like myself w my new haircut

anonymous asked:

im a trans boy and i graduate this year. i havent come out publicly and i dont plan to since dont want to go through the hassle with all my important exams coming up. after that i have 3-ish months until i go to a new school for 2 years. ideally i would start my transition then, like get a binder, a haircut, have people start referring to me w he/him pronouns n stuff but,, im not rlly ready to come out. should i force myself and be happier those 2 years, or stick it out and begin after that?

Kai says:

You can come out in the middle of school next year, that’s totally find. If possible, I would seek out other LGBT+ people, especially trans people as friends because they will be the most supportive and can even privately call you he/him, etc. but not out you to other people before you’re ready to come out in general at school. It’s not an all-or-nothing situation, and you can always come out at your own pace.


i saw @academla write her post about natural beauty (!!!) on my dash, and i completely forgot that i was tagged in her 6 selfies post! and, so in honor of chinese new year(???) and my forever on-going battle to learn to love myself more, here are a couple of random selfies within the last year or so?? dis me with no makeup (bc how to do makeup someone teach me pls) (but for real though i feel like i should learn how to makeup……) and no filters, with the exception of the haircut one (i couldn’t find one w/o a filter) and the last one

they go in order actually from when they were taken hehe from january of last year to when i got my hair cut sometime in march, the #deerinheadlights look, my triumphant bathroom selfie from being able to successfully drive to the grocery store on a busy sunday afternoon HAH and finally the last one is just literally because why the fuck not LOL #yesfilter #tysnapchatforbeautification

honestly i’m still far from being comfortable with how i look (in pretty much all aspects), and selflove2k15 was far from a success, so idk if anyone has any tips i am all for that !!!!

i tag the following people because i want to see ur cute faces (sorry if i left out your url and we talk normally i’m just really scatter-brained right now because cramming in hw before CNY prep officially begins) (and aLSo, sorry if you’ve already been tagged oof) (but u can do it again e u e) (or reblog it if you already did it!! o u o) as well as anyone who sees/likes/does anything with this post. like honestly and if you do post it please tag me so i can reblog ur v cute ~*visages*~ yum

@somestudy @gryhffindors @muji-princess @tbhstudying @fuckstudy @areistotle @memoirs-of-a-high-school-student @gracelearns @study-ings (and @polizicalscience I OFFICIALLY TAG U I FORGOT TO ADD YOU IM TRASH IM SORRY)