im a trans boy and i graduate this year. i havent come out publicly and i dont plan to since dont want to go through the hassle with all my important exams coming up. after that i have 3-ish months until i go to a new school for 2 years. ideally i would start my transition then, like get a binder, a haircut, have people start referring to me w he/him pronouns n stuff but,, im not rlly ready to come out. should i force myself and be happier those 2 years, or stick it out and begin after that?
You can come out in the middle of school next year, that’s totally find. If possible, I would seek out other LGBT+ people, especially trans people as friends because they will be the most supportive and can even privately call you he/him, etc. but not out you to other people before you’re ready to come out in general at school. It’s not an all-or-nothing situation, and you can always come out at your own pace.