i really don’t understand the reasoning behind the decision to wait before sex in a dating scenario, to me it comes across like
“in order to enter a relationship with me, you must first undergo a Chastity Ritual, even though it’s obvious i also want to fuck because you can see my boner through my jeans”
like obviously i’ll respect that decision as non-consent, but why do people have to go through some silly test of worth and value before dicks: out?
i suppose what i’m really trying to say is
why can’t dicks just be out?