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anonymous asked:

So I was at a big conference the past four days for school and I went to starbucks to get something to drink before an event so I had a nametag with my dead name on it. The guy at the counter asked for a name and I told him the name I go by. (Rowen) but he completely ignored me and wrote my deadname on the cup. He also ignored me when I tried to correct him. How do I handle people like this? I was really upset by it.

Don’t sweat the small stuff. You are not going to see this man again, if you want you can go to his manger and say hey I asked him to write a different name on my cup and he didn’t. You might get a free drink but odds are this dude hates his job, has been taking a million orders that day and is just use to looking up, writing the name that’s on your name tag and moving the line.

Some people aren’t trying to misgender you, some people aren’t trying to offend you, they just aren’t thinking.

I would not even let it bother you. Did he purposely misgender you? Probably not? Did he write something offensive on your cup? Nope. Did he get your drink wrong? Nope. 

If it were to keep happening I would complain but don’t let something so small ruin your day. I wouldn’t even think twice about it.

I know people are going to complain about this advice and be like oh you should care, you should go yell to the manger. Dude, sometimes people just don’t give a fuck, this world is crappy enough, let it go. 

People call me Kate all the time still because it’s on my ID even when I tell them Kyle because they are just trying to get through their day and not paying enough attention.

It’s coffee.


Harry/Harrie question thing!

I was tagged by @harrystylesalbum to do the harrie questions! thank you paige for tagging me!!!

i tag: @helladonut @harrysalbums @songbirdmp3 @extravirgo @brisonpreak @itubainaretro @fauxrry

Rules: you must answer the questions till the end and then tag another 10 harrie blogs to do the same! you can use videos/links/gifs/photos to answer the questions.

Your name: amanda
Your Age: 24

Where you live: brasil! (like harry’s tat)

1. Favorite look:

this is honest to god so hard…. im sorry but you are gonna have to accept 3 looks because i cant choose! all his looks are LOOKS tho 

2. Favorite tweet: again, i cant pick only one so here have 5!


king of being chris martins biggest stan

3. Favorite Interview: it HAS to be this one but the live lounge one is a CLOSE second

4. Favorite Stage Moment: this is a no brainer! ofc is this ICONIC day

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Incoming long post about Ezra Miller

If you don’t like Ezra Miller I’m sorry but have you seen him

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 why would you not like him

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 he’s precious

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but also very attractive

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and he’s so open about social problems and wants to raise awareness

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and don’t even get me started

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on his range

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as an actor

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he was the saving feature of We Need To Talk About Kevin for me

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and basically

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i love my queer son Ezra Miller ok

things you should definitely 100% not think about when you think about philip shea (except do because philip shea is perfect and you should always think about him)

- Okay, first of all, don’t think about how Philip was literally almost shot and actually did literally beg for his life for a moment and allowed himself to be scared about that for approximately .5 seconds before sucking it up and remaining seemingly calm for pretty much the rest of the show (except for when he realized tommy and tracey were in danger. because philip shea cares about other people. but once they are gone, he accepts it quickly and moves on. that is philips’ like number one skill. accept and move on. don’t think about why that is).

- Don’t think about how he somehow got to the city in the middle of the night and then didn’t even risk going inside. Don’t think about how he just curled up on the couch outdoors as if this was a common, acceptable place for him to sleep and passed out, alone, after almost being killed.

- Don’t think about how he goes from saying “I’m done. can’t go back, can’t go back there” to accepting he can’t live with him mom again in approximately ten seconds. He doesn’t argue too much about it. Doesn’t beg or plead or threaten to run away. Just says “I know” and gives his mom cigarettes and then sits and comes out to her because she wants to hear nice things about him and to him, lukas liking him back enough to kiss him is a nice thing.

- Don’t think about how when given the opportunity, Philip will sit next to a man who has almost definitely abused him and just do nothing but pretend the guy likes him.

- Don’t think about his honest confusion when he asks “Why not” after Lukas says he didn’t have sex with Rose.

- Don’t think about how Philip is so calm and willing to do or be whatever the person he loves (read: his mom and Lukas) needs him to be. I mean, yes, he tells Lukas no that one time and calls him on his shit other times, but really, overall, the kid is willing to put himself on the line for those he cares about: “Had to be cool for my mom—I can be cool for you to.” “What do you want me to say? I’ll say whatever you want.” Ugh, he just—he tells Lukas not to drink the hand sanitizer but then three seconds later he does the same thing, no questions asked, because Lukas tells him to. Don’t even get me started on the whole Rose debacle.

- Lukas freaks out when Philip hands him a condom, Philip minimizes it and says “It’s okay. it’s okay, it’s fine” coaxes him back down and no more pressure to do anything. Philip tells Lukas he told his mom about them, Lukas says “There’s nothing to say” and Philip just nods quickly, “Okay.” Doesn’t argue. Doesn’t call Lukas on anything. Just says okay and then offers to take Lukas into the city cause he thinks that will help him.

- Philip won’t get Lukas drugs, but he will help Lukas look for things to sell when he asks and go with him to the pawn shop and wait outside while he does it.

- And, like, I’m not saying this to say Philip is a pushover or weak, he’s not- he’s just contained. All the time. He is the stable one. The calm one. He is careful not to push too much. He thinks of solutions and waits to see if they will actually be listened to but is very, very cautious with actually being assertive with his ideas/wants/needs. He is just so much more attuned to everyone else.

- Oh, ALSO, don’t think too much about how Philip overheard Gabe and Helen arguing about him and chose to step out and put himself in that line of fire anyway. He could have just hung back and waited a little. Or, fuck, run off until things cooled down. But Gabe was being yelled at and they were arguing and so he decided to step in. Cause Philip wants to keep everyone happy.

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memories // panic! at the disco

Now that I think about “The Ones Who Walk Away From Omelas,” I came up with a small theory/metaphor.

I wrote a summary here for those who haven’t read the short story yet.
So the whole idea is based around this ‘perfect’ town by the sea called Omelas. The people of Omelas have a young child that has been sacrificed to keep the townspeople happy (with happiness comes evil theme). This child is not allowed to be fed nor spoken to by anyone. People can go see the child in person, but some walk away from Omelas not bearing the true horror the townspeople hold.

My point is that Bangtan gave themselves their group name in order to block/guard youth. “So [our name] means that we will boldly defend our music and our value and worth as people.” Maybe the music video will hold a metaphor of Bangtan protecting the neglected child. They’re against what the townspeople of Omelas have done to a child to keep their happiness. So while some walk away and never return to Omelas, they stay to protect the youth. Y’all get me? I’m almost positive this might be the message Bangtan will try to get across in the Spring Day music video.

its been so long but im still trying to figure out how you could go from “i love you” to “i don’t care about you anymore” in such a short amount of time

  • person in the 1960s: the cia controls the media
  • other person in the 1960s: oh thats just silly conspiracy theory shit, you're just crazy its not true
  • person today: not only does the CIA control the media but the FBI too has been granted the legal right to control it.
  • other people today: yeah we know. lol what can you do am i right?

After forever, I put myself together and start drawing again. I’m not sure how it ended but I’m kinda okay with the final result. I decided to draw Viktor because that anime hit me pretty hard actually and it’s the main reason I want to draw again (about a few weeks ago I started lurking #yoi tags and I found lots of amazing blogs and artists that gave me the inspiration to begin with all this thing, I can name some of them: @viktyuri, @victuurii@blau678​, @katsudonqween, @fishnbacon, @sinran, @nikyforov, @gays-on-ice@thacmis, @randomsplashes, @roselph and dkasd I could be the entire day tbh: check those blog and follow because they are amazing like super cool art and techniques, I adore the way the styles change depending of the artist and they are all so beautiful).

I found a healthy and charming fandom and idk that gave me the will to use Tumblr once again (maybe I’m being too sensitive about the whole thing but I’m really happy something like this exists lol) after having a weird-not-so-cool-time with vkei fandoms but, anyway, really sorry about my poor english and all the typos and since I want to meet new people so we can wait together to Season 2, please don’t be shy I’ll be right here :’) !  

-Merry Simsmas!-

Finally got S4S working again so I thought I’d recolour/retexture a base game two piece and remove the pattern from it! This is for everyone who is stuck celebrating Christmas in the heat :P

I also added in a matching hat!

-Please don’t reupload/claim as your own

-Feel free to recolour my retexture of the patternless two piece, but please give credit!

-If you use this, please tag me as I’d love to see! :3


Note: the colour swatches aren’t showing up for some reason in cas, so you’ll have to deal with the ugly glitchy swatches (sorry :(  I blame the new update!)

Benedict Cumberbatch. Going back to the white bristol paper, just to see if I could work with it again. I can, but I don’t like it as much as I used to. *sigh*

Mats used: Staedtler Pencil 2B, 3B,  6B and 8B (wich is actually Carbon, so very dark but waxy) , Palomino Blackwing pencil and General’s Powdered Graphite on Canson Mixed Media XL White Paper, (11X14 )

Thanks for looking! 

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I’m sorry that I have to say this, but please don’t ask other blogs to ask Jack something or to reblog something just so Jack can see it.  I’ve had a lot of people come to me recently asking me to do things because they think Jack will pay more attention to me than them, and I’m sure other blogs on here have had that same problem.

I love you guys, and I want you to get the chance to interact with Jack too, but asking me to get ahold of Jack isn’t polite.  It feels like you’re using me.  And also, Jack responds to anyone if he sees it.  He doesn’t pick favorites, and he doesn’t exclude “non-popular” blogs.  If you post a question in the tag or send it to him, there’s a good chance he will see it.  And if not, maybe try again another time.  Don’t spam it, but also don’t use blogs that you think are “more popular” to get Jack’s attention.

tl;dr, don’t use people to get to Jack. Jack tries to get to everyone, but sometimes he can’t.  Be respectful of that. :)