Life is too short to argue and fight. Count your blessings, value your love ones & move on with your head held high & a smile for everyone.
I think the thing that annoys me the most reading these people defending their character so vehemently is how they are missing the whole point of fandom. They get to enter a fantasy world and live it for a block of time & it wondrous that it actually exists in the 1st place. Everything has problems (except Avatar The Last Airbender tv show) but it exists and it makes people happy. Be fucking happy. Life is too short to not revel in the awesomeness that is your chosen fandom.