. *You think you're good at fooling people, but you're not, it's completely transparent.
  • Capricorn: Doing what they enjoy. *You get so swept up in what everybody else is doing tend to lose your interests easily.
  • Aquarius: Being truly kind and compassionate. *Sometimes your selfishness and arrogance can get in the way of your relationships, try thinking of others feelings first for a change and watch your life get better.
  • Pisces: Being humble. *You tend to compare yourself with others so much that you may start building a complex that you're better than everybody else - forget that and just try to be okay with who you are at the moment.

So I made another collection! This round of inspirational quotes goes to the philosophers. Like the other times, I hope you enjoy these inspirational quotes and find them inspiring too!

Plato

  • “The beginning is the most important part of the work.”
  • “A good decision is based on knowledge and not on numbers.”
  • “The good is the beautiful.”

Lao Tzu

  • “From caring comes courage.”
  • “Do the difficult things while they are easy and do the great things while they are small. A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step.”
  • “When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everybody will respect you.”
  • “At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want.”
  • “Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.”

Aristotle

  • “Happiness depends upon ourselves.”
  • “You will never do anything in this world without courage. It is the greatest quality of the mind next to honor.”

Socrates

  • “Be as you wish to seem.”
  • “It is not living that matters, but living rightly.”
  • “Let him that would move the world first move himself.”

Epictetus

  • “No great thing is created suddenly.”
  • “The key is to keep company only with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best.”
  • “It takes more than just a good looking body. You’ve got to have the heart and soul to go with it.”
  • “First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.”
  • “Practice yourself, for heaven’s sake in little things, and then proceed to greater.”
  • “There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.”
  • “Make the best use of what is in your power, and take the rest as it happens.”
  • “Do not seek to bring things to pass in accordance with your wishes, but wish for them as they are, and you will find them.”
  • “It is not he who reviles or strikes you who insults you, but your opinion that these things are insulting.”
  • “Neither should a ship rely on one small anchor, nor should life rest on a single hope.”
  • “It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.”
  • “The greater the difficulty the more glory in surmounting it. Skillful pilots gain their reputation from storms and tempests.”
  • “You may be always victorious if you will never enter into any contest where the issue does not wholly depend upon yourself.”

Soren Kierkegaard

  • “Be that self which one truly is.”
  • “Life has its own hidden forces which you can only discover by living.”
  • “The highest and most beautiful things in life are not to be heard about, nor read about, nor seen but, if one will, are to be lived.”
  • “Face the facts of being what you are, for that is what changes what you are.”
  • “Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.”

Hypatia

  • “Life is an unfoldment, and the further we travel the more truth we can comprehend. To understand the things that are at our door is the best preparation for understanding those that lie beyond.”
  • “Reserve your right to think, for even to think wrongly is better than not to think at all.”

Confucius

  • “The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential… these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence.”
  • “It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.”
  • “Everything has beauty, but not everyone sees it.”
  • “Wherever you go, go with all your heart.”
  • “When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don’t adjust the goals, adjust the action steps.”
  • “Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”

Albert Camus

  • “To be happy we must not be too concerned with others.”
  • “Basically, at the very bottom of life, which seduces us all, there is only absurdity, and more absurdity. And maybe that’s what gives us our joy for living, because the only thing that can defeat absurdity is lucidity.”
  • “I know of only one duty, and that is to love.”
  • “The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.”
  • “You cannot create experience. You must undergo it.”
  • “You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.”
Crossember Challenge

Helloooo everybody. I noticed that it’s almost december and,as some of you already knew,I was working on a Crossember Challenge list! I almost forgot about it,sorry ^^;; (Also I’m posting this from my phone so I can’t make this post too organized,sorry again >_<)

What’s this,you ask? This list is filled with drawing prompts about Cross,Underverse and/or X-tale. Each day of december,you must draw one of these,depending on the number. Of course, you don’t have to do them all if you can’t, this is mostly just for funsies :D do what you feel like drawing!

Feel free to let your imagination and creativity flow,be as creative as you want while you follow the prompts. That’s the whole point of this ^^ and to enjoy this little challenge, of course!


CROSSEMBER PROMPT LIST:

1 - KNOCK KNOCK, IT’S CROSS! - Let’s start the challenge by drawing Cross coming into your life (and bothering you for the next 31 days,probably).

2 - UNDERFELL - Cross going to Underfell was a wild ride! Why not drawing something about the Episode 0.2? Or maybe something you had in mind? What if Cross came back? Let your imagination flow! Just draw Cross with something related to Underfell.

3 - UNDERSWAP - As many of us already know (and it has already been confirmed) the next AU we will see in Underverse is Underswap. What do you expect to happen in 0.3?

4 - THE CALM BEFORE THE STORM - Everything was okay before Error came to take Cross’ Soul.

5 - WHAT IF… - Ever thought about something that could’ve happened in an episode,instead of what you’ve seen? Tell us what you had in mind!

6 - CROSSCOLATE - Chocolate everywhere!!!

7 - CROSS IN YOUR FAVORITE AU - Perhaps Cross will go to your favorite AU…perhaps he won’t…either way,what would Cross be doing in your favorite AU?

8 - CROSS vs ERROR - Let’s make an hypothetical Cross vs Error fight! (Extra rating points if you give it a context!)

9 - MEANWHILE IN THE STUDIO… - The stars of the show need to take breaks between each episode. What could they be doing right now? (It doesn’t have to be related to the current events of the studio).

10 - LET THE X-EVENT BEGIN - Use your imagination for this prompt!

11 - ANGST - Oooohhh boy so sad! Is Cross suffering? Or maybe his loved ones? Whatever it is,make it as sad as you can.

12 - THE “SLIPPERCIAL” attack - Cross can’t run away from his past. The chancla will haunt him forever!

13 - FAVORITE PART OF UNDERVERSE - Re-draw your favorite part of the animated series.

14 - FAVORITE PART OF X-TALE - Re-draw your favorite part of the comic.

15 - TACOS! - Give this dork some tacos.

16 - RUN CROSS! RUN! - Cross screwed something up,and he must escape from the consequences. What does he have to run away from? (Try also adding context. Be as creative as you can!)

17 - I CHOOSE YOU! - Cross decided to become a Pokemon trainer. What pokemon or team does he have?

18 - HAVIN A GOOD TIME - Let this suffer ball be happy for once.

19 - SWAP - Cross could use some new clothes,don’t you think? Swap his clothes with someone else’s!

20 - CROSS YOUR LEGS - Who needs knives with legs like these? Draw cross as sexy -and funny- as you can (with mettaton legs of course).

21 - NOTICE ME SENPAI - Cross wants to get someone’s attention. Who are they?

22 - PUNS AND PRANKS - Cross could use some spare time to make some jokes and pranks. What puns,jokes and/or pranks does he do and who is/are his victim/s?

23 - X-PET - Cross was starting to feel alone,so he got a pet. What did he get? (Maybe he stole it lol).

24 - SANSTA CROSS IS COMING TO TOWN - Sansta Cross is planning something for Christmas! But what is he up to?

25 - MERRY X-MAS - Draw Cross having lots of gifts -or none at all- or just someone giving him a gift,or even him giving a gift to someone. Spread the christmas spirit,Giant X!

26 - FRESH!CROSS - Draw the freshest rad Cross possible!

27 - THAT HEART LOCKET DOESN’T BELONG TO YOU - Looks like Cross is pissed about something.

28 - INK & CROSS - \Imagination//

29 - REJECTED - It’s almost new year! new hopes and dreams for everybody…I wonder if Echotale!Frisk is going to notice Cross!Chara and his charms? -probably not-

30 - THANKS! - Let’s give a huge thanks to @jakei95 for creating this wonderful character by drawing her and cross together! :D <3

31 - THE END - Let’s say goodbye to this 2016 so we can give a warm welcome to the brand new 2017!


Or course,there are some prompts that probably Cross!Sans fits perfectly,but if you have an idea with Cross!Chara and it follows the prompt,you can totally do it!!

I hope that everybody can have some fun with these prompts~ ^_^ Enjoy this little challenge!

Christmas Asks
  • Candy Cane: Sweetest gift anyone has ever gotten you?
  • Caroling: Favorite song to sing in the shower?
  • Christmas: What is your favorite part about the holiday season?
  • Coal: Meanest trick/prank you ever pulled in someone?
  • Decorations: How would you describe your sense of style?
  • Eggnog: Who do you turn to in your time of need?
  • Elf: Are you considered dependable?
  • Feliz Navidad: Can you speak more than one language?
  • Frosty The Snowman: Who was your childhood hero?
  • Gingerbread House: Describe your dream home and where it would be?
  • Jingle Bells: What song would you hate to get stuck in your head?
  • Jolly: What makes you the happiest?
  • Mistletoe: Describe the best kiss of your life so far?
  • North Pole: Would you rather be hot or cold?
  • Nutcracker: Your most painful injury?
  • Ornaments: On a scale of 1-10, how creative would you rate yourself?
  • Poinsettia: What flower has the best scent?
  • Presents: Do you like being spoiled?
  • Reindeer: What animal would you associate yourself with most?
  • Santa Claus: Who do you look up to most?
  • Snowflake: Do you consider yourself to be unique?
  • Stockings: Do you have any unusual traditions?
  • Sugarplum: What satisfies your sweet tooth most?
  • Tinsel: What is one accessory you can't live without?
  • Winter: Name 3 people you would cuddle up with in front of a fire?
  • Yuletide: The top 3 things in your life that make you the most happy?

So you’ve made a spell jar….now what?

I was recently asked what to do with a spell jar once it’s made. I thought my answer would be simple, but the more I wrote, the more I realized it wasn’t. So here’s a guide for those that need it showing what to do with different bottles depending on your intent.


Positive influence on yourself or in your life:
-Place somewhere you will see it very often, like a sunny window, bedside table, desk, or altar. Seeing it every day will help strengthen your intent and remind yourself why you made it.
-Place somewhere that you meditate. If you meditate regularly you can take a few moments during that time to hold the jar and focus on the spell, the result that you want, and how to help make that happen.
-Keep it on your person throughout the day. If the jar is small enough, it can be kept on you inside a purse/bag, coat pocket, or as a necklace. It will act as a conductor for the positivity that you want.

Beauty/Glamour:
-Place on vanity or in bathroom. Placing it at the central point of your daily beauty routine will maximize the use of the spell bottle.
-Keep in makeup bag/kit. Keeping it in a container with all of your beauty supplies will infuse it’s intent with everything inside.
-Stash inside your dresser or closet with the clothes that correspond to your spell (date clothes, party/club clothes, formal wear, lingerie).
-Bury in a pot of flowers and keep by a mirror you use for your daily beauty routine. Flowers are a universal symbol of beauty and having something living channel your spell makes it much stronger.
-Keep it on your person throughout the day. If the jar is small enough, it can be kept on you inside a purse/bag, coat pocket, or as a necklace. Keeping the jar close to you will help influence the beauty spell/glamour longer and stronger.

Weight Loss/Gain and Exercise:
-Stash inside your gym bag/locker. It will serve as a boost right before you work out.
-Keep with your food. If you are using it to control eating habits, keep it in your pantry/fridge IN FRONT of all of your food. It will be a barrier between you and your food. You’ll have to get past the jar before you touch anything else.
-Keep it on you’re kitchen table. If you are using it to battle eating disorders and/or increase your eating habits, place it where you eat all of your meals.
-Take it with you while you move. If you like to ride your bike for exercise, use an unbreakable/break resistant bottle and tie it to your bike. If you like to walk/run with your kids in a running stroller, put it on the stroller where your child can’t reach it.
-Store it with your work out clothes. The spell will bleed over into the clothes so that you have it whenever you put them on.
-Keep it on your person. If the jar is small enough, it can be kept on you inside a purse/bag, coat pocket, or as a necklace. It will influence you as well as remind you of our goals all day.

Influence Relationships:
-Place in the heart of your home. If you are trying to influence your family or the relationships within, keep it where you’re family spends time together the most (kitchen, livingroom mantle, game room, dining room). If you can’t practice openly at home, use a container that is pretty and not see through, fill it completely so it doesn’t rattle, and glue it shut. That way, to everyone else, it will just be pretty decoration.
-Give it as a gift. Decorate the bottle and give it as a gift to the person whose relationship with you, you want to influence.
-Keep next to their photo. Keep it next to a photo of the person you wish to change your relationship with.
-Keep it on your person. If the jar is small enough, it can be kept on you inside a purse/bag, coat pocket, or as a necklace. The bottle will work it’s magic whenever you are around the specified person.

Health:
-Stash in the bedroom. Placing the jar on your nightstand, under your pillow, or under your bed will allow health spells to work while you sleep, especially if you are bedridden.
-Store with your medicine. If you have to take medication regularly, store it with your meds.
-Keep next to your drinking water. If you use drinking water that isn’t from a tap, store the jar where you store your water. The spell will bleed into your drinking water to influence your health.
-Keep it on your person. If the jar is small enough, it can be kept on you inside a purse/bag, coat pocket, or as a necklace. If it is on your person, it can influence your health all day, healing you or protecting you from an illness that is spreading.

Dreams:
-Stash in the bedroom. Placing it on your nightstand, under your pillow, or under your bed will keep it close while you sleep so it can influence your dreams.
-Store with your pajamas. Storing it with the clothes that you sleep in will infuse them with the spell’s energy (unless you sleep naked of course, but I don’t need to know about that). 

Wards/Banishments:
-Keep it on your person. If the jar is small enough, it can be kept on you inside a purse/bag, coat pocket, or as a necklace. It will act as a shield to keep away whatever you want.
-Bury it in your yard. If you are just trying to banish something/someone from your life or ward them away from your home and family, bury it in your yard. It will act as a shield.
-If you are trying to banish something/someone and send them far away from you, bury next to train tracks.
-If you are trying to banish thoughts or habits or trying to forget something, bury it in a cemetery. If you can’t bury it in a cemetery, bury it somewhere in the woods and forget it’s location.


If anyone wants to add something that I missed, please feel free!

TREAT YO SELF

Moon, Venus or Ceres in Aries:

Go on a hike to a place with a marvelous view. The sense of accomplishment will feed your self worth, inspire your ambition, & satisfy your drive.

Teach yourself an unfamiliar sport or other active hobby. Honing a new, exciting skill by yourself will make you feel more independent than ever.

Congratulate yourself. Being proud of your achievements can open healthy channels of emotion. Appreciate the finish lines you cross.


Moon, Venus or Ceres in Taurus:

Pamper yourself. Get a massage, go out to eat, go shopping, or binge-watch Netflix. Reward your steady, dependable strength with some relaxation.

Work with your hands, such as with pottery or baking. Activities of the like will freshen your creative spirit and provide immediate, tangible results for effort.

Repair or replenish one of life’s necessities. Maintaining your household and keeping things in working order will make you feel grounded and productive.


Moon, Venus or Ceres in Gemini:

Journal. Expressing your thoughts & feelings openly and completely will make you feel refreshed, validated, and a bit less stifled or exhausted.

Go to a party or other lively event. Surrounding yourself with dynamic & cheerful activity will energize you. If you engage, you’ll feel integrated.

Join online forum discussions. Engaging with other people over subjects you’re knowledgeable about will fire up & satisfy your complex intellect.


Moon, Venus or Ceres in Cancer:

Take a lot of photos. Being able to re-immerse yourself in old memories will satisfy your sentimentality. Sometimes a little nostalgia is good for you.

Hug someone. Random expressions of affection are important. Savor the emotional fulfillment & sense of safety created by this sweet, simple gesture.

Create a sanctuary for yourself, a safe place you can retreat to. Peace & quiet are special resources. Learn to appreciate and enjoy your own company.


Moon, Venus or Ceres in Leo:

Post selfies or create self-portraits. Show off a little. Draw some positive attention to yourself to replenish your confidence and self-assurance.

Arrange / administer to a group activity. This will spark pride in the accomplishments you orchestrate / in the respect leading something garners.

Attend some kind of extravagant event. Belonging in a luxurious atmosphere will make you feel like royalty – valuable and significant.


Moon, Venus or Ceres in Virgo:

Take care of your body. Exercise, eat healthy, try a new skincare routine. Improving your health & appearance will boost your self-worth & confidence.

Edit, refine, or critique something. Assisting others in their pursuit of improvement & doing work that needs to be done will make you feel useful.

Watch over a pet or plant(s). Animals & nature are pure things, and to be part of their well-being could be an immensely rewarding experience.


Moon, Venus or Ceres in Libra:

Go to an art gallery or something similar. A beautiful, sophisticated atmosphere will make you feel comfortable & fulfilled. Your refined taste will be satisfied.

Grow a garden or decorate a room. Creating a peaceful, aesthetically pleasing place will remind you of your own splendor, and you can share it with others.

Reinvent your style. Finding a new way to express yourself can make you feel refreshed. It will be a major step toward cultivating self-approval.


Moon, Venus or Ceres in Scorpio:

Take down another one of your walls with someone you trust. Cultivating intimacy will satiate many of your needs, insecurities, and discomforts.

Go to a place where you are completely anonymous. Be someone new for a day. Become one of the mysteries you love so much. It will be inspiring.

Meditate. When you’re alone, you probably analyze things intensely; take a break from this. Clear your mind. The relaxation will be very rewarding.


Moon, Venus or Ceres in Sagittarius:

Look into a religion or ideology you know little about. Gathering unfamiliar knowledge will expand not only your mind, but your self-satisfaction as well.

Go to a “boring” town and discover something interesting about it. Finding intrigue where there is only monotony is the greatest kind of exploration.

Start a deep discussion with someone who is very different from you. If no one turns unnecessarily hostile, you can probably teach each other something.


Moon, Venus or Ceres in Capricorn:

Write a detailed to-do list for a weekend and complete the entire thing. This will open up free time for relaxation afterwards & make you feel very productive.

If you have an important goal, devise a plan for it. Giving yourself a secure path to follow will promote steady workflow and a comfortable sense of safety.

Lighten up. Find a safe space to be yourself in, and relax. This will refresh & energize you, and release a lot of your built-up tension. Let a few things go.


Moon, Venus or Ceres in Aquarius:

Contribute to a good cause – donate to a charity or someone in need, or volunteer somewhere. This will boost your self-worth and may enlighten you.

Take a day to spend time with friends, or go out of your way to make new ones. Trust, expression, and connection open healthy channels of emotion.

Appreciate your own uniqueness. There’s no better way to feel like you matter than to find yourself worthy of your own attention and approval.


Moon, Venus or Ceres in Pisces:

Do one unsolicited favor a day. Expressing & manifesting your own kind nature in a way you will notice will increase your self-approval and self-worth.

Create something. Set your imagination free & let your inspiration run wild. This will be refreshing & you’ll have a lasting extension of who you are.

Go to an immersive art event, like an interactive play. Losing yourself in a tangible fantasy will release a lot of your negative feelings & may inspire you.