like ugh i shouldnt but i do

Storytime

so when I say “don’t let yourself be the only black person in a group of whites” i have a  total of 3 experiences that come with this piece of wisdom. 

The first time some shit happened, it was on an online chatroom when I was like?? hella young, i think 11 or so. Some white in the group accused me of calling them a bitch (i didnt) and got all the other whites to ostracize me. Months later, the same girl who accused me of that tried to talk to me again, saying “no we didn’t say it was you, it was someone else” and tried to gaslight me. This was just when I was 11.

A few years ago, I was in college and I met this one white girl who introduced me to her white friends. (She had 1 Chinese friend in that group, but still.) I started hanging out with her white friends until a white boy in the group said some bullshit. I can’t remember what he said, I just know that we had a heated argument about the Dominican Republic, and he was tryna tell me about MY island. Next thing you know, I’m out of the group chats, but the white girl was still my roommate. 

One day, she texts me “ugh I hate him” and im like ???? girl what he do (not that Im surprised). And she tells me how he threw a tantrum over the fact that she wrote, on her personal blog, under a readmore cut mind you, that she was on her period. He was grossed out and said she shouldnt say that ever because half the world’s population was grossed out by it.

The entire group jumped on him because the entire group, except him, were white women. SO on top of not being the only black in a group of whites, know that if you are, white women will never have your back with racism, but they will suddenly want your sympathy and emotional support when they get hit with misogyny from their own men.

Its pathetic.

Learn from me, guys.

Don’t let yourself be the only black person a group of whites.

(I’m intentionally leaving out the third part because it was pretty recent and has to do with a group of whites on tumblr and my petty ass would @ them, but I’m not about to drag some whites to this blog when they shouldnt even know anything about it)

-mod r

Oh my goood. Could ppl restrain about making comments abt other ppl’s body hair??? Who cares if they’re wearing shorts if they have leg hair? Who cares if there hair pits are showing??? It’s not your fucking body and to suggest that ‘you should probably shave ur arms/legs/etc’ is rude af. Could ppl stop acting so entitled jesus chirst

anonymous asked:

How do we contact Taylor nation for school notes lmao all my work from this weekend is gonna either be subaverage due to THIS SLIGHT DISTRACTION FROM SCHOOL or extraordinary due to inspiration SINCE OUR GIRL IS OUT THERE LIVING HER BEST LIFE SO WHY SHOULDNT I️ BE WORKING HARD TO LIVE MINE and I’d just like my teachers to Know what’s with the sudden change either way LOL

SAME LMAO i’ve been tryna do the same assignment since yesterday and i’ve barely done anything worth submitting im too distracted ugh

anonymous asked:

ugh i have an older dude friend who's actually overall pretty good but boy oh boy I took the leap and started vent-bitching abt sexual harassment and like. it never clicked until now how completely unable to have that convo without making it about themselves dudes are. to his credit it was less defensive and more 'am i doing this? can i offer you ten useless attempts at solutions?' but it was just so exhausting and it ended up with me reassuring him for like... half an hour lmao.

shouldnt have bothered tbh

spicy nick day again? ugh..

why does this exist?

this is one of the many problems with the fandom

people doing idiotic crap like this (stop corrupting Zootopia with this trash, whatever weird fantasies you have keep them to yourself, or share it privately i don’t care)

and it’s here again so i am assuming it is the 14th of every month?

that is ridiculous….

Gamzee’s mech, codenamed Capricorn.  I’d love to have a badass quote to insert here about how badass the story is and how badass Gamzee is in the story, but I’m not that witty.  I woulda drawn Karkat’s mech Cancer, the nightmarish black and red monster that haunts John’s dreams, but I stay true to my title of Makara trash queen and … yeah.  This will not be the last fanart I draw for this story, though, and that’s a promise.

So uh just go read it, okay?  Best week you’ve ever spent reading a novel-quality fic I promise.

fullview please because tumblr royally ganked the quality ugh

anonymous asked:

WHY on EARTH do white people insist on giving their opinion on racism?! I saw someone ask 'is there racism in xxx city' and then white people all answer like 'I have never encountered racism while I was there' and 'you shouldnt let racist people stop you from going somewhere' and shit like that and it really pissed me of because they do not understand yet they insist on giving their input. They dont realise the subtle racism we encounter. The stares. Cnstant feeling that you're not welcome. Ugh.

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Text || Jayson
  • Charlie: i quit,
  • Charlie: u win, im sorry. i shlud have never done ne of the thngs i did, i shdnt have slept with ethan and i shouldnt hav ben mean to you. i'm so so s osos so sosososo sorry, jay. i love yu so much nd id do anthing to get u back, lfe suxs without my favorte gay. i shld nevr hav let my felings fr ethn get in the wy and im sorry pls pls pls plspls pls pls dnt hate me plase

anonymous asked:

i get why a 17 shouldnt date a 24 year old but like when she is 21 and he is 28 is better? because they are kind of in the same mind state now?

ugh why do we always have to play these games, adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers, stop with the fucking hypotheticals, stop with the fucking future age comparisons bc i don’t give a damn adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers adults shouldn’t be dating teenagers